Tufsoles Posted April 6, 2013 Share Posted April 6, 2013 Sorry about the thread the other day. That was not me. It was my Bio Mom. Yes, I'm adopted( I don't always reveal that because I consider my adoptive parents my fam.) and it was an open adoption but as of late she has been unfortunately vindictive and she is trying to "help me." She apparently knew my password for this site. I made the account as you all may know along time ago and gave the account an easy password that I should changed along time ago. She and I have not had the best relationship because of my dad's military service and her personal issues. I have tried honestly to make things work but obviously I can't make things work as of right now. I should of not told her of the situation I was in but I can't do anything about it now. Yes, There is a person that has leadership power in the diocese I live in currently that I have problems with but it is no one's bussiness. She is doing this because she does not want to see me happy or try to help people do better that have offended or hurt me in anyway. I am in the process of changing my passwords on alot of things(hence why you all haven't seen me post a whole bunch recently.) with alot of things and I had to go get a different internet provider that is a little more secure(and a little bit more expensive.) but I know what I am doing to protect myself against someone who is not has my best interest in mind. Once again I am sorry about the inconvenience and I just want to really put it behind me like now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnneLine Posted April 6, 2013 Share Posted April 6, 2013 that explaines a lot, Tufsoles, because it really didn't sound like you. Will pray for you & your mom.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zabbazooey Posted April 6, 2013 Share Posted April 6, 2013 Why would your mom take the time to come onto an Internet forum to ruffle the feathers of Internet strangers? That doesn't make sense to me. Hmm... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beatitude Posted April 6, 2013 Share Posted April 6, 2013 Tufsoles, I do find this a bit difficult to believe, as those posts were all in your writing style, even down to your grammar mistakes. For example, in your opening post in the other thread you wrote: I don't think I could of done that before. I would either blown up at them once they got outside or not talk to them ever again. And here you write: I made the account as you all may know along time ago and gave the account an easy password that I should changed along time ago..I should of not told her of the situation I was in but I can't do anything about it now. Sentence structure is also identical, as is general style and tone. It's OK to make mistakes and regret things you posted. It's simpler just to say 'I didn't think that out very well' rather than concocting an elaborate story. If you're telling the truth, I apologise, but you must understand that it's a little difficult to believe - it's hard to understand why anyone would be motivated to do this, as Zabbazooey says. And if your mum wrote that thread, then are we to assume that she is the one who has been dispensing advice in the Raising Small Humans forum too? It would make no sense for you to log in independently and post yourself whilst seeing that your mum had made a thread in your name and do nothing to stop it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tufsoles Posted April 6, 2013 Author Share Posted April 6, 2013 She hates the fact that my adoptive parents raised me catholic and she wished that I was raised agnositc But like good catholic parents, they knew better..She knew from the time I was adopted that I would be raised catholic but she wished that I would end up agnositc or my "parents" would respect her request. I know my parents have my best intrest in me.Like those commericals You don't have to be perfect to be a perfect parent so adopt. I try to see it her side with her relgious beleifs. I don't regret becoming and living catholic. She knows what my typicals haunts on the internet are. At one time in my life we were getting along to a point and I shared a few things that were going on with my life and I think I overshared. She is sadly unhappy with her life because it didn't turn out. I know some of you do not believe me. She is highly intellegent and tends to be able to copy cat me with things like this. I changed my password for her not to log in(the pasword was similar to another old account I had) and also I am writing this for you all to be informed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissyP89 Posted April 6, 2013 Share Posted April 6, 2013 Tufsoles, I do find this a bit difficult to believe, as those posts were all in your writing style, even down to your grammar mistakes. For example, in your opening post in the other thread you wrote: :hijack: I mean this very seriously: whatever you do for a living, quit your job and become an investigative journalist. You'd make a good one. ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beatitude Posted April 7, 2013 Share Posted April 7, 2013 (edited) Thanks. I have a photographic memory for text. People suggested investigative journalism when I was an undergrad, and intelligence work, but I don't think either would really be my thing. ;) I just want to sit in this library and read books and be happily undisturbed. Edited April 7, 2013 by beatitude Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nihil Obstat Posted April 7, 2013 Share Posted April 7, 2013 :idontknow: There is a way to see if the IP addresses match each other, or not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HisChildForever Posted April 7, 2013 Share Posted April 7, 2013 And if your mum wrote that thread, then are we to assume that she is the one who has been dispensing advice in the Raising Small Humans forum too? It would make no sense for you to log in independently and post yourself whilst seeing that your mum had made a thread in your name and do nothing to stop it. This. I get that your mother could go on Open Mic and make a thread about a real life situation to stir up trouble or be "vindictive" to use your word. But why would she bother with the RSM forum, let alone dole out advice to the same people she is trying to irritate in another forum. And now I see that you have recent posts (like, today) in that forum. You seem to be posting in the same threads as your mother and you have the exact same line of thinking. Not to mention, you didn't go into those threads and correct your previous posts as your mother's. lolwut. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Norseman82 Posted April 7, 2013 Share Posted April 7, 2013 :popcorn: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhuturePriest Posted April 7, 2013 Share Posted April 7, 2013 I believe this is a case for Encyclopedia Brown. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OnlySunshine Posted April 7, 2013 Share Posted April 7, 2013 I agree that it just doesn't add up. :twitch: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
homeschoolmom Posted April 7, 2013 Share Posted April 7, 2013 I believe this is a case for Encyclopedia Brown. Believe it or not, I thought the exact same thing earlier in this thread. :like2: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Norseman82 Posted April 7, 2013 Share Posted April 7, 2013 :idontknow: There is a way to see if the IP addresses match each other, or not. Yes, that should do the trick, unless tufsoles and her biological mother both have the same IP address (either live or work together). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
homeschoolmom Posted April 7, 2013 Share Posted April 7, 2013 Unfortunately, Encyclopedia Brown is off on another case, and since I don't see this going anywhere useful, I'm closing it. (And the other thread.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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