ChristinaTherese Posted February 13, 2014 Share Posted February 13, 2014 I can't find her old thread easily, so I'm just starting a new one to say that I found a picture of her and the other two postulants on her sisters' facebook page: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AveMariaPurissima Posted February 13, 2014 Share Posted February 13, 2014 So beautiful!!! Thanks for sharing! Do you know which one she is in the picture? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnneLine Posted February 13, 2014 Share Posted February 13, 2014 If the community hasn't posted the names in the right order, probably better we not try to answer this... I'm not a mod, but we need to remember what the mods have asked us regarding anonymity on VS.... http://www.phatmass.com/phorum/topic/131988-privacyanonymity-on-vocation-station/ I think if Mary's Child had wanted us to ID her by picture, she would have done so or had a family member do so. I think her community was suggesting to her that she back off on the social media.... and we need to respect their wishes. I could be wrong, but I'd rather we erred on the side of discretion. If they post the names on FB or a website, that's a different thing.... my 2 cents.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OnlySunshine Posted February 13, 2014 Share Posted February 13, 2014 If the community hasn't posted the names in the right order, probably better we not try to answer this... I'm not a mod, but we need to remember what the mods have asked us regarding anonymity on VS.... http://www.phatmass.com/phorum/topic/131988-privacyanonymity-on-vocation-station/ I think if Mary's Child had wanted us to ID her by picture, she would have done so or had a family member do so. I think her community was suggesting to her that she back off on the social media.... and we need to respect their wishes. I could be wrong, but I'd rather we erred on the side of discretion. If they post the names on FB or a website, that's a different thing.... my 2 cents.... Yes, I think this is best, as well, especially since MC posted a status asking how her account could be closed. This is becoming more common with some orders who don't want a large internet presence and want to protect the identity of their Sisters. It's respectful to obey their wishes. ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChristinaTherese Posted February 13, 2014 Author Share Posted February 13, 2014 (edited) Yeah, I know here real name, but I'm not telling and I don't know which she is. (I might be able to find out, but that would be by way of finding a picture of her on the facebook account she probably closed if she was wanting to close this one.) ETA: Finding out which she is would just be insanely difficult anyway, what with the angle in the picture. Edited February 13, 2014 by Christina Thérèse Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AveMariaPurissima Posted February 14, 2014 Share Posted February 14, 2014 :oops:Sorry for asking....you all are right. I feel stupid for not thinking of that. :sorry: :paperbag: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SilentJoy Posted February 14, 2014 Share Posted February 14, 2014 :oops:Sorry for asking....you all are right. I feel stupid for not thinking of that. :sorry: :paperbag: Awww, don't feel stupid, it was a reasonable question. I would have asked if you hadn't. :blush: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cmaD2006 Posted February 14, 2014 Share Posted February 14, 2014 Yes remember the privacy rule please :). Although I do have to admit that it's a great photo. The good news -- the community name is not posted so that's great. And the general rule -- if you know for sure that the community is ok with posting the photo, or that the postulant/novice/professed sister has given the ok to post, then you should by all means post the photo. So for example -- if you took pictures during a come-and-see, you really should clear it with the sisters (especially if they are cloistered) before posting. It gets a bit more fuzzy re: a facebook page. But that also means it is in the public forum (i.e. it has been publicized for the world to see, unless their facebook page is private to members/followers only). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnneLine Posted February 14, 2014 Share Posted February 14, 2014 Nobody needs to feel bad... we didn't' post anything that was privacy invading. And it is a reminder to pray for her, her postulant sisters, and her community. I hope no one minded that I suggested that we probably ought to just stop at that point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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