Piccoli Fiori JMJ Posted September 22, 2004 Share Posted September 22, 2004 Like mentioned in the title, I'm starting to not like my roomate... She is decorating our room by cutting out pics of half naked guys from Cosmo (ICK!) and putting the ALL OVER! SHe has one on the fridge I brought... she also has a picture of hers on there too :angry: :angry: She has a picture on the mirror I brought :angry: She put one on our door, she is having guys sleepover with out asking me about it first, and she has been getting drunk, like drunk drunk and then having everyone else who is drunk crash in our dorm when I'm not here, and she is doing it again next weekend, and even had the nerve to ask me to join them on their drunken escapade next weekend! :angry: I'm not likeing this, and it is starting to get to me 2 weeks after we had our roomate switch day. :angry: I'm not likeing this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iacobus Posted September 22, 2004 Share Posted September 22, 2004 Awwww. That bites. I am just hoping I get a good roommate... I would go nuts if I were you. Prayers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Piccoli Fiori JMJ Posted September 22, 2004 Author Share Posted September 22, 2004 [quote name='Iacobus' date='Sep 22 2004, 03:57 PM'] I would go nuts if I were you. Prayers. [/quote] Yeah, nuts... I am keeping everything bottled up and going and hanging out with all my other homies on my floor. They are much cooler... I want to get a new roomate soon... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StColette Posted September 22, 2004 Share Posted September 22, 2004 awww Angela I'm sorry girlie, is there like no way that you could have a room switch ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Piccoli Fiori JMJ Posted September 22, 2004 Author Share Posted September 22, 2004 I might end up without a room because there is a waiting list of people who want in, and then I would have problems... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
azaelia Posted September 22, 2004 Share Posted September 22, 2004 My best friend's roomate is like that. She's continuously calling me to complain about her. Bad roomates stink :angry: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thy Geekdom Come Posted September 22, 2004 Share Posted September 22, 2004 You don't have to take that carp. I would speak to her or an RA. She has no right to do that, especially involving your property. My roommates asked me if I wanted to go to Shakers (a strip club) with them...argh... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iacobus Posted September 22, 2004 Share Posted September 22, 2004 Have you explained to her that she is bothering you with that? A few of the Colleges I have looked at have full time "room mate" consulers that you could check into. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rachael Posted September 22, 2004 Share Posted September 22, 2004 I sorta know how you feel. I worked at camp this summer and on the weekends a good majority of the people would go and get drunk. I was the youngest one there....and I would get invited all the friggin time to get drunk. It got annoying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toledo_jesus Posted September 22, 2004 Share Posted September 22, 2004 Hi. I'm an RA. In this situation the thing you need to do is 1. try talking to your roommate and hashing out your differences. Successful relationships always have boundaries. Roomies are no exception. There are things that you will not tolerate, likewise there are things she will not. It should be a give and take and both of you should agree that these things are the rules. 2. in the event your roomie is unwilling to compromise, go to your RA and discuss the matter. There should be a way for you two to make a formal roommate agreement that goes over behavior both of you are not cool with. She should NOT be drinking in the dorms, that is a given. There should also be a guest policy in effect that states you are only allowed a certain number of guests per night per month etc. 3. Get out of there whenever possible. I can already tell that the two of you are in totally different places in your life. You mention that you have other friends, well hang out with them. You only have to sleep and study in that room. The big issue is respecting your personal property and making this environment comfortable for you. You both have a right to be comfortable and she is treading on your toes. The time to stop this behavior is now, not later. Talk to an RA. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Piccoli Fiori JMJ Posted September 23, 2004 Author Share Posted September 23, 2004 thanks toledo_jesus, We have a roomate agreement contract and I was waaaaay to lax, but then I didn't know her well enough to know that she would be so stupid! :angry: I'm gonna try to talk to her, or leave her subliminal messages... :mischief: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
homeschoolmom Posted September 23, 2004 Share Posted September 23, 2004 Post a picture of Jesus or the BVM near every one that she's hung up... Pray the rosary aloud whenever her drunken buddies are there... Okay, no don't do that... but pray for them... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Piccoli Fiori JMJ Posted September 23, 2004 Author Share Posted September 23, 2004 [quote name='homeschoolmom' date='Sep 22 2004, 10:05 PM'] Post a picture of Jesus or the BVM near every one that she's hung up... Pray the rosary aloud whenever her drunken buddies are there... Okay, no don't do that... but pray for them... [/quote] I have like a DOZEN Catholic Book, statues of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph, my rosary, my crucifix, my Image of Our Lady of Guadalupe and the Divine Mercy out... SHe can see them all... Now to put on on the fridge... :mischief: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest T-Bone Posted September 23, 2004 Share Posted September 23, 2004 My roomate and I hated each other with a passion. It will come down to who is more stubborn. You or her... Keep the faith! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Piccoli Fiori JMJ Posted September 23, 2004 Author Share Posted September 23, 2004 You all are so awesome! You keep me on top of things! I'm glad I found you all! You are my outlet!!!!! :unplugged: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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