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if all we've got is internet converstaions RIGHT NOW- but that doesnt mean thats all we'll have forever-

its like dude her mom cant dictate who shes freinds with for the rest of her life

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Thy Geekdom Come

[quote name='crusader1234' date='Jan 13 2005, 01:44 AM'] If all you've got is internet conversations, there is no point in a relationship. You can't get married or anything... [/quote]
No...there is if we are definitely going to meet. Stephen Wood, an expert on Catholic marriage, says that internet meetings are the new wave for finding future spouses with great success, just as letters between soldiers and women at home did in WWII.

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Thy Geekdom Come

[quote name='BLAZEr' date='Jan 13 2005, 03:54 AM'] [b][color=#FF0000]LOVE IS NOT A FEELING!!![/color][/b]




[i]
*now back to your regularly scheduled thread.[/i] [/quote]
:rolling: :rolling: :rolling:

I know what you mean...there is a feeling that can be called love, but true love demands commitment, and that's what true love is.

There are four types of love: storge, delphia, eros, and agape.

Eros is the love of commitment.

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[quote name='Raphael' date='Jan 13 2005, 05:03 PM'] There are four types of love: storge, delphia, eros, and agape.

Eros is the love of commitment. [/quote]
I thought CS Lewis (isnt he the one that wrote about this) said there was 5
???

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I told her

/start file
me: ok look Im not someone who is good at this kinda stuff and I dont think Ive ever been in a situation like this so if i screw up or anything just remember that Im a newbie: ok the past year has been really amazing because you have been in my life- and even though i dont see you your still there and your still a huge part of who i am- so the bottom line is julie, that holy crackers I love you alot and im probably foolish for thinkin childish thoughts like this- but I want to marry you one day. Now your probably in one of these uncomfortable situations and Im sorry for puttin you in it but I just really wanted to let you know this. so i dont expect any response from you or anything- you can go right ahead and change the subject and that'll be perfectly fine with me.

her: now why would I change the subject. holy crackers- rofl. gotta love that. okay give me a sec to respond here- that was a long IM lol

me: lol. and this is not me asking you out or anything- you go right along an date,like,love whoever you wan

her:well first lemme say that was a very random outburst/confession thingy

okay well.. i agree. as yu said to me dozens of times yur the only intelligent person i talk to anymore.. and yu are like.. seriously and honestly 100% the best guy i know.. well talk to .. no. KNOW. because i do know you. i know you better than half my friends. nd i knoe yur not asking me out lol.. but i love you too... i have how much respect you have for others.. for yurself.. how like.. non-***hole you are.. how yu have yur own opinions and yur really hard working nd ur smart.. nd how yu stick up for what yu believe in.. and i can go on nd on for like ever nd ever.. nd honestly.. even tho im only 14 .. i can really see myself marrying yu .. in like years from now that is lol

me: : okay give me a sec to respond here
that was a long IM lol
ok 1st
sorry for the random outburst thingy
but like how do you get into one of those type thigns
its like
WARNING WARNING- I am about to tell you I Love you- WARNING WARNING
STAY BACK
CuRtInsFx (5:18:32 PM): better yet
her: lolol
me: turn off computer and run
ok
now
look I have alot of short comings too- many more than what my "good qualities" are- if you will- for now our relationship is at a great stage- unless you disagree
of course id like to marry you right now- but thats just not possible
so we keep being who we are the only thing is idk sometime over 2005 id like to start just hangin out with you a bit- you know as freinds an all- with other people what ever just casually hangin out you know what I mean

her: yeah

me: and who knows what the future will bring but lets not worry about that right now. *now back to our regularly schedualded programing*

/end file

God bless

-curtins

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[quote name='BLAZEr' date='Jan 13 2005, 02:54 AM'] [b][color=#FF0000]LOVE IS NOT A FEELING!!![/color][/b]




[i]
*now back to your regularly scheduled thread.[/i] [/quote]
what is love?

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:huh: wow, dawg. you dropped that one!! :lol: it sounds like it's all good now. i'm sure you feel great, but still, just take stuff nice an slow....no hurry....you've got a bunch more time b/f you're gonna get married to anyone... ;)
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lol

sure did

dont worry- it'll deffinatly be taken slow

but im really really really happy now :D:D:D

i was afraid I was puttin her in an uncomfortable situation and she wouldnt know what to say- but she never ceases to amaze me- she comes out with probably the best answer I would ever hope to hear :D:D:D

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So you told her you loved her, sort of asked her out, pulled way back? Its nice to see she digs you dude but did you miss the plethora of posts warning against telling her on MSN?

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christ_myantidrug

[quote name='J.P.' date='Jan 12 2005, 09:15 PM'] *bows* thank you. Id like to thank pop tarts and my cat fluffy for my success. [/quote]
:crackup:

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thats really great curtins. its a good example to us all that we need to take some risks in our life or risk losing out on some really great things

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