StrivingforSainthood Posted April 4, 2022 Share Posted April 4, 2022 Hey everyone! I just came on here to ask for some advice. So, I went to confession on Sunday and at the time of my confession, I felt that I had a firm amendment not to sin. However, later that day, during dinner I believe that I might have committed gluttony. I felt that I was getting full/ if not a little full already, and I had one extra bite to eat. While I was chewing, I thought "maybe this is gluttony, perhaps, I should spit out this bite of food." Instead, I thought to myself: “no, this is fine.” and finished that bite. To be clear, I wasn’t overly full after finishing that bite, just normally full. Where is the line for gluttony? Have I committed gluttony, and if so, considering that I went to confession less than twelve hours before, would this be considered not having a firm purpose of amendment, and therefore, an invalid confession? As you can probably tell, I struggle with scrupulosity, but I just want to be careful and not blithe. Any advice would be really appreciated. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nihil Obstat Posted April 4, 2022 Share Posted April 4, 2022 1 hour ago, StrivingforSainthood said: As you can probably tell, I struggle with scrupulosity, but I just want to be careful and not blithe. Any advice would be really appreciated. You should be taking to a spiritual director, not us. A single bite when you are kind-of-but-not-really full is not gluttony. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benedictaaugustine Posted April 4, 2022 Share Posted April 4, 2022 10 hours ago, StrivingforSainthood said: , considering that I went to confession less than twelve hours before, would this be considered not having a firm purpose of amendment, and therefore, an invalid confession? Agree with @Nihil Obstat just wanted to say something about this ^ though. Just because you sin after confession, doesn’t mean you didn’t have a firm purpose of amendment. That’s the human condition, to keep sinning and getting back up. When you were in the confessional, were you planning on being gluttonous later that day? No? Then you’re good. Also, I don’t think that’s gluttony at all. But anyway, you should get a spiritual director, esp if you struggle with scrupulosity Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seven77 Posted April 5, 2022 Share Posted April 5, 2022 I also suggest you find a good spiritual director, especially if you struggle with scrupulously – – it has helped me immensely to overcome scrupulously. Also, I think there has been some great advice here. You seem like you are trying to do your best to live a holy life. Keep going, don't become discouraged, just keep getting up from your falls, no matter how painful. Jesus didn't shed his blood in vain, ask him to cover in his precious blood and to hide you in Hiswounds. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dUSt Posted April 8, 2022 Share Posted April 8, 2022 Now TWO extra bites would have definitely been gluttony. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ardillacid Posted April 22, 2022 Share Posted April 22, 2022 What did I just read Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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