scardella Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 Actually, I kinda like a girl I keep seeing at Mass. When I had decided to try and talk to her, she managed to disappear or pray longer than I could stay for about 3 weeks... I finally talked to her a week and a half ago, and yesterday. Pray because I lose all sense of talking ability when I see her... and sound like a total dweeb. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetpea316 Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 Well, church is definitely a good place to find a high-quality guy/girl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DannyBoy Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 [quote name='Dust's Sister' date='Mar 2 2006, 12:34 AM']hey guys have you ever had a crush at Church?... well let me tell you something... everytime I go to 1 o'clock Mass there is this guy who sits at around the same spot as I go, and when I look at him he always seems so spiritual, and sooo "into" the Mass. I see him and I think he's with his mom whenever he comes. But it's like, there's something about him that I think makes him special. Anyways he's seen me a few times I think, but sometimes I just want to go up to him and say something. Today at Ash Wednesday I seen him there and I seen him, I think I smiled, but I dunno if he seen me smile (this was as I was leaving Mass) I was kinda far away, ... but anyway I'm too shy to say hello. Even if he isn't interested in dating; [b]which I'm not really interested in dating right now anyway[/b]... I just think he would be a really cool friend to have..... what would you do? [right][snapback]901294[/snapback][/right] [/quote] I wish I had your problem, I unfortunately have never been attracted in any way to a woman from church. If I were you I would say hello to him. Remember, part of having faith is having faith in your God-given abilites and talents. God has given you a voice and is acting as a beacon, illuminating a path for you. If you neglect what one might consider a responsibility to do something positive with the gifts our Lord has given you then how will you ever answer the call (a call of any kind)? Have faith in God and in the Christ that dwells within your heart. There are opportunities every day to do this. My prayers are with you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nicole8223 Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 I met my man at church...we talked a few times, and it developed on its own. I let him pursue me, and it God guided every action. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Myles Domini Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 [quote name='dUSt' date='Mar 2 2006, 02:20 PM']Become a nun. Stop looking at boys. [right][snapback]901421[/snapback][/right] [/quote] Brotherly love Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Proud2BCatholic139 Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 Yes, and weird results happened. Hahahah! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jazz4jesus Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 (edited) yes, and dated her. we broke up but, awesome friend now. we are off at college now, I see her mom at mass everytime im home. Such an awesome family. Brother is one of my best friends. Just learn his name. one of my friends she has this crush on a guy, dont know his name so she calls him hot boy. me and her brother yell at her everytime she calls him that, so er whats the word. Learn his name or refer to him as guy or something that isnt so derogatory. Edited March 2, 2006 by Jazz4jesus Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ora et Labora Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 I dont have a crush at anyone in my church...but theres this guy. were friends. everyone thinks we'll be married! lol at least a few people do. that can get annoying. hehe but its kinda funny. cuz i know wede kill each other before the first day of marriege was over! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dust's Sister Posted March 2, 2006 Author Share Posted March 2, 2006 [quote] I hope you;re kidding..[/quote] I don't think he's kidding. [quote name='scardella' date='Mar 2 2006, 11:14 AM']Actually, I kinda like a girl I keep seeing at Mass. When I had decided to try and talk to her, she managed to disappear or pray longer than I could stay for about 3 weeks... I finally talked to her a week and a half ago, and yesterday. Pray because I lose all sense of talking ability when I see her... and sound like a total dweeb. [right][snapback]901483[/snapback][/right] [/quote] Good luck with that! [quote name='DannyBoy' date='Mar 2 2006, 11:51 AM']I wish I had your problem, I unfortunately have never been attracted in any way to a woman from church. If I were you I would say hello to him. Remember, part of having faith is having faith in your God-given abilites and talents. God has given you a voice and is acting as a beacon, illuminating a path for you. If you neglect what one might consider a responsibility to do something positive with the gifts our Lord has given you then how will you ever answer the call (a call of any kind)? Have faith in God and in the Christ that dwells within your heart. There are opportunities every day to do this. My prayers are with you! [right][snapback]901504[/snapback][/right] [/quote] Thank you for the prayers. You know I've never actually dated ever before, and I'm 24! [quote name='Nicole8223' date='Mar 2 2006, 11:59 AM']I met my man at church...we talked a few times, and it developed on its own. I let him pursue me, and it God guided every action. [right][snapback]901511[/snapback][/right] [/quote] that's awesome! [quote name='Jazz4jesus' date='Mar 2 2006, 01:39 PM']yes, and dated her. we broke up but, awesome friend now. we are off at college now, I see her mom at mass everytime im home. Such an awesome family. Brother is one of my best friends. Just learn his name. one of my friends she has this crush on a guy, dont know his name so she calls him hot boy. me and her brother yell at her everytime she calls him that, so er whats the word. Learn his name or refer to him as guy or something that isnt so derogatory. [right][snapback]901624[/snapback][/right] [/quote] Well when I pray about it, God knows who I'm talking about. He knows everything. : [quote name='Ora et Labora' date='Mar 2 2006, 01:42 PM']I dont have a crush at anyone in my church...but theres this guy. were friends. everyone thinks we'll be married! lol at least a few people do. that can get annoying. hehe but its kinda funny. cuz i know wede kill each other before the first day of marriege was over! [right][snapback]901628[/snapback][/right] [/quote] I actually have someone who likes me already but he lives in Lousiana, We've been friends since 2000, and he is a Catholic. To me I think he's a cradle Catholic though, and he just needs to learn. But anyways he actually asked me to marry me a few times but I always said no. lol... We've never actually dated, we've just been friends for a long time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Charms717RM1 Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 I met this REALLY awesome girl at Church! She's in the choir and has the pretitiest voice imaginable. But I was too shy to go over and say hi to a total stranger A few months back tho I agreed to help out my youth minister with a confirmation retreat- and what do you know- i got paired up with her. We became fast friends and dated for a little while- but we broke it off so i could seriously pursue my discernment. We're still best frriends tho- we talk all the time and it's great. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ora et Labora Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 [quote name='Dust's Sister' date='Mar 2 2006, 01:07 PM']I actually have someone who likes me already but he lives in Lousiana, We've been friends since 2000, and he is a Catholic. To me I think he's a cradle Catholic though, and he just needs to learn. But anyways he actually asked me to marry me a few times but I always said no. lol... We've never actually dated, we've just been friends for a long time. [right][snapback]901654[/snapback][/right] [/quote] Well, I don't think he likes me. I'm good friends with his family as well. To many girls like him any ways... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetpea316 Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 "Love is friendship set on fire." hint hint. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ora et Labora Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 Now people on this site are gonna make fun of us!!! Literally, everyone thinks were gonna have these cute kids.....and I dont even want to think aout having kids with him, thank you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ora et Labora Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 Anyways, were 3 years apart. And have nothing whatsoever in commom! We have sort of similar personalitys though...hes okay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cathurian Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 Yeah, I have a crush on somebody at church. You know, the guy in the Tabernacle? : Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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