MC Just Posted September 5, 2004 Share Posted September 5, 2004 We are not suppose to do this right? Well at mass today I had my hands up praying the our father, when all of the sudden the guy next to me says "here ya go" and grabs my hand. I got all hot tempered. I'm sure they saw that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paladin D Posted September 5, 2004 Share Posted September 5, 2004 [quote name='MC Just' date='Sep 5 2004, 12:32 PM'] We are not suppose to do this right? Well at mass today I had my hands up praying the our father, when all of the sudden the guy next to me says "here ya go" and grabs my hand. I got all hot tempered. I'm sure they saw that. [/quote] It's a practice in my parish for everyone to hold hands during the Our Father. It's hard to refuse holding hands when you're an Altar Server next to the priest doing it. My parish has liturgical abuses. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dUSt Posted September 5, 2004 Share Posted September 5, 2004 I don't think much of it when other people do it because I try not to judge their intentions. It only bothers me when the priest/decon/alter servers do it. But even then, we shouldn't let it distract us from focusing on what's happening at that moment. My family keeps our hands together in a prayer position so it's pretty much impossible for the people next to us to grab them. haha... My daughter asked why we can't hold hands and I explained to her that we should put all our attention on God and not our neighbors. Made sense to her, and she's only 6. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toledo_jesus Posted September 5, 2004 Share Posted September 5, 2004 it is a meaningless action, as far as I'm concerned. Just like the whole "and also with you" motion I see people do. you know what I mean. Our common prayer is enough to unite us in the way that matters. we need to physical act to do that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. Cube Posted September 5, 2004 Share Posted September 5, 2004 It's funny to watch people reach for a hand that isn't there. I fold my hands in prayer during the Our Father. I stopped holding hands when it dawned on me that it's just a touchy-feely thing people do during Mass. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fiat_Voluntas_Tua Posted September 5, 2004 Share Posted September 5, 2004 Yea...I used to do it...but stopped because why be connected to someone by holding there hands? Our souls are connected as one Family through Our Father. -UIOGD- Andy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brother Adam Posted September 5, 2004 Share Posted September 5, 2004 It drives me nuts. The priests are suppose to have their hands raised, but not holding each others hands. Everyone else should have their hands together. It's these types of liturgical abuses that make no sense to me. All a priest has to do to is correct the congregation and move on. It should not be a big deal. And yet it is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zwergel88 Posted September 5, 2004 Share Posted September 5, 2004 when I was in the choir at my parish, everyone held hands and it was hard to refuse, but I'm not in it any more, so of course I don't do it this is a really stupid reason, but I think holding hands seems kind of Protestant-ish or something, that doesn't make sense, but that is just how I think of it in my mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brother Adam Posted September 5, 2004 Share Posted September 5, 2004 It's distracting. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MC Just Posted September 5, 2004 Author Share Posted September 5, 2004 thanks for the responses ya'll. The thing is, there was a time when the priest gave me a weird look when he noticed that I didnt do it. I just feel like, if the church is teaching we shouldnt do it, then WHY is it being done??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brother Adam Posted September 5, 2004 Share Posted September 5, 2004 Amen and Amen. I noticed that about 75%-80% of the congregation is holding hands. I also know polls show that 73% of Catholics do not believe in the Real Presence. A correlation? Are 73% of Catholics in America drinking damnation unto themselves? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AfroNova No Limit Soldier Posted September 5, 2004 Share Posted September 5, 2004 I didn't know the Church was teaching us that we shouldn't. Can you point me to the document? Thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brother Adam Posted September 5, 2004 Share Posted September 5, 2004 (edited) Holding Hands at Mass Concerning holding hands in the Eucharistic Liturgy the Congregation for Divine Worship in Rome responded as follows: [b]QUERY: In some places there is a current practice whereby those taking part in the Mass replace the giving of the sign of peace at the deacon's invitation by holding hands during the singing of the Lord's Prayer. Is this acceptable? REPLY: The prolonged holding of hands is of itself a sign of communion rather than of peace. Further, it is a liturgical gesture introduced spontaneously but on personal initiative; it is not in the rubrics. Nor is there any clear explanation of why the sign of peace at the invitation: "Let us offer each other the sign of peace" should be supplanted in order to bring a different gesture with less meaning into another part of the Mass: the sign of peace is filled with meaning, graciousness, and Christian inspiration. Any substitution for it must be repudiated: Notitiae 11 (1975) 226. [Notitiae is the journal of the Congregation in which its official interpretations of the rubrics are published.][/b] While this addresses the holding of hands at the Sign of Peace the reasons given apply also elsewhere in the Mass, including at the Our Father. 1) It is an inappropriate "sign," since Communion is the sign of intimacy. Thus, a gesture of intimacy is introduced both before the sign of reconciliation (the Sign of Peace), but more importantly, before Holy Communion, the sacramental sign of communion/intimacy within the People of God. 2) It is introduced on personal initiative. The Holy See has authority over the liturgy according to Vatican II's "Constitution on the Sacred Liturgy" #22 and canon 838 of the Code of Canon Law. This gesture has come into widespread use, often leaving bishops and pastors at a loss as to how to reverse the situation. For individuals, I would recommend closed eyes and a prayerful posture as sufficient response, rather than belligerence. Most laity, and probably many priests, are blind to the liturgical significance of interrupting the flow of the Mass in this way. It is not necessary to lose one's peace over this or be an irritation to others. Some proportion is required. If asked why you don't participate, simply, plainly and charitably tell the questioner of your discovery. If some chance of changing the practice is possible talk to the pastor or work with other laity through the parish council. You can also write the bishop, as is your right in the case of any liturgical abuse not resolved at the parish level. If your judgment is that no change is possible then I believe you are excused from further fraternal correction. Answered by Colin B. Donovan, STL Edited September 5, 2004 by Brother Adam Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MC Just Posted September 5, 2004 Author Share Posted September 5, 2004 ah ha! Thanks Bro Adam... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrsFrozen Posted September 5, 2004 Share Posted September 5, 2004 I don't do any of those newfangled actions. I grew up in a parish that didn't do those things. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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