Gabriela Posted October 17, 2015 Share Posted October 17, 2015 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IgnatiusofLoyola Posted October 17, 2015 Share Posted October 17, 2015 It's the weekend, and I think some Phatmassers may actually have a life. (Not me, but I've heard rumors of other people having lives.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Didacus Posted October 17, 2015 Share Posted October 17, 2015 All you have to do is ressurect an old thread and this place heats up pretty fast. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gabriela Posted October 17, 2015 Author Share Posted October 17, 2015 All you have to do is ressurect an old thread and this place heats up pretty fast. Actually, I suspect that's one reason it's dead. People got so annoyed they took a hiatus. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luigi Posted October 18, 2015 Share Posted October 18, 2015 Because no matter who asks what or who replies, somebody's gonna slap 'em down. Better to keep quiet than to get slapped. (I added my own so that nobody else has to.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anastasia13 Posted October 18, 2015 Share Posted October 18, 2015 (I added my own so that nobody else has to.) Careful. You could get slapped for overstepping your role and slapping where you were not supposed to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
veritasluxmea Posted October 18, 2015 Share Posted October 18, 2015 Actually, I suspect that's one reason it's dead. People got so annoyed they took a hiatus. Yeah, this. I also wonder if people are just fed up with "witch hunts" or the conversations on Phatmass in general since then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarysLittleFlower Posted October 18, 2015 Share Posted October 18, 2015 (edited) To be honest I haven't been here much because of all the drama. I don't mean the old threads discussion necessarily. There's been a lot of drama for a while and I find it distracting and it brings out the worst in me. There's just a lot of discussing each other instead of the ideas. It feels like school all over again It doesnt feel safe anymore and that's too bad. Edited October 18, 2015 by MarysLittleFlower Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarysLittleFlower Posted October 18, 2015 Share Posted October 18, 2015 (edited) Because this is a Catholic forum, sometimes people come here to have a 'safe' place to just be who they are, but then they leave more wounded than before. Edited October 18, 2015 by MarysLittleFlower Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dUSt Posted October 19, 2015 Share Posted October 19, 2015 Somebody please send me a message to explain who is responsible for the drama and for making people feel unsafe. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dominicansoul Posted October 19, 2015 Share Posted October 19, 2015 Actually, I suspect that's one reason it's dead. People got so annoyed they took a hiatus. we can only wish the annoyed ones would take a hiatus lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
veritasluxmea Posted October 19, 2015 Share Posted October 19, 2015 Somebody please send me a message to explain who is responsible for the drama and for making people feel unsafe. Probably had something to do with this thread. I don't think anyone actually feels unsafe, just annoyed or disliked. I took a break for about 40 hours then decided I didn't care so here I am, gracing you all with my presence. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vee Posted October 19, 2015 Share Posted October 19, 2015 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarysLittleFlower Posted October 19, 2015 Share Posted October 19, 2015 Maybe people feeling disliked is more accurate than describing it as feeling unsafe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gabriela Posted October 19, 2015 Author Share Posted October 19, 2015 Welcome to the internet, ppl. You need to develop a thicker skin. Someone calling you out for your behavior is not a personal slight or a sign of dislike. It's a sign that you DID something—not that you ARE—annoying, and that only to one or a few people. Rarely does everyone agree around here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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