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franciscanheart

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Well, since I know most of the situation from talking to you about him, I would say you aren't really in danger of running him off, but since I know you're helping to lead him back to his faith try not to push him too hard and too fast. If you do push him too hard and fast he may begin to push away from you so it's best to be patient with his spiritual growth :)

God Bless,
Jennie

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Worst thing that could ever happen is that he confuses you with his faith journey . . . cuz if either stop, then so does the other . .. bad news . . .

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Thy Geekdom Come

After reading what Jen said, I would recommend not intertwining bringing him back to the faith too much with your relationship...try to keep them separate. Otherwise, it is likely that [i]if[/i] things didn't work out, he might leave the faith as well.

You have my prayers. Tell me if you ever want to talk.

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adam ^_^ what a joker!! haha

thanks jennie and micah and everyone else. im just nervous i guess because i really do like him and although he's said before that he likes me too.... I dont know im just nervous!!!!

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i feel like im taking crzy pills

Ya know what...

I've liked all these guys, but I rarely did anything about it cuz I got nervous or something. Eventually they got girlfriends and I felt something then, and then I thought that that could have been me and all these 'what ifs' if I did make a move.

At the current moment, I am sort of inbetween 'what ifs' and nothing.

Why don't the nice girls ever get rewarded?

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Thy Geekdom Come

[quote name='i feel like im taking crzy pills' date='Sep 30 2004, 01:05 AM'] Why don't the nice girls ever get rewarded? [/quote]
There is a simple solution: the nice girls and the nice guys need to find each other.

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i feel like im taking crzy pills

True... any ideas for getting a nice girl (me, lol) with some nice guy?

I go to an all girls school, so it's a little hard.

*sigh*

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Thy Geekdom Come

[quote name='i feel like im taking crzy pills' date='Sep 30 2004, 01:11 AM'] True... any ideas for getting a nice girl (me, lol) with some nice guy?

I go to an all girls school, so it's a little hard.

*sigh* [/quote]
Hmmm...there are plenty of nice guys, but they're harder to find, I would think.

I would seriously suggest going to the nearest Church and looking for the active guys who work on the committees, belong to the Knights of Columbus, pro-life clubs, ect.

Pro-life is important. Overwhelmingly, a man who respects life, even at the cost of being rejected by people for it (particularly women) is a guy who has potential.

Don't leave out the quiet guy in the corner. People like this (i.e. me) are often very shy to meet new people, but warm up and even become hyperactively bouncy, jubilant, and funny. They are worth a look, because they can be well grounded, but also a lot of fun.

Guys who love kids...always a good sign.

Lust is very powerful to guys...dress modestly to keep from scandal, as well as to attract the guys who are really interested in what you have on the inside. Modesty and Mystery are veils which hide things and allow them to be known gradually and, ultimately and completely, within marriage. Mystery, at least to the point of secrecy, is to disappear within marriage, but modesty remains and, within marriage, it serves as an aid to chastity and sacredness.

If you dress modestly, the guys who are interested in you will more than likely be the guys who truly want to know you in a chaste, self-giving, and loving manner.

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i feel like im taking crzy pills

WoW, those were some really good thoughts. I duno, I guess I'm not "shy" but I don't know. Once I get to know someone, I am totally all out there and excited and can't shut up. But hey, I'm gonna go to bed.. Message me I wanna tell ya something

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