Balthazor Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 I just thought the guys needed a little luvin' it always seems like they get the short end of the stick in "womens rights' or respect for women issues. I treat men like this: I feed them and let them have the remote. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pan!c139 Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 With respect. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Groo the Wanderer Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 [quote name='Balthazor' post='1640492' date='Aug 28 2008, 01:42 PM']I just thought the guys needed a little luvin' it always seems like they get the short end of the stick in "womens rights' or respect for women issues. I treat men like this: I feed them and let them have the remote.[/quote] Good start! Gotta have smoochies too from the wifey. Other things necessary for the raising of a man: 1. occasional back rubs, esp that knot in the right shoulder 2. when asked to cook, provide a menu 3. gentle reminders the first 23 times they forget to take out the trash..more harshness after that 4. keep the wimminy stuff off our side of the bathroom sink...yuck 'Course this is coming from a married perspective.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nihil Obstat Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 Guys are kinda dumb. We need things to be obvious for us. We're just like women, except completely different. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paladin D Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 [quote name='Groo the Wanderer' post='1640525' date='Aug 28 2008, 03:07 PM']Good start! Gotta have smoochies too from the wifey. Other things necessary for the raising of a man: 1. occasional back rubs, esp that knot in the right shoulder[/quote] I get them on both shoulders, primarily at work. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atheling Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 Respect, love, and loyalty. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nleyetn Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 [quote name='Balthazor' post='1640492' date='Aug 28 2008, 11:42 AM']I treat men like this: I feed them and let them have the remote.[/quote] Well, you've got the two most important things covered Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Balthazor Posted August 28, 2008 Author Share Posted August 28, 2008 I am willing to add the occasional massage for the shoulders, telling him he is wonderful and pretending to not know how to weld or change tires so he can be my hero. Oh yes and very important not calling him "hunny bunny" or other embarrassing names in front of his friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CatherineM Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 I don't treat all men this way, but I do it for my husband. I let him win half the time, or at least let him think he does. I make sure he leaves the house in a clean shirt because I'd hate for people to think I'm not henpecking him enough. Mostly, I let him be head of the house, but I balance the check book. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missionseeker Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 [quote name='Balthazor' post='1640492' date='Aug 28 2008, 12:42 PM']I just thought the guys needed a little luvin' it always seems like they get the short end of the stick in "womens rights' or respect for women issues. I treat men like this: I feed them and let them have the remote.[/quote] I like you your smell thread... the day before I totally had written about something relating to smell on my blog. lol and the other day i was in a man hating mood and thinking that women are *probably* more bitter towards men than men are towards women and it mad me sad...lol. That's how I treat them too. That and if they start talking about things... act interested, at least slightly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LouisvilleFan Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 Allow us to serve you, and show that you appreciate being served. Challenge us to a higher standard spiritually, and everything in life that should be affected by our relationship with God. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Old_Joe Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 [quote name='Balthazor' post='1640492' date='Aug 28 2008, 01:42 PM']I just thought the guys needed a little luvin' it always seems like they get the short end of the stick in "womens rights' or respect for women issues. I treat men like this: I feed them and let them have the remote.[/quote] will you marry me? please? I'm J/k. : Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cmotherofpirl Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 From the married point of view: We need to let them be our heros. We need to let them fuss over us, open doors for us, and treat us like ladies, and make us feel safe and protected. Then they feel like they are king of the world. We in turn need to domesticate them if their mums neglected this task. We need them to know that we do need them and love them, not in words, but in actions. So give them the remote, a backrub, a good cooked meal, and loving arms at the end of the day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
princessgianna Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 [quote name='Balthazor' post='1640492' date='Aug 28 2008, 01:42 PM']I just thought the guys needed a little luvin' it always seems like they get the short end of the stick in "womens rights' or respect for women issues. I treat men like this: I feed them and let them have the remote.[/quote] you do bring up a good point! I think a women should listen and obey men for guys are the leaders! Christ picked 12 men to lead his Church and He pick St.Peter (who is a man) to be the head! not to mention God put Adam in charge of the Garden of Eden. So we need to listen and obey them and they need to respect us! It is a in harmony thing! reminds me of salt and pepper on eggs! The salt and pepper "work together" and if one was with out the other it would not be as good as it could be when you have both. They are the protectors the ones that fight the wars and do the REALLY dirty jobs in the war! (you don't see women in the front!).They are the leaders and we as women need to respect that! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissyP89 Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 Build them up, encourage them, be their strength when they have none of their own. Listen, even when you could care less. Love, even when you'd rather hate them. Forgive. Forgive again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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