Proud2BCatholic139 Posted April 18, 2006 Author Share Posted April 18, 2006 Well, it's not just Brandon, but yes, maybe it's a good idea. Brandon is leaving for Europe and is getting back in July. Before I left for Winona I said goodbye to him, but, I feel as if something is unsettled inside of me. It's not that I never want to talk to him again, but, yes, I agree. I should end it. I essentially did that, but, yes, it is very hard. Well, as for Jeremy, I don't know if anyone read my Magic the Gathering Thread, but yes, should I end my relationship with him also? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OverheadNite Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 [quote name='Proud2BCatholic139' date='Apr 17 2006, 09:46 PM']Well, it's not just Brandon, but yes, maybe it's a good idea. Brandon is leaving for Europe and is getting back in July. Before I left for Winona I said goodbye to him, but, I feel as if something is unsettled inside of me. It's not that I never want to talk to him again, but, yes, I agree. I should end it. I essentially did that, but, yes, it is very hard. Well, as for Jeremy, I don't know if anyone read my Magic the Gathering Thread, but yes, should I end my relationship with him also? [right][snapback]951761[/snapback][/right] [/quote] I didn't get a chance to read that no, but there is more than one guy? Hmm complicated. I would say that if its a similar situation and its hurting you, then yes end it. If you're meant to have any sort of relationship, wether that be friendship or more, then you haven't heard the last from them. It works itself out if its meant to be. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
franciscanheart Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 Ending a relationship in the sense that you allow distance to come between you emotionally is good but don't forget to always pray for them. I've found that if you can pray for them a lot in addition to keeping your distance, things are generally easier to handle and it helps out if and when you start talking again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
franciscanheart Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 [quote name='OverheadNite' date='Apr 17 2006, 10:49 PM']I didn't get a chance to read that no, but there is more than one guy? Hmm complicated. I would say that if its a similar situation and its hurting you, then yes end it. If you're meant to have any sort of relationship, wether that be friendship or more, then you haven't heard the last from them. It works itself out if its meant to be. [right][snapback]951765[/snapback][/right] [/quote] Right. Don't necessarily count on it working out but don't count on it not working out either. Just pray and allow things to unfold as they will. I don't know any details here but if these relationships are similar and are causing you similar troubles, perhaps you should evaluate all of your friendships? I think it is important to always do this. Testing the waters is a wise thing to do. We should always know what's going on and how to appropriately respond. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Proud2BCatholic139 Posted April 18, 2006 Author Share Posted April 18, 2006 [quote name='OverheadNite' date='Apr 17 2006, 09:49 PM']I didn't get a chance to read that no, but there is more than one guy? Hmm complicated. I would say that if its a similar situation and its hurting you, then yes end it. If you're meant to have any sort of relationship, wether that be friendship or more, then you haven't heard the last from them. It works itself out if its meant to be. [right][snapback]951765[/snapback][/right] [/quote] No, it's not a romantic relationship. Most of my friendships are with males. It's just people I care about that relationships are affected. I don't have that many girlfriends. Except for 3. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Proud2BCatholic139 Posted April 18, 2006 Author Share Posted April 18, 2006 [quote name='hugheyforlife' date='Apr 17 2006, 09:53 PM']Right. Don't necessarily count on it working out but don't count on it not working out either. Just pray and allow things to unfold as they will. I don't know any details here but if these relationships are similar and are causing you similar troubles, perhaps you should evaluate all of your friendships? I think it is important to always do this. Testing the waters is a wise thing to do. We should always know what's going on and how to appropriately respond. [right][snapback]951770[/snapback][/right] [/quote] Yes, that is great advice, and I have been doing that a little bit, but my problem is, is that I am too nice. Jeremy is online right now. I will just let him know how I feel. And if he doens't respond, I am just going to let it be. As for Brandon, he knows where I stand and I am done essentially. However, it's still hard. There is one other person, but I'll keep them in the silence of my heart. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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