HisChildForever Posted July 23, 2013 Share Posted July 23, 2013 (edited) What is so sad about it? Most people don't marry outside of their own race. That is the norm. I am not attracted to people of different skin colors, as is the case with a lot of other white people. My parents came from a conservative catholic country where virtually everyone was white. Let's just say I'm not a guy with jungle fever :hehe2: Vanilla has always been my favorite flavor for ice cream and women. Are you insinuating that non-white women are jungle people or some such nonsense?? This attitude is truly disgusting. I would be suspicious as to whether or not she is telling the truth or if she is just lying so that she can rope me in. You won't actually know if she has a hymen until your wedding night. So do you plan on having your bride spread her legs so you can inspect her??? Or yell betrayal if there's no bloody sheets and demand an annulment the next day??? No offense, but I have a mother with mental depression. I lived with her until my parents split up 7 years ago. I have not visited her once since my parents split up. I put up with mental illness long enough in my life. I have no intention of voluntarily dealing with it even more. When it comes to mental illness in a girl, my attitude is to run as if a diseased dog with rabies is chasing you. Here it is, folks. This is the reason why he has issues with women. God help your wife (in general, BUT...) if she suffers from PPD. Edited July 23, 2013 by HisChildForever Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ice_nine Posted July 23, 2013 Share Posted July 23, 2013 (edited) there is no way he's not a troll. I refuse to believe he'd sincere. But if he is I'm glad he crossed the mentally ill off of his list because you'd have to be seriously masochistic to put up with this bullish Edited July 23, 2013 by Ice_nine Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
polskieserce Posted July 23, 2013 Author Share Posted July 23, 2013 Are you insinuating that non-white women are jungle people or some such nonsense?? This attitude is truly disgusting. You won't actually know if she has a hymen until your wedding night. So do you plan on having your bride spread her legs so you can inspect her??? Or yell betrayal if there's no bloody sheets and demand an annulment the next day??? Here it is, folks. This is the reason why he has issues with women. God help your wife (in general, BUT...) if she suffers from PPD. Jungle fever is just a slang term for the state of mind white people are in when they fall for a black person. I'm not marrying her if I don't know if she is a virgin or not. It wouldn't even get to the point of marriage if I didn't have a direct, clear-cut answer. My mother is to thank for me being suspicious of marriage. My parents are the reason I was born and raised catholic. I am a hard bargainer by choice. I don't see the need to put up with more than is necessary. The mentally ill people who I encountered in life brought out the very worst in me, not the best. I want to avoid having such a rough time in life, which is why I'm steering clear of people with those types of illnesses. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HisChildForever Posted July 23, 2013 Share Posted July 23, 2013 Jungle fever is just a slang term for the state of mind white people are in when they fall for a black person. Sounds racist. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amppax Posted July 23, 2013 Share Posted July 23, 2013 (edited) Jungle fever is just a slang term for the state of mind white people are in when they fall for a black person. No it's not, it has clear racist connotations. Edited July 23, 2013 by Amppax Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arfink Posted July 23, 2013 Share Posted July 23, 2013 Polk, from what I have read, you should be avoiding marriage at all costs. You say you don't want to put up with any more than is necessary, so please for the love of God and yourself, stay single. Love does not work if you treat it as a give and take, because when someone makes a mistake or messes up, it all falls to pieces. Going into a marriage will not make your life easier. It will demand a self sacrifice from you that, frankly, I do not think you or anyone who isn't married can quite understand. And this is coming from another single guy! If you want to be married, you'd best be prepared to deal with a LOT more crap than just not having a virgin on your wedding night. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amppax Posted July 23, 2013 Share Posted July 23, 2013 Sounds racist. It is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hoosieranna Posted July 23, 2013 Share Posted July 23, 2013 Jungle fever is just a slang term for the state of mind white people are in when they fall for a black person. I'm not marrying her if I don't know if she is a virgin or not. It wouldn't even get to the point of marriage if I didn't have a direct, clear-cut answer. My mother is to thank for me being suspicious of marriage. My parents are the reason I was born and raised catholic. I am a hard bargainer by choice. I don't see the need to put up with more than is necessary. The mentally ill people who I encountered in life brought out the very worst in me, not the best. I want to avoid having such a rough time in life, which is why I'm steering clear of people with those types of illnesses. No, actually "jungle fever" is an offensive term that should be left to the 1960s. You think "jungle bunny" is acceptable? Or several others I'm not going to use here? When a white person falls for a black person it's called falling for someone. That's it. If you're trolling you're dedicated, I'll give you that. You also seem to be racist and misogynistic. I'm a bit of a misanthrope and you're not helping that attitude change any time soon. How long before you've got your maiden barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HisChildForever Posted July 23, 2013 Share Posted July 23, 2013 (edited) My mother is to thank for me being suspicious of marriage. I get that. I really, really do. That ex I mentioned? That horrible experience had me thinking all sorts of crazy things about marriage. It took me a couple years to get over it, then a year to contemplate dating, and now my boyfriend who's (unintentionally) changed my mind on marriage. I've really done a 360. And that time when I was so averse to marriage? Only now am I able to realize how wrong I was. I hope you too will find a path that'll bring you somewhere you never expected to go. But in the meantime, I highly suggest you NOT date. Edited July 23, 2013 by HisChildForever Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ice_nine Posted July 23, 2013 Share Posted July 23, 2013 coke on her black skin made a stripe like a zebra I call that jungle fever Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HisChildForever Posted July 23, 2013 Share Posted July 23, 2013 No, actually "jungle fever" is an offensive term that should be left to the 1960s. You think "jungle bunny" is acceptable? Or several others I'm not going to use here? When a white person falls for a black person it's called falling for someone. That's it. If you're trolling you're dedicated, I'll give you that. You also seem to be racist and misogynistic. I'm a bit of a misanthrope and you're not helping that attitude change any time soon. How long before you've got your maiden barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen? Okay, this makes me doubt that PoPo is actually in his early 20s...I mean, I'm 25 and I've never in my life heard this expression. And I'd like to believe I don't live under a rock. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
truthfinder Posted July 23, 2013 Share Posted July 23, 2013 Your bad experiences regarding mother's mental illness, apart from your desire/demand to marry a virgin, is reason enough to seek therapy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CatholicsAreKewl Posted July 23, 2013 Share Posted July 23, 2013 lol at this thread turning into a polskie bashathon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil Red Posted July 23, 2013 Share Posted July 23, 2013 Okay, this makes me doubt that PoPo is actually in his early 20s...I mean, I'm 25 and I've never in my life heard this expression. And I'd like to believe I don't live under a rock. Only reason I know it is because of the movie by Spike Lee. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
polskieserce Posted July 23, 2013 Author Share Posted July 23, 2013 Polk, from what I have read, you should be avoiding marriage at all costs. You say you don't want to put up with any more than is necessary, so please for the love of God and yourself, stay single. Love does not work if you treat it as a give and take, because when someone makes a mistake or messes up, it all falls to pieces. Going into a marriage will not make your life easier. It will demand a self sacrifice from you that, frankly, I do not think you or anyone who isn't married can quite understand. And this is coming from another single guy! If you want to be married, you'd best be prepared to deal with a LOT more croutons than just not having a virgin on your wedding night. When I said I don't want to put up with more than is necessary, I meant a mental illness. If you have a mentally ill spouse, you have all of the everyday problems associated with marriage, along with all of the problems associated with mental illness. I have dealt with mentally ill people long enough and I want to keep them a rifle's range away from me. No, actually "jungle fever" is an offensive term that should be left to the 1960s. You think "jungle bunny" is acceptable? Or several others I'm not going to use here? When a white person falls for a black person it's called falling for someone. That's it. If you're trolling you're dedicated, I'll give you that. You also seem to be racist and misogynistic. I'm a bit of a misanthrope and you're not helping that attitude change any time soon. How long before you've got your maiden barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen? Well if you ever somehow meet me in person and get to know me, you will see that I was not trolling on here. Jungle fever is just used as a casual joke these days, which is the context I used it in. But the ideas put I put forth (regarding race, virginity, mental illness, redemption, etc) are how I genuinely feel. I get that. I really, really do. That ex I mentioned? That horrible experience had me thinking all sorts of crazy things about marriage. It took me a couple years to get over it, then a year to contemplate dating, and now my boyfriend who's (unintentionally) changed my mind on marriage. I've really done a 360. And that time when I was so averse to marriage? Only now am I able to realize how wrong I was. I hope you too will find a path that'll bring you somewhere you never expected to go. But in the meantime, I highly suggest you NOT date. Well that's not going to happen. I made up my mind and that's final. I don't see how my past experience made me think in a crazy way. It did the exact opposite. It made me stand up for my self interests Okay, this makes me doubt that PoPo is actually in his early 20s...I mean, I'm 25 and I've never in my life heard this expression. And I'd like to believe I don't live under a rock. Lol, you need to read some more urban dictionary in that case: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=jungle+fever Lol, If you really think I'm some bitter 50 year old man, then I'll go on skype video chat and prove I am indeed in the age braquet I say I am. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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