prose Posted May 14, 2009 Share Posted May 14, 2009 One of my closest friends looks like he will be losing his mom. [quote]The nutshell version is that things have deteriorated very quickly. On Friday (tomorrow) it will have only been 3 weeks that cancer was even mentioned. They have determined that the primary site is in the bowel and it has already metastasized to the ovaries, stomach, liver, and lung. (This list has changed a few times, but as far as I understand this is the picture we're looking at.) She was in ICU for several days where it was determined that the risks of surgical intervention outweigh the potential benefits and that at this point she isn't strong enough for chemo or radiation treatment. As you can imagine, it has been an emotional rollercoaster ride. The palliative care team has started working with her and the plan is to focus on quality of life by controlling the pain. She is on a medical unit now waiting for a placement at one of the palliative sites.[/quote] This woman is quite literally a living saint. I have never had the pleasure of knowing anyone quite like her. I am so sad and emotional about this. Normally, I am all about God's will be done, but I am really praying for a miracle for this one. This world could really use a saint like her a little longer Please keep her son in your prayers also. This is a terrible time for everyone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StColette Posted May 14, 2009 Share Posted May 14, 2009 Prayers! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Marie-Therese Posted May 14, 2009 Share Posted May 14, 2009 Prose...most definite prayers. Just fyi, I'm an RN whose career has been dedicated to caring for advanced stage oncology patients, both in the hospital setting and in home hospice. If your friend would like an objective opinion, or just wants someone to talk to who is knowledgeable on the subject, PM me and I will give you my contact info. I'm always more than happy to give assistance when it comes to this. I stand in personal experience...my father turned 51 the week he was diagnosed with stage IV lung cancer which had metastasized to his brain. He lived for 6 weeks after the diagnosis, so I understand from both a patient/family and caregiver perspective what this situation is like. I pray the Blessed Virgin gives your friend her maternal embrace, and I will include your friend and his family in my rosary today. May the peace of Christ enfold them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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CatherineM Posted May 14, 2009 Share Posted May 14, 2009 Prayers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VoTeckam Posted May 14, 2009 Share Posted May 14, 2009 Praying for strength for her family and for her comfort. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prose Posted May 14, 2009 Author Share Posted May 14, 2009 We got terrible news that she may not make it throught the night tonight. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eagle_eye222001 Posted May 14, 2009 Share Posted May 14, 2009 Prayers regardless. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Selah Posted May 14, 2009 Share Posted May 14, 2009 Prayers! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rose wrought of iron Posted May 14, 2009 Share Posted May 14, 2009 Prayers . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
He is Risen! Posted May 14, 2009 Share Posted May 14, 2009 praying! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cmotherofpirl Posted May 14, 2009 Share Posted May 14, 2009 May her passing be as gentle as a summer breeze, as she waits to run to the Father who loves her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Bus Station Posted May 15, 2009 Share Posted May 15, 2009 [quote name='cmotherofpirl' post='1867435' date='May 14 2009, 07:22 PM']May her passing be as gentle as a summer breeze, as she waits to run to the Father who loves her.[/quote] Amen. Prayers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saintwannabe 777 Posted May 15, 2009 Share Posted May 15, 2009 Prayers! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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