Hassan Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 blop plop glop! So I was studying with a friend and his roommate when they start talking about this girl, let's call her "Sarah Marshal" who my friend has a thing for. I know another Sarah Marshal who he also knows but he quickly corrects me, "no no, another Sarah Marshal!" So I'm sitting in a department like a week later talking with the friend named Sarah Marshal. blah blah blah, I agree Hassan, MIKolbe is a chump blah blah blah When this really cute girl walks in. So there is a whole group discussion and I'm talking to the girl who just walked in and we're hitting it off. I'm making her laugh a lot she' doing that thing they do et cetera. Anyway I'm infameously bad with names when our mutural friend Sarah Marshal asks me jokingly if I've managed to remember her name (which I did!) when the really cute girl goes, "ha! My Name's Sarah Marshal too!) I'm pretty sure this is the same Sarah Marshal. I can't just.....forget Sarah Marshal (sorrry) I mean I don't know her that well but she's cute, really independent. She's an orthodox democrat but that's alright, nobody's perfect (well.... ) I don't think she likes my friend, but he still likes her. Discuss Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eagle_eye222001 Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 So what's the problem? ---------------- Listening to: [url="http://www.foxytunes.com/artist/lifehouse/track/hanging+by+a+moment"]Lifehouse - Hanging By a Moment[/url] via [url="http://www.foxytunes.com/signatunes/"]FoxyTunes[/url] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cmotherofpirl Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 Start over with spell-check. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eagle_eye222001 Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 Wait I think I got it. Got really lost with all the Sarah Marshalls.....there like three of them? Anyway is the moral thingy that you like a girl someone else likes? ---------------- Listening to: [url="http://www.foxytunes.com/artist/red+jumpsuit+apparatus/track/your+guardian+angel"]Red Jumpsuit Apparatus - Your Guardian Angel[/url] via [url="http://www.foxytunes.com/signatunes/"]FoxyTunes[/url] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hassan Posted March 11, 2009 Author Share Posted March 11, 2009 [quote name='eagle_eye222001' post='1803363' date='Mar 11 2009, 12:41 AM']So what's the problem? ---------------- Listening to: [url="http://www.foxytunes.com/artist/lifehouse/track/hanging+by+a+moment"]Lifehouse - Hanging By a Moment[/url] via [url="http://www.foxytunes.com/signatunes/"]FoxyTunes[/url][/quote] He likes her. Can I go out with her when one of my best friends has a thing for her? Particularly now that I know this is the girl? Should I wait till things are absolutly dead in the water between them? I mean she doesn't seem to have a thing for him (word on the street) but he still ha hope apparently. See what I mean? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cmotherofpirl Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 [quote name='Hassan' post='1803373' date='Mar 11 2009, 01:49 AM']He likes her. Can I go out with her when one of my best friends has a thing for her? Particularly now that I know this is the girl? Should I wait till things are absolutly dead in the water between them? I mean she doesn't seem to have a thing for him (word on the street) but he still ha hope apparently. See what I mean?[/quote] Your friendship should come first. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hassan Posted March 11, 2009 Author Share Posted March 11, 2009 [quote name='cmotherofpirl' post='1803366' date='Mar 10 2009, 11:44 PM']Start over with spell-check.[/quote] Your fancy spelling rules mean nothing to me sorry, I typed that out way to fast Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eagle_eye222001 Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 I don't thing there is anything technically wrong as long as the girl has not reciprocated to your friend. . So you need to make sure she's not interested really and then I would say your clear. That's not to say your friend will "sit idly by." There is sure to be some sort of repercussion. Waiting would lessen that. Depends on how much you want to risk it. That's my opinion. Your going to have to decide whether it's worth the risk of some hard feelings. Probably should talk about it somehow. ---------------- Listening to: [url="http://www.foxytunes.com/artist/skillet/track/falling+inside+the+black"]Skillet - Falling Inside the Black[/url] via [url="http://www.foxytunes.com/signatunes/"]FoxyTunes[/url] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hassan Posted March 11, 2009 Author Share Posted March 11, 2009 [quote name='cmotherofpirl' post='1803375' date='Mar 11 2009, 12:50 AM']Your friendship should come first.[/quote] Does it matter that she's reallyyyy good looking? can that change the moral calculus at al? seriously though, I think I knew that but kind of needed to hear it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hassan Posted March 11, 2009 Author Share Posted March 11, 2009 [quote name='eagle_eye222001' post='1803377' date='Mar 11 2009, 12:53 AM']I don't thing there is anything technically wrong as long as the girl has not reciprocated to your friend. . So you need to make sure she's not interested really and then I would say your clear.[/quote] hm, a conflicting bit of advise I have until the end of spring break to think it over Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hassan Posted March 11, 2009 Author Share Posted March 11, 2009 Also, in part I needed an excuse to use something around the phrase "forgetting Sarah Marshal" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eagle_eye222001 Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 Well. I don't exactly really like my advice. . It acknowledges the risks involved and puts the question to our subject while making sure they understand the possible repercussion. As much as I want to go with the risk, I really have to admit that cmotherofpirl's advice is probably the best as it protects your friendship (which you do have an obligation as being a friend, at least with a true friendship, you would not steal their girl outright, however the girl is not exactly bf with him ) If you risk the friendship, you risk losing out on both the girl and the friend whereas if you wait for a bit, then you save the friendship and still have a possibility later. I cede to cmotherofpirl's advice. I imagine she has more experience and knowledge on this. My advice carries drops of poison if the dice come up wrong. ---------------- Listening to: [url="http://www.foxytunes.com/artist/skillet/track/looking+for+angels"]Skillet - Looking for Angels[/url] via [url="http://www.foxytunes.com/signatunes/"]FoxyTunes[/url] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cmotherofpirl Posted March 11, 2009 Share Posted March 11, 2009 [quote name='eagle_eye222001' post='1803389' date='Mar 11 2009, 02:01 AM']Well. I don't exactly really like my advice. . It acknowledges the risks involved and puts the question to our subject while making sure they understand the possible repercussion. As much as I want to go with the risk, I really have to admit that cmotherofpirl's advice is probably the best as it protects your friendship (which you do have an obligation as being a friend, at least with a true friendship, you would not steal their girl outright, however the girl is not exactly bf with him ) If you risk the friendship, you risk losing out on both the girl and the friend whereas if you wait for a bit, then you save the friendship and still have a possibility later. I cede to cmotherofpirl's advice. I imagine she has more experience and knowledge on this. My advice carries drops of poison if the dice come up wrong. ---------------- Listening to: [url="http://www.foxytunes.com/artist/skillet/track/looking+for+angels"]Skillet - Looking for Angels[/url] via [url="http://www.foxytunes.com/signatunes/"]FoxyTunes[/url][/quote] Its the reverse of the girl rule: never let any male come between you and your friends unless you plan on marrying them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hassan Posted March 11, 2009 Author Share Posted March 11, 2009 [quote name='cmotherofpirl' post='1803402' date='Mar 11 2009, 01:09 AM']Its the reverse of the girl rule: never let any male come between you and your friends unless you plan on marrying them.[/quote] right! Bro's before ....... But seriously that seems to be the norm. And I don't care that much about her I suppose, even if she has beautiful dark red flowing hair Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hassan Posted March 11, 2009 Author Share Posted March 11, 2009 [quote name='eagle_eye222001' post='1803389' date='Mar 11 2009, 01:01 AM']Well. I don't exactly really like my advice. . It acknowledges the risks involved and puts the question to our subject while making sure they understand the possible repercussion. As much as I want to go with the risk, I really have to admit that cmotherofpirl's advice is probably the best as it protects your friendship (which you do have an obligation as being a friend, at least with a true friendship, you would not steal their girl outright, however the girl is not exactly bf with him ) [b]If you risk the friendship, you risk losing out on both the girl and the friend whereas if you wait for a bit, then you save the friendship and still have a possibility later.[/b] I cede to cmotherofpirl's advice. I imagine she has more experience and knowledge on this. My advice carries drops of poison if the dice come up wrong. ---------------- Listening to: [url="http://www.foxytunes.com/artist/skillet/track/looking+for+angels"]Skillet - Looking for Angels[/url] via [url="http://www.foxytunes.com/signatunes/"]FoxyTunes[/url][/quote] I think that's right. Besides that they are friends and I wouldn't be right to mess that up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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