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Did you say I Love You to your Spouse Before Marriage? two parts really  

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RemnantRules

I was wondering about this the other day. Thanks for the voting and for those who aren't married i'm sorry and thank you for being respectful.


OHHH MESS UP!!! Sorry! just say Yes or No then you can say when you said it. thanks!!!


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Jason Gregory

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Yes. I said I love you before we were engaged. Being in love doesn't mean you should be married. It means that you should consider it. Love is a decision you have to make every day for the rest of your life. If you don't think you can do that, don't get married. The love I feel for my wife now after 20+ years of marriage is much different than at 2 months. Newly wed love doesn't even begin to hold a candle to 'oldy' wed love. It's like a keychain flashlight and a solar flare different.

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homeschoolmom

[quote name='jasJis' date='Aug 31 2004, 04:27 PM'] Newly wed love doesn't even begin to hold a candle to 'oldy' wed love. It's like a keychain flashlight and a solar flare different. [/quote]
word.

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cmotherofpirl

[quote name='jasJis' date='Aug 31 2004, 06:27 PM'] Yes. I said I love you before we were engaged. Being in love doesn't mean you should be married. It means that you should consider it. Love is a decision you have to make every day for the rest of your life. If you don't think you can do that, don't get married. The love I feel for my wife now after 20+ years of marriage is much different than at 2 months. Newly wed love doesn't even begin to hold a candle to 'oldy' wed love. It's like a keychain flashlight and a solar flare different. [/quote]
My neighbor used to telle me first 60 years of married life are the hardest.

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IcePrincessKRS

I told Matt I loved him before we were engaged... of course we only dated for 3 months (engaged for 18 months so I could finish college)... we knew we wanted to get married right away.

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Hey, me too Katie!! We dated for about three months (really 2 1/2), I graduated college 3 months later and we were married another 3 months after that. We will be married three years on December 1st, and are expecting our third child. There's just something about the number 3.

Oh, and yes, the point of this thread, we both said "I love you" before we were engaged.

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Didn't vote just had a comment.
A friend once told me that you don't really love the person until you are married to them. Reason: it's just a really big crush.

Anyone agree with that? I kinda see her point for kids who are not really seriously dating. But I mean, if you are dating someone and you think that they are the one, wouldn't it be alright to say "I love you?"

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