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[quote name='Nihil Obstat' timestamp='1352922807' post='2509955']
I hope you make frequent use of the Art of Manliness! :)

[url="http://artofmanliness.com/2012/10/31/sharp-casual-young-man-guide/"]Guide to Dressing Sharp and Casual[/url]

[url="http://artofmanliness.com/2012/05/16/what-to-wear-on-first-date/"]What to Wear on a First Date[/url]


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I really like that sport coat...

However, I don't think you are quite grasping the idea of having no money.

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[quote name='Marie-Therese' timestamp='1352922919' post='2509958']
Wear this. Acquire dates.





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The jeans could benefit from a different cut. :|

[quote name='FuturePriest387' timestamp='1352922989' post='2509960']

I really like that sport coat...

However, I don't think you are quite grasping the idea of having no money.
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It does take some time, on a budget. I'm in the same position. :P

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[quote name='Nihil Obstat' timestamp='1352922885' post='2509957']
It may be that you have to look around a bit to find a fit that works for you. Plus if you have a few inches left to grow that does change things as well.
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Getting clothes that I will have a few inches to grow in is why I have 99% of shirts that do not fit me at all.

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[quote name='FuturePriest387' timestamp='1352923137' post='2509962']

Getting clothes that I will have a few inches to grow in is why I have 99% of shirts that do not fit me at all.
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:hehe: Yep, I remember those times.
It was a mind blowing revelation when I realized I could buy a pair of shoes that actually fit me, rather than ones that hopefully would still fit in six months.

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[quote name='Nihil Obstat' timestamp='1352923063' post='2509961']
The jeans could benefit from a different cut. :|


It does take some time, on a budget. I'm in the same position. :P
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Does a leather jacket work in place of a sport coat?

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Marie-Therese

[quote name='Nihil Obstat' timestamp='1352923063' post='2509961']
The jeans could benefit from a different cut. :|

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Well, I don't mind jeans that have a slimmer cut as long as they aren't tight. No emo boys wearing stuff they pilfered from the girls junior department. A taller guy can sometimes carry off the slimmer cut. Just depends on body type. The overall composition of the outfit, however, is solid. Nice button down, appropriate sweater, clean cut jeans, excellent shoes, and good accessories. This will catch a girl's eye. It would tell me that a guy had put some general thought into his appearance.

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[quote name='Nihil Obstat' timestamp='1352923224' post='2509964']
:hehe: Yep, I remember those times.
It was a mind blowing revelation when I realized I could buy a pair of shoes that actually fit me, rather than ones that hopefully would still fit in six months.
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I'm going to invest in shirts that are not medium but small sized so I will have some shirts that fit me now. However, my parents are bent on getting me stuff that will last for two years. They haven't caught on that I have never had a growth spurt and I grow gradually, not a lot in a short time.

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[quote name='FuturePriest387' timestamp='1352923258' post='2509966']

Does a leather jacket work in place of a sport coat?
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Depends on the formality level you're shooting for. If you're aiming for casual, it's great. If you're going to a nicer restaurant, perhaps not.

[quote name='FuturePriest387' timestamp='1352923400' post='2509969']

I'm going to invest in shirts that are not medium but small sized so I will have some shirts that fit me now. However, my parents are bent on getting me stuff that will last for two years. They haven't caught on that I have never had a growth spurt and I grow gradually, not a lot in a short time.
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Look into things that are labelled "fitted" or "semi-fitted". They'll have a slimmer cut, which you might appreciate.

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[quote name='Marie-Therese' timestamp='1352923329' post='2509967']

Well, I don't mind jeans that have a slimmer cut as long as they aren't tight. No emo boys wearing stuff they pilfered from the girls junior department. A taller guy can sometimes carry off the slimmer cut. Just depends on body type. The overall composition of the outfit, however, is solid. Nice button down, appropriate sweater, clean cut jeans, excellent shoes, and good accessories. This will catch a girl's eye. It would tell me that a guy had put some general thought into his appearance.
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All it looks like to me is a guy that put on regular jeans and a button-down shirt and decided it was cold so he put on a sweater over that. Plus, I only have one pair of shoes. They are black and don't have strings on them. They are specially made restaurant shoes because I work.

These are not them, but they are very similar:

[img]https://www.shoesforcrews.com/sfc3/images/products/US_en/8032/zoom_threequarter.jpg[/img]

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[quote name='Marie-Therese' timestamp='1352923329' post='2509967']
Well, I don't mind jeans that have a slimmer cut as long as they aren't tight. No emo boys wearing stuff they pilfered from the girls junior department. A taller guy can sometimes carry off the slimmer cut. Just depends on body type. The overall composition of the outfit, however, is solid. Nice button down, appropriate sweater, clean cut jeans, excellent shoes, and good accessories. This will catch a girl's eye. It would tell me that a guy had put some general thought into his appearance.
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My brother wears skinny jeans that show a lot of his underwear. And then v-neck t-shirts. <_< Makes me want to give him a huge wedgie.

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[quote name='Nihil Obstat' timestamp='1352923679' post='2509971']
Depends on the formality level you're shooting for. If you're aiming for casual, it's great. If you're going to a nicer restaurant, perhaps not.



Look into things that are labelled "fitted" or "semi-fitted". They'll have a slimmer cut, which you might appreciate.
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Okay. But it does catch eyes. It's a James Dean company leather jacket. :hehe:

A[i]w[/i]esome, thanks. I really want slimmer shirts. Now that I know what they are technically called that will really help. Can I buy a lot with seventy dollars?

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[quote name='FuturePriest387' timestamp='1352923692' post='2509972']
All it looks like to me is a guy that put on regular jeans and a button-down shirt and decided it was cold so he put on a sweater over that. Plus, I only have one pair of shoes. They are black and don't have strings on them. They are specially made restaurant shoes because I work.
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That's sort of the point. It's not overdone, it's simple clothing that looks well put together. And, when you get the chance, buy a good pair of leather shoes, not work shoes. Save up for them. A good pair of shoes will go with any outfit.


[quote name='Nihil Obstat' timestamp='1352923739' post='2509974']
My brother wears skinny jeans that show a lot of his underwear. And then v-neck t-shirts. <_< Makes me want to give him a huge wedgie.
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Please tell me he doesn't wear scarves with that get up.

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[quote name='FuturePriest387' timestamp='1352923803' post='2509975']

Okay. But it does catch eyes. It's a James Dean company leather jacket. :hehe:

A[i]w[/i]esome, thanks. I really want slimmer shirts. Now that I know what they are technically called that will really help. Can I buy a lot with seventy dollars?
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If you find some on sale you can probably get two for that much. Not on sale, probably just one. At least with the places I'm familiar with. I think the last good shirt I bought was about $55.

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[quote name='Marie-Therese' timestamp='1352923951' post='2509977']



Please tell me he doesn't wear scarves with that get up.
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Thankfully not very often. He prefers big puffy wool sweaters and moccasins. :blink:

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