Guest moonlight Posted October 4, 2003 Share Posted October 4, 2003 Blue Rose, I know how you feel, but only with the friends thing. I've been betrayed so many times too and I don't know why. Do you ever dream up wonderful things and when something actually amesome happens to you it's too good to be true? yeah, i know how it is. All you need to do is relax and try your best to be ok with him. It is amesome that he is really nice and you need to realize that its agood thing, even though you've been mistreated. The best thing to do is pray about it. God can help. I can tell you really like this guy and i hope everything works out! And I hope that I did help you out at least a little. *alyssa* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueRose Posted October 4, 2003 Author Share Posted October 4, 2003 I will no longer read or give advice to anyone who starts a story with "this guy(girl) im dating" That's your perrogative. Bye!:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueRose Posted October 4, 2003 Author Share Posted October 4, 2003 Hi guys - thanks for all that you have said. I have definately taken it to heart and it has helped me bunches. Unfortunately, said Nice Guy DID turn out to be a loser. But hey - life goes on and that's that! P.S. Moonlight - yeah, I totally agreed with what you said. :-) We should talk more often! lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Qamidalash Posted October 5, 2003 Share Posted October 5, 2003 Oh, I'm sorry BR! Do you want me to go beat 'em up? :ph34r: Aimp Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueRose Posted October 6, 2003 Author Share Posted October 6, 2003 Oh, I'm sorry BR! Do you want me to go beat 'em up? :ph34r: Aimp Nah - losing me is punishment enough! Even if he's too blind at the moment to realize it. Thanks, though, Sarah. *hugs* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ICTHUS Posted October 6, 2003 Share Posted October 6, 2003 Wow, dating is dumb. It's so confusing, you know? I mean, a lot of times, you don't just date one person at a time, you go out with this one, and that one, get to know him or her over here... until you find one you really like and sort-of focus on him/her more than the others. Yes, dating is one heck of a confusing and complicated mess. It's a wonder I even get involved. I agree, that's why I don't believe in dating. I believe in Courtship, because I believe that it's more biblical, and doesn't encourage intimacy that can only awaken desires that can only be righteously satisfied within marriage. Plus, there's all the reasons BlueRose is currently suffering from... Courtship would be where I would go to the father of one of my girl-friends that I had been friends wit for ages, and in whom I was romantically interested in and we had considered a future together, and say to her father "Sir, I would like to court your daughter for the purpose of pursuing marriage" (or something like that!!) God bless, Ryan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueRose Posted October 6, 2003 Author Share Posted October 6, 2003 Wow. I so totally agree with you there, Icthus! (So totally? Haha - yeah, you know I'm tired when I start speaking Valley Girl... lol) I have suddenly realized that, if anything, dating should be more of a sorting situation. Whereas Said Male, once dated, can be placed under categories; file under F for Friend, under P for Potential Courtship, or perhaps under R for Really Big Loser. Ah, yes. What a plan! Dating to find "an amazing guy" is stupid. But meeting guys and perhaps going out, talking, getting to know eachother first, blah blah blah... that's cool. I guess. Am I making any sense? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ICTHUS Posted October 6, 2003 Share Posted October 6, 2003 Well, yes and no. The idea behind courtship is to stay out of the dating realm entirely. And I haven't met a girl that even comes CLOSE to someone I'd consider courting. She'd have to be a Christian, preferably a of the Catholic persuasion, first and foremost...and strong in her faith, and then she'd have to match my freaky personality. Oh man, I have just WAY narrowed my options down. Who in the heck is going to match my freaky personality? Oh well...Im sure God has someone out there for me! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueRose Posted October 6, 2003 Author Share Posted October 6, 2003 Yeah I see where I contradicted myself! I just don't know how to correct my statement. You think YOU'VE narrowed down your choices! Ha! (well, maybe.) But I can relate on the note of the freakiness! I am SUCH a weirdo. I mean seriously, any guy that can love the goofiness and corniness and dreaminess and total STRANGENESS which is the essence of me has GOT to be The One, you know? I gotta say, other than that I'm also sorta picky. Not in the physical sense persay, 'cause that doesn't matter a whole bunch (though I guess is still worth minor points) - I've just got a lot of standards. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littleflower+JMJ Posted October 6, 2003 Share Posted October 6, 2003 dumping and breaking up = dating thats the game. and i dont' play. i like the way ICTHUS thinks!! lol i too have narrowed down pretty slim too but thats why ive been praying to st. raphael! hehe i rather pray and wait than spend time on losers (ouch! im harsh!) im sorry bluerose it turned out like that for you. but not really sorry, i mean look on the bright side, you can mark him off your list for good :D :D :D :D your not wasting your time anymore.... +JMJ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BlueRose Posted October 6, 2003 Author Share Posted October 6, 2003 Yeah JMJ it's cool. And I just saw this really great movie: Under the Tuscan Sun. I loved it bunches! It had a bit to do with love and loss and LIVING LIFE! I suppose if I HAD to I could stick to courtship. But I dunno, that'd be like telling a free spirit to go sit in a corner. Do you get my meaning? I think its an amazingly amesome idea and if a person can seriously do it then I'm impressed. Me, I'm sortof a free spirit. no, I do not mean "hippie" or a person that does whatever is fun and feels good. Just... sorta wild... in a good free way. (Part of the weirdness) Dating=breaking up, I thought that was called "going out" or "going steady"? I thought dating was meeting a person and going out on dates and stuff to get to know eachother before any decisions are reached. Ah, who knows. Words. All words! :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littleflower+JMJ Posted October 6, 2003 Share Posted October 6, 2003 well, i got that from a catholic dating book. and they know what their talkin about, i mean their experts on this kind of thing! lol and lord knows im not! haha you should read that book by Mary Bonacci, "Real Love" she explains it soooooo better than i could. also "the ABC's of Choosing a Good Husband" (stephan wood) now that rocks!! both shoot the lame dating out the window! LOL because well, breaking up is hard to do... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReformationNow Posted October 6, 2003 Share Posted October 6, 2003 Icthus! Dude! Totally cool! I'm totally into Courtship too! You're the only other guy I know who believes in it! It's hard waiting for the right type of girl to come along tho. Especially when your church only has two girls near your age in it! One of the girls in my church I'd court if I could, but she's not interested in me. A couple of the guys in my church want to start a 'Single Girls Christian Outreach Ministry', lol! In the youth group, guys out number the girls 3.5 to 1. And she can't be just a Christian girl. She has to be one who is totally committed to the faith. A girl who makes Christianity the center of her life. But enough about girls. This is depressing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littleflower+JMJ Posted October 6, 2003 Share Posted October 6, 2003 Icthus! Dude! Totally cool! I'm totally into Courtship too! You're the only other guy I know who believes in it! It's hard waiting for the right type of girl to come along tho. Especially when your church only has two girls near your age in it! One of the girls in my church I'd court if I could, but she's not interested in me. A couple of the guys in my church want to start a 'Single Girls Christian Outreach Ministry', lol! In the youth group, guys out number the girls 3.5 to 1. And she can't be just a Christian girl. She has to be one who is totally committed to the faith. A girl who makes Christianity the center of her life. But enough about girls. This is depressing. come on NOw! all of us are too BLESSED to be DEPRESSED! am i right? hellllllllo????? helloooooooo? :ph34r: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReformationNow Posted October 6, 2003 Share Posted October 6, 2003 come on NOw! all of us are too BLESSED to be DEPRESSED! am i right? hellllllllo????? helloooooooo? :ph34r: ROFLMHO! I wouldn't be depressed if I was blessed with more girls in my church! :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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