Catholictothecore Posted May 23, 2005 Share Posted May 23, 2005 I think, dating-career wise, a even balanced is a good idea. Don't do to many things alone, but at the same time, don't do to many things in a large group either. I'm not saying that, if I ever had a girlfriend, I wouldn't want to be alone with her a lot, but at the same time....yeah. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReinnieR Posted May 23, 2005 Share Posted May 23, 2005 [quote name='iggy' date='May 22 2005, 09:14 PM'] The corner of 16th& Q Streets Lincoln, Nebraska [/quote] funny last letter i sent was to lincoln NE Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Old_Joe Posted May 23, 2005 Share Posted May 23, 2005 So I'm a single guy and here's my questions: Do girls like to be hit on? And also what would be an appropriate thing to say? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catholictothecore Posted May 23, 2005 Share Posted May 23, 2005 Man, that is not just a dating question, that is [i]the[/i] dating question! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thy Geekdom Come Posted May 23, 2005 Share Posted May 23, 2005 I know I'm not a girl, but I have a simple answer: let everything you do be an act of love for her. Love everyone at all times in all appropriate ways and you can't go wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Old_Joe Posted May 23, 2005 Share Posted May 23, 2005 See here's the thing: I tend to be a little introverted (which I have been working on with some success), which in turn makes it difficult for me to approach a girl and ask her out. I end up getting very nervous, which probably creeps out the girl. I prefer to be friends first and getting to know them a little before asking them out. However this leads to one of us wondering if it worth risking the friendship to start dating. maybe I'm just thinking too much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Old_Joe Posted May 23, 2005 Share Posted May 23, 2005 Also, Love is about [u]mutual self-giving[/u] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catholictothecore Posted May 23, 2005 Share Posted May 23, 2005 check out these versus, [b]guys[/b] Romans 12: 9- 21 1 Corinthians 8: 36-38 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iggy Posted May 23, 2005 Share Posted May 23, 2005 [quote name='Old_Joe' date='May 22 2005, 09:28 PM'] So I'm a single guy and here's my questions: Do girls like to be hit on? And also what would be an appropriate thing to say? [/quote] ZACH!!! Okay, so I personally, don't like to be hit on. It creeps me out. I can't tell what made them say that, so I am going to assume the worse... and I am right more often than not. When I personally am more of a get to know someone as a friend and then, when you know them better on that level, move on to the next, if it seems like the right thing to do. And the guy has to ask. I will not make the first move, even if I really, really want to, because as a woman, it is not my place. I will wait and try to make it as obvious a possible, but I can't be too obvious, because if they don't feel the same way, I will have made an idiot of myself, and that is too risky. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catholictothecore Posted May 23, 2005 Share Posted May 23, 2005 Yeah, g2g, but in this department, I've recently been awarded the "Prize Dope of all Time" award. You think a 5 year old has trouble adding 2 and 2. Don't ask. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReinnieR Posted May 23, 2005 Share Posted May 23, 2005 [quote name='Old_Joe' date='May 22 2005, 09:28 PM'] So I'm a single guy and here's my questions: Do girls like to be hit on? And also what would be an appropriate thing to say? [/quote] coming from jersey city. where a girl can not go a block without being hit on. i can tell you. no most of them don't like that. they don't like loud obnoxious guys. a typical jc person would be like "hey wuttup ma" "AIYYO YO MAMI LET ME HOLLA AT YOU FOE A SEC!!" and then there would be those girls that are irritated when they travel in groups when the better lookin' girl is always getting "hollered at" but yeah like i said most of them don't like it. i on the other hand. i don't mind "gettting holered at" i like the attention hehe and oh oh oh especially when i wear my air force uniform and i go to the mall all eyes on mee. alright i'm gonna shut up now i'm getting too cocky Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeenaBobba Posted May 23, 2005 Share Posted May 23, 2005 [quote name='Old_Joe' date='May 22 2005, 11:28 PM'] Do girls like to be hit on? [/quote] It depends. I'd advise you to avoid lines at all times. Most girls think they're lame and cheesy. It's usually good, however, when guys politely come up to us to say hello and stuff. [quote]And also what would be an appropriate thing to say?[/quote] Again, it depends. Here's an example: If you were out, and if you saw a girl wearing a hat with your favorite team's logo on it, you could say something like, "You like _____, do you? They're doing well this year, aren't they?" That could be a good conversation starter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Old_Joe Posted May 23, 2005 Share Posted May 23, 2005 ReinnieR: That's kinda what I thought. I understand giving them attention is good. To me, at least, it seems that hitting on a girl can be more showing off then showing interest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReinnieR Posted May 23, 2005 Share Posted May 23, 2005 yeah that is true Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catholictothecore Posted May 23, 2005 Share Posted May 23, 2005 It's def about getting to know each other even better. I just wish it wasn't so....complicated. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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