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[quote name='Saint Therese' date='30 November 2009 - 04:35 PM' timestamp='1259616951' post='2012127']
I ain't the one who told dude he needed therapy.
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yeah like that's bad advice

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Saint Therese

Whatever. I bumped this thread to tell Southern California Guy that sometimes it helps if you live somewhere where there are more women than men.
Everything else has nothing to do with me.

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[quote name='Saint Therese' date='30 November 2009 - 07:43 PM' timestamp='1259628190' post='2012251']
Whatever. I bumped this thread to tell Southern California Guy that sometimes it helps if you live somewhere where there are more women than men.
Everything else has nothing to do with me.
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See this is why protestants get mad at you.

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[quote name='Lilllabettt' date='30 November 2009 - 03:48 PM' timestamp='1259614081' post='2012100']
hey y'all. fyi, the OP was in July. As in summer. It's winter now.

Just saying.
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He still has the occasional thread that could use this same advice. :unsure:

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dominicansoul

[quote name='MissyP89' date='30 November 2009 - 02:41 PM' timestamp='1259610091' post='2012066']
Have you ever considered the possibility that you may be trying too hard? You come off as absolutely desperate here, and I can say as a young woman that neediness is ridiculously frustrating and unattractive. Negativity will get you nowhere. As long as you give into that and complain, you won't attract good things. Believe it or not, the way we feel inside really does have an effect on our personalities and how others see us. Try to be more confident and positive. Focus on your good qualities, and stop obsessing over finding a woman....they come when you stop looking.

Pray. You need to be right with God before you are ready for a relationship, and as someone who is thinking about atheism, there is probably something you need to work out with Him. Good luck.
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i have to agree...trying too hard and showing your desperation could kill the attraction a lady may have towards you if you just learned to be yourself...and be patient...

and...of course, prayer is the best remedy for loneliness...talking to God can remind us that we are NEVER alone...

The advice in this post is timeless...especially after reading some of his more recent posts...

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[quote name='catmandoo' date='05 December 2009 - 12:54 AM' timestamp='1259999693' post='2014904']
I am not in purgatory, it says I am "In Limbo (sorta)" what does this mean?
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You haven't posted enough to have full priveleges in the phorum. You need ten then you'll be out of limbo.

:welcome:

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[quote name='zunshynn' date='05 December 2009 - 03:03 AM' timestamp='1260000181' post='2014905']
You haven't posted enough to have full priveleges in the phorum. You need ten then you'll be out of limbo.

:welcome:
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Cool, now I'm a phatmasser.

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