VeraMaria Posted September 12, 2004 Share Posted September 12, 2004 [quote name='Iacobus' date='Sep 11 2004, 11:58 PM'] [/quote] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*teen4Christ* Posted September 12, 2004 Share Posted September 12, 2004 lol yeah Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
musturde Posted September 12, 2004 Share Posted September 12, 2004 I'm a 15 year old who's looking for some ladiez (please only 25 and under, I dont want everyone taking advantage of this opportunity) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reelguy227 Posted September 12, 2004 Author Share Posted September 12, 2004 lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarieCecilia Posted September 13, 2004 Share Posted September 13, 2004 [quote]I'm a 15 year old who's looking for some ladiez (please only 25 and under, I dont want everyone taking advantage of this opportunity)[/quote] oh ok we won't all come running at once.... haha! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jp2_rules Posted September 14, 2004 Share Posted September 14, 2004 [quote name='VeraMaria' date='Sep 10 2004, 10:25 PM'] Not to sound conceited, but I don't lack prospective boyfriends...some guys are just downright determined to get me to go out with them (it's quite funny actually...the more I refuse them (they're the football-hero-popular-jerk kind of guys ) the more they try to coax me into a date [/quote] That's really harsh Actually there are some really good posts on here(yours being one). Dating is a tough thing. I never dated in high school. I had plently of friends who were girls, but never dated. For a teenage guy, that's really tough. Now I'm a freshman in college. I don't ever regret my decision. I'm still in no hurry. I think that becoming friends with her/him first is very important. For one, you'll both be honest and natural; no need to 'win over' or impress your date. You'll also not have to deal with all of the pressures I know my friends dealt with--especially sex. Teenagers especially have raging hormones(and I mean raging, as at least the guys should know). It's not a real good idea to test them. I'm not saying that you shouldn't date in high school. I'm just giving you my perspective/experience. So yeah. Just be friends for now. God will put things into place for you. Pray hard as well. I always pray for my future wife. I pray that God will keep me strong in saving myself entirely fo her, that He'll do the same for her, and that He'll please tell me who she is soon, 'cause I'd really like to know;) God bless!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VeraMaria Posted September 14, 2004 Share Posted September 14, 2004 [quote name='jp2_rules' date='Sep 13 2004, 09:08 PM'] That's really harsh Actually there are some really good posts on here(yours being one). Dating is a tough thing. I never dated in high school. I had plently of friends who were girls, but never dated. For a teenage guy, that's really tough. Now I'm a freshman in college. I don't ever regret my decision. I'm still in no hurry. I think that becoming friends with her/him first is very important. For one, you'll both be honest and natural; no need to 'win over' or impress your date. You'll also not have to deal with all of the pressures I know my friends dealt with--especially sex. Teenagers especially have raging hormones(and I mean raging, as at least the guys should know). It's not a real good idea to test them. I'm not saying that you shouldn't date in high school. I'm just giving you my perspective/experience. So yeah. Just be friends for now. God will put things into place for you. Pray hard as well. [/quote] AMEN!! Awesome post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*teen4Christ* Posted September 14, 2004 Share Posted September 14, 2004 [quote name='jp2_rules' date='Sep 13 2004, 07:08 PM'] That's really harsh Actually there are some really good posts on here(yours being one). Dating is a tough thing. I never dated in high school. I had plently of friends who were girls, but never dated. For a teenage guy, that's really tough. Now I'm a freshman in college. I don't ever regret my decision. I'm still in no hurry. I think that becoming friends with her/him first is very important. For one, you'll both be honest and natural; no need to 'win over' or impress your date. You'll also not have to deal with all of the pressures I know my friends dealt with--especially sex. Teenagers especially have raging hormones(and I mean raging, as at least the guys should know). It's not a real good idea to test them. I'm not saying that you shouldn't date in high school. I'm just giving you my perspective/experience. So yeah. Just be friends for now. God will put things into place for you. Pray hard as well. I always pray for my future wife. I pray that God will keep me strong in saving myself entirely fo her, that He'll do the same for her, and that He'll please tell me who she is soon, 'cause I'd really like to know;) God bless!! [/quote] very cool. I want to be friends with the person I am going to date for a while before (if we do) start dating. I really want to get to know him and be really close before we start dating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jp2_rules Posted September 14, 2004 Share Posted September 14, 2004 I think it is very awesome that there are teens out there who want what's best, not just what society says is best. It's reading posts like these that give many of us hope there are still good people out there(I've been and am even more now surrounded by good people. But, even good people follow society.) As a guy it is very inspiring to see girls with views like yours. BTW, you busy Friday night..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*teen4Christ* Posted September 14, 2004 Share Posted September 14, 2004 (edited) I am like so lucky cuz my friends in Tx are so awesome!!!!! The guys I know have so much respect for me. Its great! when I lived in St.louis I could never even think about just being friends with a guy if you were not going to date them they wanted nothing 2 do with you. So I am glad God has put me here with friends that love and respect me for me. Its Awesome! Edited September 14, 2004 by *teen4Christ* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reelguy227 Posted September 15, 2004 Author Share Posted September 15, 2004 [quote name='jp2_rules' date='Sep 13 2004, 07:08 PM'] That's really harsh Actually there are some really good posts on here(yours being one). Dating is a tough thing. I never dated in high school. I had plently of friends who were girls, but never dated. For a teenage guy, that's really tough. Now I'm a freshman in college. I don't ever regret my decision. I'm still in no hurry. I think that becoming friends with her/him first is very important. For one, you'll both be honest and natural; no need to 'win over' or impress your date. You'll also not have to deal with all of the pressures I know my friends dealt with--especially sex. Teenagers especially have raging hormones(and I mean raging, as at least the guys should know). It's not a real good idea to test them. I'm not saying that you shouldn't date in high school. I'm just giving you my perspective/experience. So yeah. Just be friends for now. God will put things into place for you. Pray hard as well. I always pray for my future wife. I pray that God will keep me strong in saving myself entirely fo her, that He'll do the same for her, and that He'll please tell me who she is soon, 'cause I'd really like to know;) God bless!! [/quote] Awesome post jp2 !!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*teen4Christ* Posted September 18, 2004 Share Posted September 18, 2004 cool sn JP2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Noel's angel Posted September 19, 2004 Share Posted September 19, 2004 Hey, im back everyone! I dont know if anyone noticed or cares, but hi oh yeah, i broke up with my boy friend a few weeks ago, so now im happy and free as a bird yey!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geetarplayer Posted September 19, 2004 Share Posted September 19, 2004 All throughout Jr. High I always wanted a girlfriend. That was my main goal: to get a girlfriend. Then, suddenly, in my Freshman year, I met someone who had a crush on me. And she was very attractive and a nice person. So we went out. Now that I look back on the relationship, I realize that it was a very rushed and very forced relationship on my part. Probably the main thing that led me to ask her out was the fact that I wanted a girlfriend. I don't think I was able to think seriously or honestly about the relationship until just before I broke up with her. It was the first time I could confront myself honestly about it for a whole year. (I never could confront her completely honestly.) It's left me very skeptical about relationships now, especially knowing that there are now two more girls who have a crush on me... -Mark Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Noel's angel Posted September 20, 2004 Share Posted September 20, 2004 just go with what u feel in ur heart, thats what i always say, imagine if those two girls didnt have a crush on u, what would u think about them? maybe its just me, but i follow my heart all the time, its not always the best turnout in the end, but anyways........... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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