Got A Question About Sex Inside Of Marriage? Would Like Your Opinions

[Thy Geekdom Come]

Example #1: It depends on circumstances (I defer to my wife above).

Example #2: Ejaculation is NECESSARY for a completed act of sexual intercourse. Anything short of that is a form of masturbation (if intended as such). There are situations in which a couple may have to stop at such a point (you know, child wakes up screaming, house catches fire, some sort of terrible muscle cramp, etc.), but no one should begin sexual intercourse without the intention of completing it.

[Thy Geekdom Come]

[quote name='StColette' post='1625191' date='Aug 12 2008, 09:58 AM']As a wife, I would feel very cheated if my husband got up and left right after sharing in the marital embrace with me.[/quote]
As a matter of fact, I'm pretty sure that the reason most people usually get the urge to sleep after sex (not immediately, of course) is to make sure this doesn't happen...

[Quietfire]

We glorify God in the marriage bed by doing (humanly) what God does at all times.

We become one. Man, woman, and the love they have for each other is a mirror of the trinity of God.
If one cannot give of oneself completely to the other, then making love becomes nothing more than an "act", much the same way as sex outside marriage. Trust me, I know this one. been there, done it. Dont let anyone tell you differently, it isnt the same.

What do you want to know? If its ok to have sex with your spouse even if you're not in the mood.
What's the problem....tell her your not in the mood.
Im not afraid to tell my husband, and he sure as heck isnt afraid to tell me, and yes, there are times when he is just too tired.

See, that's the wonderful thing about a faithful marriage. One of the best gifts that God blessed us with is the ability to be able to talk about anything.
Neither of us take it personal if the other isnt in the mood.
I would rather give my husband 100% of me than a lackluster 70%, and I feel the same about him.
Love should be selfless and if one cannot give of themselves selflessly then it isnt complete, it isnt divine, and it isnt love.
Anything less is an act.

Eh, who am I to know.
Ive only been married 12 years to the man of my dreams.

[Quietfire]

Oh, and to answer number 2.

We've had some of our best under those circumstances...not knowing if there was enough time...
plus it gave us plenty to giggle about later...
(Hey what took you guys so long to answer the door??????)

Teehee.


If you have to actually sit and think about it to the point where you need to articulate it into a question, then I would honestly say that you may be being a bit scupulous here.
Nothing personal bro, but sometimes spontaneity is fun...
and necessary.

[havok579257]

[quote name='Quietfire' post='1626365' date='Aug 13 2008, 07:25 PM']Oh, and to answer number 2.

We've had some of our best under those circumstances...not knowing if there was enough time...
plus it gave us plenty to giggle about later...
(Hey what took you guys so long to answer the door??????)

Teehee.
If you have to actually sit and think about it to the point where you need to articulate it into a question, then I would honestly say that you may be being a bit scupulous here.
Nothing personal bro, but sometimes spontaneity is fun...
and necessary.[/quote]


WHy does everyone think any question that pops into someone's mind and they ask it on here automatically mean either they are thinking about it all the time or worrying about it always?

[HisChildForever]

[quote name='havok579257' post='1626558' date='Aug 14 2008, 12:01 AM']WHy does everyone think any question that pops into someone's mind and they ask it on here automatically mean either they are thinking about it all the time or worrying about it always?[/quote]

Maybe because you have the tendency to get involved in sexuality threads. Somewhere along the line, someone [b]is [/b] going to think that you need information/advice about a personal situation regarding sexuality.

How come you always act hostile towards those who are trying to help you out?

[J.P.]

[quote name='Quietfire' post='1626365' date='Aug 13 2008, 06:25 PM']Oh, and to answer number 2.

We've had some of our best under those circumstances...not knowing if there was enough time...
plus it gave us plenty to giggle about later...
(Hey what took you guys so long to answer the door??????)

Teehee.[/quote]

Oh my gosh that's hillarious!

[Lil Red]

+J.M.J.+
havok, i think you should really watch these online videos:

[url="http://arinzewebcast.com/"]http://arinzewebcast.com/[/url]

specifically, [url="http://arinzewebcast.com/?p=85"]http://arinzewebcast.com/?p=85[/url]

[exquisitebones]

[quote name='thessalonian' post='1625154' date='Aug 12 2008, 05:46 AM']It should be noted in this thread as well that lust inside of marriage (even with ones wife) is considered sinful in the Catholic teaching on sexuality.[/quote]


I have been wondering about the latter? in what case would you consider it lusting after your spouse instead of just loving their entire being?

[havok579257]

[quote name='exquisitebones' post='1631579' date='Aug 19 2008, 11:54 AM']I have been wondering about the latter? in what case would you consider it lusting after your spouse instead of just loving their entire being?[/quote]

if the only reason you are having sex with your spouse is for you own means. if you care about satisfying yourself then your spouse.

[exquisitebones]

[quote name='havok579257' post='1631641' date='Aug 19 2008, 09:53 AM']if the only reason you are having sex with your spouse is for you own means. if you care about satisfying yourself then your spouse.[/quote]


oh gotcha, I guess I am good then. thanks for the answer!