tobk2000 Posted November 28, 2003 Share Posted November 28, 2003 Hey everyone... I have a question, especially for the girls out there. I met this girl at yg who I really like. She's amazing, and is really strong in her faith too. My problem is that she's said (thru other friends, but it is reliable info) that she doesnt' like me. But she's also goin to the semi @ my school with me, and both her sis and one of her friends said that she's really excited about it. Which leads me to my point. I don't know what to do, or if theres any hope of our relationship becoming... more than just friends. I talk to her like every night (via aim cuz i'm scared of the phone). I'm not sure whether to ask her out cuz i don't want to our friendship to be wrecked because of this. Any input would be greatly appreciated. Thanx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
musturde Posted November 28, 2003 Share Posted November 28, 2003 Build your friendship first. Then u can decide whether to ruin it or not. jp. Seriously though try to build a stronger relationship with her and she might sooner or later like u. Don't ask her out if she doesn't like u, I think that'll freak her out and prob hurt ur friendship with her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sista2b Posted November 28, 2003 Share Posted November 28, 2003 i totally agree w/ musturde, usually when girls are really good friends w/ a guy it kinda hard not to have feelings for him. Just let her know that she can trust you, and maybe flirt a little but don't come on too strong. Keep it friends for now. o and at the dance, dance, don't be like all the guys i know and just sit there. even if ya look stupid girls still like it that you try. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
traichuoi Posted November 28, 2003 Share Posted November 28, 2003 sista2b is right...girls love it when you try (i'm a girl, i know these things). also, my advice would be to just talk to her ALOT. try to find out more and more about her. because the more you find out about her (and i mean knowing her to the core) the better you'd be able to distinguish whether you'd like her. same goes for her. allow her to get to know you and let her decide whether or not she likes you! prayers back and forth Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littleflower+JMJ Posted November 28, 2003 Share Posted November 28, 2003 i think you should become her friend first and then see if you two have the potential for becoming more. if shes an amesome girl, friendship is important. as for dating and such, take your time, pray about it adn dont rush things. if its meant to happen it will, (aka God's providence) pray to st. raphael the archangel. with prayer and God's will, everything will fall into place +JMJ God bless! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tobk2000 Posted November 28, 2003 Author Share Posted November 28, 2003 hey thanx for the advice... its weird cuz sometimes i can't tell if she's just being flirty or if she actually likes me... but for now i guess we'll just stay friends; anymore input is welcome Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hyperdulia again Posted November 28, 2003 Share Posted November 28, 2003 say i love you everyday and follow her around. propose to her on your first date. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GodsThespianChic Posted November 28, 2003 Share Posted November 28, 2003 Haha, very funny, hyper. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
musturde Posted November 28, 2003 Share Posted November 28, 2003 Stare at her a lot. Hyper's suggestions were good too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tobk2000 Posted November 28, 2003 Author Share Posted November 28, 2003 haha thanx thats exactly what i'll do not really lol... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Janana8706 Posted December 24, 2003 Share Posted December 24, 2003 i know this is late, srry, but i think i'd do like everyone else said and build the friendship up. Mayb ask her what she thinks bout goin out w/ really good friends (don't just come out and say it... lead up to it, make it casual). Also flirt w/ her a lot, liek verbal flirting more then physical flirting... ok so that sounded bad i'm done now. Have a good CHRISTmas everyone! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missionseeker Posted November 28, 2011 Share Posted November 28, 2011 I wonder how it worked out for him... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dominicansoul Posted November 28, 2011 Share Posted November 28, 2011 married, with kids.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missionseeker Posted November 28, 2011 Share Posted November 28, 2011 cue the warm fuzzies Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
got2luvjc Posted November 28, 2011 Share Posted November 28, 2011 [quote name='traichuoi' timestamp='1070039845' post='63707'] sista2b is right...girls love it when you try (i'm a girl, i know these things). [/quote] That they do I bet they have a small community in the Yukon Territory. They pop babies out so often they need all the room they can get! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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