qfnol31 Posted August 10, 2004 Share Posted August 10, 2004 In kissing, the tongues do not have to exit the mouth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
franciscanheart Posted August 10, 2004 Share Posted August 10, 2004 THANK YOU ZACH!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StColette Posted August 10, 2004 Share Posted August 10, 2004 [quote name='qfnol31' date='Aug 9 2004, 10:50 PM'] In kissing, the tongues do not have to exit the mouth. [/quote] Amen Zach !! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
franciscanheart Posted August 10, 2004 Share Posted August 10, 2004 After posting all that, seriously all one needs to say is: "The virtue of chastity blossoms in friendship." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Diggety Posted August 10, 2004 Share Posted August 10, 2004 [quote name='StColette' date='Aug 9 2004, 08:55 PM']I don't date for the simple fact that what I would get out of dating someone, respectfully and morally, I can simple have with a good guy friend. [/quote] Some of the best marriages I know started as best friends! I've always liked the view that you are running as hard and focused on Christ as you can, and at some point, you look over and see someone else doing the same and invite them to run along side you PS One good resource I've liked are Joshua Harris's books "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" and "Boy Meets Girl" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stagefairy Posted August 10, 2004 Author Share Posted August 10, 2004 [quote]NO KISSING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NO TONGUES SHOULD TOUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!! NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO[/quote] I could't help but laugh when I read that. I loved everything you said too. I think another important thing to remember is: Am I using this person to get something. For guys that can sometimes be physical and for girls it can be emotional. And nobody should ever use another person or be used. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stef22 Posted August 10, 2004 Share Posted August 10, 2004 Hello, I'm a little new... but I believe that dating is to directly discern who you want to marry. Although dating incorporates a lot of fun, (because you should have fun, jokes, things in common and such) there is a very serious aspect to it. And I think that some time dating gets a bad wrap, and people hear about dating and they're scared. As long as you know the person, fairly well before you date, examples such as what they're into, friends friends sometimes even. It also really is important because if it wasn't for dating I probably would still have a hard time talking to females . Physical restrictions are basically, obviously you should remain chastise until marriage. Some things I do not like is when some people create a mold for their spouse before hand, you obviously should know what you like but limiting physical characteristics is not very Godly in any way. Although I strongly agree you must be attracted to your significant other in some way (physically or otherwise). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StColette Posted August 10, 2004 Share Posted August 10, 2004 [quote name='Diggety' date='Aug 9 2004, 11:06 PM'] Some of the best marriages I know started as best friends! I've always liked the view that you are running as hard and focused on Christ as you can, and at some point, you look over and see someone else doing the same and invite them to run along side you [/quote] I couldn't agree more !! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crusader_4 Posted August 10, 2004 Share Posted August 10, 2004 Stef22 well put....i agree with you. We need to date as to prepare ourselves for our vocation to marriage. That is what dating should souley used for. I.e. Cant see yourself preparing to marry the individual then dont date them keep as good friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prov31girl Posted August 10, 2004 Share Posted August 10, 2004 [quote name='WCC_Catholic' date='Aug 9 2004, 10:30 PM'] i have been a wounded bird for too long so i trying to date again but i can not find anyone who will go out on a date with me. i know that all things will come in Gods time but i want someone to hold me that is all. well guess i hav to wait :wub: Sarah Marie [/quote] Yeah...I feel the same way, sistah!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MorphRC Posted August 10, 2004 Share Posted August 10, 2004 You date to find someone you truly love, and then if you find it, go unto marriage. But its for fun as well, with the person, friendship etc etc Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MorphRC Posted August 10, 2004 Share Posted August 10, 2004 Oh and its human nature! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
White Knight Posted August 10, 2004 Share Posted August 10, 2004 I know longer believe in dating, Ive had plenty of Girl Friends in my 19-20 years of old age living lol, and I'm sick of dating lol, too much money, too much work, too crazyness. I do believe dating is to know the person, before marrying them, obviously. But since I dont date anymore, I dont wanna get married, so I just dont date anymore. Sick of it, in a funny way. God Bless. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mattosika Posted August 10, 2004 Share Posted August 10, 2004 I'm with all of you I don't date, I took a lot of critisism and abuse about it during high school, but thats all over. I have gone as far to make a vow with God and to whoever my future wife will be I am saving my first kiss for our wedding day, and it feels great! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stagefairy Posted August 10, 2004 Author Share Posted August 10, 2004 [quote]And I think that some time dating gets a bad wrap, and people hear about dating and they're scared. As long as you know the person, fairly well before you date, examples such as what they're into, friends friends sometimes even[/quote] I think it depends on your definition of dating too. By dating do you mean an exclusive relationship with a member of the opposite sex in which you spend a lot of time one on one or alone? Or do you mean a relationship with someone of the opposite sex where you get to know the person through mutual friends and social activities, fostering friendship? I don't think that spending a lot of time alone with a person of the opposite sex is necessary or necessarily good. [quote]QUOTE (WCC_Catholic @ Aug 9 2004, 10:30 PM) i have been a wounded bird for too long so i trying to date again but i can not find anyone who will go out on a date with me. i know that all things will come in Gods time but i want someone to hold me that is all. well guess i hav to wait Sarah Marie Yeah...I feel the same way, sistah!! [/quote] I think this is a natural feeling. The desire to be love and cherished. We girls have to be very careful not to enter or seek relationships just because we want someone to meet our emotional needs. We shouldn't use guys for that. Be held by Christ in holy communion! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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