Hospice Helps Dying Man Lose His Virginity

[Dave]

Too bad this guy doesn't seem to be preparing well for the hereafter and is instead focusing on pleasure. Btw, this came from Fox News.


[quote]Hospice Helps Dying Man Lose His Virginity
Saturday, January 27, 2007


Thanks to a church-run hospice, one disabled man was granted his dying wish: to lose his virginity.

22-year-old Nick Wallis, who has muscular dystrophy, had hoped to experience sex before he died. After telling staff at the Douglas House hospice in Oxford of his wish, they decided to help him, reported London's Daily Telegraph.

Click here for read the original story.

Wallis had hoped to form a relationship through which to experience sex, but it just never happened.

"I had hoped to form a relationship when I went to university, but it didn't happen. I had to recognize that if was to experience sex I would have to pay for it out of my savings. My mind was made up before I discussed it with anyone else," Wallis said.

"I found an advert from a sex worker in a magazine for the disabled," Wallis said. "The initial contact was by email and then by phone."

It was arranged for the prostitute to visit Wallis' home while his parents went out.

"It was a decision two years in the making and I discussed it with my carers and my parents. Telling my mother and father was the hardest part, but in the end they gave me their support," Wallis told the Telegraph.

The hospice staff consulted a solicitor, clergy, and health care professionals before agreeing to assist Wallis.

Sister Frances, the founder of the hospice, described Wallis as "delightful, intelligent and aware young man."

"I know that some people will say 'You are a Christian foundation. What are you thinking about?' But we are here for all faiths and none," she said.

"It is not our job to make moral decisions for our guests. We came to the conclusion that it was our duty of care to support Nick emotionally and to help ensure his physical safety."

Wallis said the experience was not quite what he had hoped.

"It was not emotionally fulfilling, but the lady was very pleasant and very understanding. I do not know whether I would do it again. I would much rather find a girlfriend, but I have to be realistic."

Wallis made the decision to talk about his experience as part of the BBC documentary series about life inside Douglas House and its associated children's hospice, Helen House.[/quote]

[zabbazooey]

Lord Have Mercy

[Extra ecclesiam nulla salus]

I can not believe a nun helped do that.

[cmotherofpirl]

[quote name='Extra ecclesiam nulla salus' post='1178953' date='Jan 28 2007, 10:41 PM']
I can not believe a nun helped do that.
[/quote]
she didn't know about it, he didn't tell her.

[Dave]

never mind

Edited January 29, 2007 by Dave

[Extra ecclesiam nulla salus]

[quote name='cmotherofpirl' post='1178955' date='Jan 28 2007, 10:44 PM']
she didn't know about it, he didn't tell her.
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i may be reading it incorrectly, so if i am please correct me.


[b]Sister Frances, the founder of the hospice, described Wallis as "delightful, intelligent and aware young man."

"I know that some people will say 'You are a Christian foundation. What are you thinking about?' But we are here for all faiths and none," she said.[/b]

but by saying that it sounds like she knows what went down? am i incorrect in my assumptions?

[homeschoolmom]

Sounds like an X-rated version of the Make-A-Wish Foundation.

[guitarfreak]

That's like, such a sick dying wish.

[Laurentina1975]

[quote name='homeschoolmom' post='1178977' date='Jan 28 2007, 10:04 PM']
Sounds like an X-rated version of the Make-A-Wish Foundation.
[/quote]


hahhahahahahahhaah that was sunny homeschoolmom.

[Totus Tuus]

[quote name='homeschoolmom' post='1178977' date='Jan 28 2007, 10:04 PM']
Sounds like an X-rated version of the Make-A-Wish Foundation.
[/quote]

Yeah that was funny.


But really... Poor guy. I feel sorry for him because he doesn't understand that the source of fulfillment is in God, not pleasure.

[Anomaly]

[quote name='Extra ecclesiam nulla salus' post='1178953' date='Jan 28 2007, 10:41 PM']
I can not believe a nun helped do that.
[/quote]
I'm not surprised. Nuns are wacky.

[Veritas]

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"Not emotionally fulfilling", "Not sure if I would do it again". No kidding. Any adept and educated clergyman or religious SHOULD have told him that! What a sad, sad story. I feel bad that he had to have such a pseudo-sexual experience. I'm sad he sold out for the culture and has had to learn the hard way. Prayers for him and those misquided religious.

Edited January 29, 2007 by Veritas

[Anomaly]

[quote name='cmotherofpirl' post='1178955' date='Jan 28 2007, 10:44 PM']
she didn't know about it, he didn't tell her.
[/quote]
That is not true. She did know.

"With the full support of Sister Frances Dominica, the founder of the hospice, the staff sought counsel from a lawyer, the clergy and health professionals regarding the request. They decided to help Nick fulfill his dying wish." link: [url="http://www.digitaljournal.com/article/100824/Hospice_Hooker_Team_Up_to_Help_Dying_Man_Lose_His_Virginity"]http://www.digitaljournal.com/article/1008...e_His_Virginity[/url]

[Totus Tuus]

[quote name='Veritas' post='1179056' date='Jan 28 2007, 10:50 PM']
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"Not emotionally fulfilling", "Not sure if I would do it again". No kidding. Any adept and educated clergyman or religious SHOULD have told him that! What a sad, sad story. I feel bad that he had to have such a pseudo-sexual experience. I'm sad he sold out for the culture and has had to learn the hard way. Prayers for him and those misquided religious.
[/quote]
Very well put.

[CrossCuT]

[quote name='homeschoolmom' post='1178977' date='Jan 28 2007, 10:04 PM']
Sounds like an X-rated version of the Make-A-Wish Foundation.
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But seriously, this kid is pretty sick.
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