4588686 Posted December 27, 2012 Share Posted December 27, 2012 I was attempting to express that I don't think every woman finds Brad Pitt more attractive than most other men. How does that even remotely seem like I could have been asking Hasan out? For the record, though, since no one will let this rest otherwise: no I was not asking Hasan out. So you're dropping hints? Trying to get me to ask you out? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xTrishaxLynnx Posted December 27, 2012 Share Posted December 27, 2012 I think at least part of self loathing of appearance for girls (and guys although they don't express it) comes from a lack of affirmation growing up. I'm sure a lot of it also stems from society, magazine covers, models, etc. My parents hardly ever called me dashing, handsome or dapper, and as a teenager I was zit boy and hated how I looked. I wonder if I would have hated my appearance so much if I was regularly affirmed by those closest to me beginning from a young age. I'm sure this is a big part of it for a lot of people, because I myself still have issues and a lot of it stems from my family not only not being affirming, but actually putting me down about how I looked on a regular basis. Most people I knew outside of my family never said anything, but I assumed they thought the same things my family had voiced. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xTrishaxLynnx Posted December 28, 2012 Share Posted December 28, 2012 So you're dropping hints? Trying to get me to ask you out? Sigh... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4588686 Posted December 28, 2012 Share Posted December 28, 2012 Sigh... Yeah. I guess we could watch The Lion King. That's a great movie! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xTrishaxLynnx Posted December 28, 2012 Share Posted December 28, 2012 :doh: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4588686 Posted December 28, 2012 Share Posted December 28, 2012 :doh: And so the dance of seduction continues. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ash Wednesday Posted December 29, 2012 Share Posted December 29, 2012 (edited) I'm not as attractive as Brad Pitt. Most men aren't. Most women are't as attractive as Selma Heyek. So it goes. For what it's worth, I really kind of don't see why so many people find Brad Pitt so attractive. He's frat boy cute, I guess, but it's not like he's wa wa wee wow. Beauty, eye, beholder, etc. I guess. Stuff. Lutefisk. More stuff. Edited December 29, 2012 by Ash Wednesday Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freedom Posted December 29, 2012 Share Posted December 29, 2012 that is why I stopped contradicting my friends when they called themselves fat/ugly. instead I told them "How sad that you feel that way." cold, yes. But necessary. Of course I explained beforehand why I did not want to participate in the "i'm fat/ugly" ritual, so they understood what I was doing. I think we need to stop giving attention to girls who act this way and stigmatize the behavior instead. It's considered socially unacceptable and unattractive for a man to talk himself down in public ... why can't it be that way for women too. That was not cold, that was nice of you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freedom Posted December 29, 2012 Share Posted December 29, 2012 The beauty of any woman is found within her eyes, because they are the gateway to her soul where her true beauty lies. All other beauty will fade with time but her soul by the grace of God will be forever. That is one butch woman! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4588686 Posted January 1, 2013 Share Posted January 1, 2013 Sigh... So I know I made that thread about that girl hitting on me. I hope this won't disrupt our relationship too much though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
God the Father Posted January 1, 2013 Share Posted January 1, 2013 They're not depressed, they do it for attention. Don't get so wound up about it goofball Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FutureCarmeliteClaire Posted January 1, 2013 Author Share Posted January 1, 2013 They're not depressed, they do it for attention. Don't get so wound up about it goofball Well, thank you for your wisdom. :| I'm sure that there has never ever been a girl who felt badly about herself who wasn't attention seeking. :| Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FutureCarmeliteClaire Posted January 1, 2013 Author Share Posted January 1, 2013 I apologize for the last post. I was in a terrible mood, and just shouldn't have said anything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil Red Posted January 1, 2013 Share Posted January 1, 2013 I apologize for the last post. I was in a terrible mood, and just shouldn't have said anything. I think GtF is a big boy and can handle it. ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FutureCarmeliteClaire Posted January 1, 2013 Author Share Posted January 1, 2013 Didn't make it nice, but yeah. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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