Flirting

[Socrates]

I think it all depends on what is meant here by "flirting."
I don't think there's anything wrong with fun, light, casual flirting (smiling, making small talk, little compliments and such), so long as it is understood by both sides that it's not to be taken too seriously.
As long as there's nothing lewd or sexually suggestive, and you aren't doing things to knowingly lead guys on.

After all, a little innocent flirting is usually the first step to meeting someone.

It's really all a matter of common sense and using good judgment.

[Moosey]

One should never lead someone to believe that they are interested if they aren't. If at all possible, take care when speaking to men/boys. Depending on the type of person you're talking to, it might lead to heartbreak.

I've had men lead me on and insist they had not shown any romantic interest when they clearly did. In that case, they are using someone as a means to an end, which is selfish. They complimented me, even made me believe they wanted a serious relationship with me but then when it came to the moment of truth it was all a lie because they didn't see me as someone to date. I was someone to flirt with. Flirting is only okay when you're interested in a person.

Just be friends with guys and be considerate of their feelings.

[Theoketos]

I like it when my wife flirts with me.

[Moosey]

She's your lady love, thats why. You're allowed.

You flirt with your wife because you love her. But you don't flirt with other women. It wouldn't be proper for you to flirt with a woman you didn't love would it? Edited April 16, 2009 by Moosey

[Luthien]

[quote name='Moosey' post='1836822' date='Apr 16 2009, 12:56 AM']One should never lead someone to believe that they are interested if they aren't. If at all possible, take care when speaking to men/boys. Depending on the type of person you're talking to, it might lead to heartbreak.

I've had men lead me on and insist they had not shown any romantic interest when they clearly did. In that case, they are using someone as a means to an end, which is selfish. They complimented me, even made me believe they wanted a serious relationship with me but then when it came to the moment of truth it was all a lie because they didn't see me as someone to date. I was someone to flirt with. Flirting is only okay when you're interested in a person.

Just be friends with guys and be considerate of their feelings.[/quote]


Jerks.

[Sojourner]

[quote name='whatsup' post='1836728' date='Apr 15 2009, 07:46 PM']Far from it. I work retail. Boring dumpy retail. And I'm far from that kind of girl...as I said before I'm not that good looking. And I said I don't work at a place where one usually gets tips but I do anyway.[/quote]
Sexual attractiveness doesn't have as much to do with physical appearance as you think. It does play a role, but attitude is a big part of it as well. We are attracted to persons and personalities.

[lost_in_this_world]

if its innocent then i thinks its fine. maybe not doing it for tips but innocent is fine. and it is fun as long as your not purposefully leading the guys on