Dust's Sister Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 hey guys have you ever had a crush at Church?... well let me tell you something... everytime I go to 1 o'clock Mass there is this guy who sits at around the same spot as I go, and when I look at him he always seems so spiritual, and sooo "into" the Mass. I see him and I think he's with his mom whenever he comes. But it's like, there's something about him that I think makes him special. Anyways he's seen me a few times I think, but sometimes I just want to go up to him and say something. Today at Ash Wednesday I seen him there and I seen him, I think I smiled, but I dunno if he seen me smile (this was as I was leaving Mass) I was kinda far away, ... but anyway I'm too shy to say hello. Even if he isn't interested in dating; [b]which I'm not really interested in dating right now anyway[/b]... I just think he would be a really cool friend to have..... what would you do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobLuv4God Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 (edited) If I were you, once I was close enough to say something, I'd say "hi, how are you?" And then, when you see each other again, he may say Hi to you and could possibly be the start of a beautiful friendship. You never know. Edited March 2, 2006 by RobLuv4God Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dust's Sister Posted March 2, 2006 Author Share Posted March 2, 2006 [quote name='RobLuv4God' date='Mar 1 2006, 11:40 PM']If I were you, once I was close enough to say something, I'd say "hi, how are you?" And then, when you see each other again, he may say Hi to you and could possibly be the start of a beautiful friendship. You never know. [right][snapback]901299[/snapback][/right] [/quote] in my dreams, lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
journeyman Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 this seems like a perfect opportunity for the use of "do you come here for adoration often?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dust's Sister Posted March 2, 2006 Author Share Posted March 2, 2006 [quote name='journeyman' date='Mar 2 2006, 12:01 AM']this seems like a perfect opportunity for the use of "do you come here for adoration often?" [right][snapback]901311[/snapback][/right] [/quote] haha, good one! OR I could just say, "hey, ever heard of Phatmass.com?" : Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MilesChristi Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 My advice...just go up and introduce yourself after Mass sometime. Judging from your description of this guy, I don't see why you need to feel hesitant about approaching him. If the Lord is dwelling in his heart and your heart, you already have everything in common that really matters. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ash Wednesday Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 Have I ever had crushes at church? Boy did I ever. Living in a college town is a high school girl's dream. There was one guy I had a big crush on... I'd pay a whole lot of attention to him.... while he was devoutly paying attention to the mass. Probably moreso than anyone else in the church. I should have just followed his example. But I was a teenager, so what can I say? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dust's Sister Posted March 2, 2006 Author Share Posted March 2, 2006 (edited) [quote name='MilesChristi' date='Mar 2 2006, 12:17 AM']My advice...just go up and introduce yourself after Mass sometime. Judging from your description of this guy, I don't see why you need to feel hesitant about approaching him. If the Lord is dwelling in his heart and your heart, you already have everything in common that really matters. [right][snapback]901322[/snapback][/right] [/quote] very true. [quote]There was one guy I had a big crush on... I'd pay a whole lot of attention to him.... while he was devoutly paying attention to the mass. Probably moreso than anyone else in the church. I should have just followed his example. But I was a teenager, so what can I say?[/quote] yeah I remember being a teenager @ Mass, it was different for me then; Now, it' like a whole new world for me when I go to Mass. Edited March 2, 2006 by Dust's Sister Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dUSt Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 Become a nun. Stop looking at boys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
photosynthesis Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 the cantor at my old parish was SO good-looking, and he sang well too *sigh* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magnificat Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 yup when i was in high school...problem is that his parents were teachers at my high school so that was always weird. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prolifeguard Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 [quote name='dUSt' date='Mar 2 2006, 10:20 AM']Become a nun. Stop looking at boys. [right][snapback]901421[/snapback][/right] [/quote] I hope you;re kidding.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
homeschoolmom Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 [quote name='dUSt' date='Mar 2 2006, 09:20 AM']Become a nun. Stop looking at boys. [right][snapback]901421[/snapback][/right] [/quote] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
avemaria40 Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 yeah i did. One of my guy friends is really into church, and when I was converting, he was so sweet to me and I ended up having a crush on him. But he's taken and I like someone else now, so we're just really good friends Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
franciscanheart Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 [quote name='dUSt' date='Mar 2 2006, 09:20 AM']Become a nun. Stop looking at boys. [right][snapback]901421[/snapback][/right] [/quote] im with that guy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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