Apotheoun Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 I agree with Fr. Z. The Roman Church needs to get its liturgical house in order. Priests should follow the rubrics provided in the missal and pray as the Church commands, and when the lay faithful (for good are ill) are allowed to act as extraordinary ministers of holy communion great care should be taken to ensure that they know what they are doing, and that they should dress and act in an appropriate manner. The experience I recounted in another thread concerning my mother's final reception of holy communion is a case in point. On the day my mother - a recent convert to Byzantine Catholicism - died, she asked for me to arrange her final reception of holy communion, and sadly I could not get the Byzantine Catholic priest to come and give her communion because his parish is more than 3 hours away from the hospital, and so I had to ask that the Roman Catholic hospital ministry to have someone bring her holy communion. The woman who arrived to give my mother her viaticum put my mother and my family through a horrendous experience. I will begin by saying that the woman arrived inappropriately dressed for someone charged with carrying the sacred body of Jesus Christ, and by this I mean she was basically wearing a see through shirt (thankfully she was also wearing a black lace bra). After coming into the room, she proceeded to spout anti-patriarchal comments about how evil the Church is for not ordaining women, and how the Church's hierarchy oppresses women and has brought about the deaths of uncounted women through its ban on abortion. It got to wear my mother, who - because she had advanced emphysema - had difficulty speaking, went out of her way to begin asking me in a low breathy voice to tell the woman to "just leave!" I refused to do that, because I knew this would be my mother's last chance to receive holy communion prior to her death, and so I finally interrupted the woman in order to remind her that she had been asked to come into the room in order to distribute holy communion. She was visibly upset by the fact that I interrupted her diatribe against the pope and the hierarchy in general, but then proceeded to ask who wanted communion (n.b., only my mother and I received that morning), she then proceeded to give communion without a word of prayer or any sign that what we were doing was a sacred act. Moreover, even after I told her that my mother could not consume an entire host, she still tried - no doubt because she did not listen to a word I was saying, that is, unless I raised my voice in an aggressive manner - to give my mother a complete host, but I was able to prevent her from doing so and in the end had to take communion twice. She - at my instruction - gave my mother a small piece (about a quarter of the host) and I had to consumed the rest. Now as I already indicated, the woman did all this without a word of prayer or any indication that what we were doing was a pious act of love and devotion to Christ. Worst of all, once she had given us holy communion she resumed her attack on the Church, at which point I again interrupted her, and told her "THANK YOU . . . I am so grateful that you brought the precious body of our Lord and Savior to my mother in her last hours." At that point the woman asked, "Do you want me to leave?" And I said, "Yes, thank you so much for your help." Now taking into account what happened to my mother on that morning, you would think that the parish would be interested to know about my family's experience, but when I contacted them and told them what occurred, I was made to feel as if I had somehow done something wrong. My mother's finally reception of holy communion was made into something that was visibly uncomfortable for her, and no one can change that or give my mother another chance to receive the Lord's body in a more devout manner. She is dead, and that final sacred moment was turned into something it should not have been, and I will have to live with that fact for the rest of my life. I suppose it would have been better for me to simply ignore the scandal that this woman caused to my family, but in good conscience I could not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OnlySunshine Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 I agree with Fr. Z. The Roman Church needs to get its liturgical house in order. Priests should follow the rubrics provided in the missal and pray as the Church commands, and when the lay faithful (for good are ill) are allowed to act as extraordinary ministers of holy communion great care should be taken to ensure that they know what they are doing, and that they should dress and act in an appropriate manner. The experience I recounted in another thread concerning my mother's final reception of holy communion is a case in point. I'm sorry you had to endure that experience. Obviously, the parish where that woman was stationed does not screen potential EMHCs like my pastor does. He makes quite sure that we only allow people who are willing to follow the rules and show up when they are supposed to. If you don't follow the rules, you are given a warning and if it persists, he asks you to step down. He's done it with 2 people that I know of. One was not in a position to serve because her family situation was dire and required her full attention. However, she didn't leave until Father asked her to. We also have one EMHC that wore sleeveless dresses with her cleavage showing and bright nail polish. It took about 3 or 4 times to keep reminding her that the dress code did not permit such attire and she finally understood. She takes great care now to make sure what she is wearing is presentable and in accordance with the dress code expected of EMHCs. I'm sure, had Father come across an EMHC as you described, she would be dismissed from the ministry until she returned to Full Communion with the Church. ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nihil Obstat Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 What a fun thread... Anyhow, Nihil, that depends on what your definition of private Mass means canonically. Do you mean the canon definition of celebrating it alone by oneself, or the definition of celebrating it with a select congregation (such as the priest's family members)? Either way, wouldn't broadcasting it on the internet for anyone to view, invalidate the nature of it being "private", because the priest is no longer alone, nor is his select congregation the only ones "present"? Or would that mean that the internet population watching is that select congregation? Frankly I am not qualified to comment on the precise definition between public and private canonically speaking, but I do know that the same goes for everyone on this thread. I do not think a broadcast of a Mass instantly qualifies it as public. After all, one does not attend Mass who watches even a life stream of one. Those watching are not present in a canonical sense. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Apotheoun Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 I'm sorry you had to endure that experience. Obviously, the parish where that woman was stationed does not screen potential EMHCs like my pastor does. He makes quite sure that we only allow people who are willing to follow the rules and show up when they are supposed to. If you don't follow the rules, you are given a warning and if it persists, he asks you to step down. He's done it with 2 people that I know of. One was not in a position to serve because her family situation was dire and required her full attention. However, she didn't leave until Father asked her to. We also have one EMHC that wore sleeveless dresses with her cleavage showing and bright nail polish. It took about 3 or 4 times to keep reminding her that the dress code did not permit such attire and she finally understood. She takes great care now to make sure what she is wearing is presentable and in accordance with the dress code expected of EMHCs. I'm sure, had Father come across an EMHC as you described, she would be dismissed from the ministry until she returned to Full Communion with the Church. ;) I wish the priest at the parish I dealt with had acted as your pastor does. Instead, I was made to feel as if I was the problem. It was a very hard time for me, and I will have to live forever seeing in my mind the expression of confusion and anger on my mother's face at what transpired. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MIKolbe Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 Priests should follow the rubrics provided in the missal and pray as the Church commands, and when the lay faithful (for good are ill) are allowed to act as extraordinary ministers of holy communion great care should be taken to ensure that they know what they are doing, and that they should dress and act in an appropriate manner. I can agree with this. As I think about it, I hate to be one of those jerks who wears shirts like, "say the black, do the red"; but in a non-jerk way I see an analogy between the Priest in persona Christi and Christ's willingness in, "not my will, but thine be done". If the Priest truly is in persona Christi, should he not manifest this in the Mass, as it refers to his submission to the will of the Church, and conform himself to the Church, if nothing else, as an example of how we should conform ourselves to Christ? As for EMHC, I think a tempering of involvement with awe and respect can certainly be in order in many situations. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OnlySunshine Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 I wish the priest at the parish I dealt with had acted as your pastor does. Instead, I was made to feel as if I was the problem. It was a very hard time for me, and I will have to live forever seeing in my mind the expression of confusion and anger on my mother's face at what transpired. It's too bad that a priest wasn't available to administer viaticum and Last Rites. At the very least, your mother was able to receive her Lord even if it wasn't an ideal situation, of course. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4588686 Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 http://wdtprs.com/blog/2013/02/why-dont-priests-follow-rubrics-fr-z-cheerfully-rants/ "[font='lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif]The rubrics of the older Mass are a powerful leash indeed. When a priest obeys the rubrics of the older form of Mass, he is kept under tight control. He cannot impose too much of himself on the Mass and on the congregation.[/font][font='lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif]On top of that, the mania of turning altars around – in no way asked for or required by the Council – poured gasoline on already fired up priestly pride."[/font] I want to know your thoughts. +JMJ he strikes me as a man in desperate need of a hobby. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Apotheoun Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 He strikes me as a man who is concerned that some people are treating sacred realities with a cavalier attitude. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nihil Obstat Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 If the Priest truly is in persona Christi, should he not manifest this in the Mass, as it refers to his submission to the will of the Church, and conform himself to the Church, if nothing else, as an example of how we should conform ourselves to Christ? With both FSSP priests I have had the pleasure of meeting, both do a thing I really appreciate during Mass. At the moments where they are instructed to turn around, to say "Dominus vobiscum" or "Orare fratres", they never look at the congregation. They keep their heads bowed and eyes cast downwards. The more I notice it, the more I appreciate what they are trying to do. They are trying as little as possible to insert themselves in the Mass. They do not want that temptation to try to 'interact' with the congregation. And at the same time it lets us as a congregation remember that the priest there on the altar is not there as himself, but as Christ. That his personality while he is up there means nothing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Groo the Wanderer Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 this and this and this the Holy Mass is not about us or the priest. Some tend to forget this (us and priests). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slappo Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 Just a couple quick thoughts: 1. People tuning into a live feed of mass online aren't actually attending mass. The mass is not publicly celebrated as it is not celebrated in a public place where any lay faithful can walk in and participate... that is unless Fr. Z extended an invitation for everyone to come to his house? 2. If this was "years ago" that he was doing it (I follow him off and on the past couple years and haven't seen it), was it when he was in touch with the local ordinary and the local ordinary may have approved it? 3. I definitely understand the skepticism. I greatly appreciate that he cites sources and bows down when he gets pwnt by those with authority on the interpretation of something (see canon law, Card. Burke, and whether or not attending saturday vigil mass fulfills a saturday holy day of obligation and sunday obligation at the same time). 4. If you're worried about Fr. Z taking a cruise retreat, mayhaps you should jump on the back of Franciscan University as well which is hosting an Alaskan retreat/cruise this summer for it's alumni. And Franciscan's have a vow of poverty (yes at least one of the TOR's will be on it). The idea of Fr. Z running a retreat on a cruise ship is not nearly as ludicrous to me as the $200+ you had to pay to get Fr. Corapi's catechism series. It looks like the cruise has relatively low cost options ($1,100). Michael Voris will be with him, so who knows maybe his company even paid to sponsor Fr. Z going as they needed a priest for the sacraments and spiritual direction. At least those readers that donate can see what he is doing and that he spent the money to go on a retreat. Maybe a particularly wealthy reader said "here's $1k go on vacation". How many times have we invited our parish priests over for a nice dinner and bottle of wine, or taken them out for lunch, or got them something they may have particularly liked? I really do understand the skepticism, and I will probably never do more than use his amazon.com link or buy mystic monk coffee through his webpage to support him monetarily. But let's not jump on him for some crazy rash spending... Do you think the average parish priest never takes a vacation or does nice things? he is working entirely off of your donations too, although it's filtered through the diocese or parish before it hits his personal checkings account... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Evangetholic Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 (edited) 1 Timothy 5:17-18Elders who do their work well should be respected and paid well, especially those who work hard at both preaching and teaching. For the Scripture says, “You must not muzzle an ox to keep it from eating as it treads out the grain.†And in another place, “Those who work deserve their pay!†1 Corinthians 9:14 In the same way, the Lord ordered that those who preach the Good News should be supported by those who benefit from it. The word here rendered "elder" by the NLT is normally "presbyter" in modern Catholic Translations, I would guess the Douay says "priest" but am not sure. Edited February 11, 2013 by Evangetholic Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nihil Obstat Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 1 Timothy 5:17-18Elders who do their work well should be respected and paid well, especially those who work hard at both preaching and teaching. For the Scripture says, “You must not muzzle an ox to keep it from eating as it treads out the grain.†And in another place, “Those who work deserve their pay!†1 Corinthians 9:14 In the same way, the Lord ordered that those who preach the Good News should be supported by those who benefit from it. The word here rendered "elder" by the NLT is normally "presbyter" in modern Catholic Translations, I would guess the Douay says "priest" but am not sure. Yes, the Douay Rheims translates it as priest. Knox has it as presbyter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Evangetholic Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 Yes, the Douay Rheims translates it as priest. Knox has it as presbyter. Fr. Knox. Reading about Father Knox and how mightily he struggled to translate the Bible took the very first brick out of my anti-Catholic Wall. He also refused conditional baptism when he converted to Catholicism--it was almost always done automatically then, but he'd been baptized by his father who was Anglican Bishop of Manchester, in the days when Anglicans were still trying to change the world, not be conformed to its wickedness. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nihil Obstat Posted February 11, 2013 Share Posted February 11, 2013 Fr. Knox. Reading about Father Knox and how mightily he struggled to translate the Bible took the very first brick out of my anti-Catholic Wall. He also refused conditional baptism when he converted to Catholicism--it was almost always done automatically then, but he'd been baptized by his father who was Anglican Bishop of Manchester, in the days when Anglicans were still trying to change the world, not be conformed to its wickedness. It sounds like he was a truly excellent and fascinating man. As were many of his contemporaries, come to think of it. So many personalities in those years, in and around England. I very much enjoy reading the Knox Bible in parallel with the Douay Rheims. I love and respect the very strict precision of the Douay Rheims, and with the freer, more poetic Knox beside it I feel like I am covering all my bases as far as the Vulgate is concerned. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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