curtins Posted January 13, 2005 Author Share Posted January 13, 2005 no no no her mom an me are very cool- her brother an i were very good freinds and still are freinds so i know her mom very well and she likes me its just idk if she likes me and her cuz im also freinds with her brother so its like conflicting you know and phazzan please dont tell me stuff like that its not helpful and you just dont know Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JazzforJesus Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 Its a very iffy thing to do trust me i actually did it. I know what you mean. but thats why you should be extra careful, spend more time with her get to know her and when you really think things could work then maybe ask her cause then you dont need to worry about having it end then not being welcome in the family or anything. as i said i did it. unfortunatly we did break up. but still to this day her Dad call me and says he misses me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JazzforJesus Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 may i add we are friends and mabye later in the year i might be back at her house hanging out wiht her and her brother another note. this is a type of relationshiip that you really should ease into and only consider courting when you are sure yall could get married, you dont want it to end and be out of the family friendship Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
curtins Posted January 13, 2005 Author Share Posted January 13, 2005 well see the thing is- i dont even know if we can hang ou last year she had a bday party an asked her mom if she could invite me and her mom said no. so I dont know- i gotta go real real slow- but I just wanna tell her its like built up and i just wanna tell her i gotta let it out. and she wouldnt care if it was online- she knows thats how we communicate- i think ive talked to her 1x on the fone in the past year so she would take it as if i was right there telling her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JazzforJesus Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 ok I'll go back to what i said, telling her is a good idea. but its intresting some girls would get uneasy if a guy were to say something like I really love you big time. just dont scare her away. Its sad to see girls runaway from love Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.P. Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 Just be careful not to hurt her feelings and DO NOT play with her emotions. Thats one of the worst things that you can do and it can happen so easily. Trust me. I know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
curtins Posted January 13, 2005 Author Share Posted January 13, 2005 I dont think she will run away. she has a bog and one time she put a list of things she wants to do b4 she dies. and one of the things was to have someone love her so much that they wanted her to know so Im running on that now if only she'd stop doin her homework an come back to talk to me....... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JazzforJesus Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 say something like i have something to tell you lets see how long it would take for you to come back and type 1 *enter* 2 *enter* etc etc jk that pisses people off i know Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
curtins Posted January 13, 2005 Author Share Posted January 13, 2005 lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phazzan Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 [quote name='curtins' date='Jan 12 2005, 09:35 PM'] and phazzan please dont tell me stuff like that its not helpful and you just dont know [/quote] You're 14, you're not gonna know what love is chatting to some girl on the net ffs. Kids these days. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DancesforLove Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 In curtains defense he and and he can say whether or not he loves a person and not one of you should say to him he doesn't love her or doesn't know if he does. Curtains, I wouldn't tell her I loved her just yet just because it's such a bomb to drop but I wouldn't definetly ask her out or something. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crusader1234 Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 I'm afraid I'm going to have to agree with Phazzan here. You're 14, and that might have worked for Romeo, but times have changed. MSN conversations and three yearly encounters do not constitute a relationship that you can really judge love on. I don't doubt that you hold great affection for this girl, but I wouldn't go shouting I LOVE HER from the rooftops just yet. I warn against this dalliance. First off, your relationship with her brother would be totally jeopardized, which isn't great. If her Mother doesn't approve of you and her being friends, you can only imagine her reaction to your romantic relationship. This is really going to be a complicated relationship one way or another. If you still want to make a go of it, call her on the phone (MSN is a bad plan) and invite her to a movie. Make it clear its just a date ahead of time. Again: No MSN invites. Good Luck, Rich ps - I wouldn't take her 'have somebody love me...' wish for anything more than it is - a long term goal. I want to have kids before I die, but I ain't fixin to die quite yet. If I had triplets tomorrow, it would be quite the shock. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thy Geekdom Come Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 [quote name='picchick' date='Jan 12 2005, 10:14 PM'] Claps for J.P. NEVER GO BY INTERNET CONVERSATIONS [/quote] Unless it's the only thing you've got. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crusader1234 Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 If all you've got is internet conversations, there is no point in a relationship. You can't get married or anything... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BLAZEr Posted January 13, 2005 Share Posted January 13, 2005 [b][color=#FF0000]LOVE IS NOT A FEELING!!![/color][/b] [i] *now back to your regularly scheduled thread.[/i] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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