PhuturePriest Posted October 30, 2012 Author Share Posted October 30, 2012 [quote name='Ed Normile' timestamp='1351628053' post='2500448'] Without having actually read this post I would have to say, "don't do it", unless its something good then I would say, " proceed with caution", seriously though you are too young to make decisions if you rely on strangers online for advice, don't you have parents or any friends ? ed [/quote] I would feel awkward talking to my parents about it and no, I don't really have friends. I do, but I rarely get to see them. It's an effect of having all your friends in college. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i<3franciscans Posted October 30, 2012 Share Posted October 30, 2012 (edited) [quote name='Ed Normile' timestamp='1351628053' post='2500448'] Without having actually read this post I would have to say, "don't do it", unless its something good then I would say, " proceed with caution", seriously though [b]you are too young to make decisions if you rely on strangers online for advice, don't you have parents or any friends ?[/b] ed [/quote] We are a phamily. We should be able to ask each other for advice. Edited October 30, 2012 by i<3franciscans Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ed Normile Posted October 30, 2012 Share Posted October 30, 2012 [quote name='FuturePriest387' timestamp='1351628400' post='2500455'] I would feel awkward talking to my parents about it and no, I don't really have friends. I do, but I rarely get to see them. It's an effect of having all your friends in college. [/quote] Ok, let me tell you that much you will be faced with in life will make you feel awkward, I would say doubly so if you become a priest. If I were you I would set down with my father and talk to him about it, he loves you and has had years of experience with life. If you feel awkward man up, you will undoubtedly open doors with your dad and I am certain he will be thrilled to have the chance to talk to you. Look you seem like a nice young guy, I am a 52 year old man and from your posts I know I would have been attracted to you as a friend and we probably would have got along well. I know many girls are far more forward then when I was your age, I went back after my last post and read this thread and the part that concerns me is where you related the girl said " hit me up sometime " that does seem inappropriate to say in the situation of your both being servers and your discerning a vocation, but I am from a different generation. You seem level headed to me, despite my obvious teasing you at times, what does your heart tell you about this. I am sure you have a feeling about this one way or another, trust your instincts. Again I ask you to talk with your dad, it would benefit the both of you, heck Jesus did it all the time. ed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhuturePriest Posted October 30, 2012 Author Share Posted October 30, 2012 [quote name='i<3franciscans' timestamp='1351628903' post='2500459'] We are a phamily. We should be able to ask each other for advice. [/quote] Oh, cruel fate. I ran out of likes. I shall return later! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhuturePriest Posted October 30, 2012 Author Share Posted October 30, 2012 [quote name='Ed Normile' timestamp='1351629203' post='2500462'] Ok, let me tell you that much you will be faced with in life will make you feel awkward, I would say doubly so if you become a priest. If I were you I would set down with my father and talk to him about it, he loves you and has had years of experience with life. If you feel awkward man up, you will undoubtedly open doors with your dad and I am certain he will be thrilled to have the chance to talk to you. Look you seem like a nice young guy, I am a 52 year old man and from your posts I know I would have been attracted to you as a friend and we probably would have got along well. I know many girls are far more forward then when I was your age, I went back after my last post and read this thread and the part that concerns me is where you related the girl said " hit me up sometime " that does seem inappropriate to say in the situation of your both being servers and your discerning a vocation, but I am from a different generation. You seem level headed to me, despite my obvious teasing you at times, what does your heart tell you about this. I am sure you have a feeling about this one way or another, trust your instincts. Again I ask you to talk with your dad, it would benefit the both of you, heck Jesus did it all the time. ed [/quote] Thank you for the wonderful post and advice. I must admit I was uncertain about talking to my dad about it until you said "man up". Some advice for those in the future, saying that automatically makes me pay attention, as is the nature of man. I don't foresee any problems with this girl at the moment, but if I do I will man up as you say and tell my dad about it, even though the thought itself puts me in a world of crazy weird feeling that I don't believe I have ever experienced in the past. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i<3franciscans Posted October 30, 2012 Share Posted October 30, 2012 [quote name='FuturePriest387' timestamp='1351629221' post='2500463'] Oh, cruel fate. I ran out of likes. I shall return later! [/quote] No worries, the post will be there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slappo Posted October 30, 2012 Share Posted October 30, 2012 [quote name='homeschoolmom' timestamp='1351628260' post='2500452'] I think it was intended more to be a conversational post. I doubt FP is looking for advice from us-- just conversation. [/quote] I thought he was just trying to convince us that someone might possibly find him attractice and flirted with him FP - pics or it didn't happen! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dUSt Posted October 30, 2012 Share Posted October 30, 2012 Slappo, you bring up a great point. This could all be made up. Obama strikes again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhuturePriest Posted October 30, 2012 Author Share Posted October 30, 2012 [quote name='Slappo' timestamp='1351631016' post='2500494'] I thought he was just trying to convince us that someone might possibly find him attractice and flirted with him FP - pics or it didn't happen! [/quote] She has about nine thousand Facebook photos, but I think she may have a problem if I post them here without permission. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anastasia13 Posted October 30, 2012 Share Posted October 30, 2012 [quote name='FuturePriest387' timestamp='1351631468' post='2500507'] She has about nine thousand Facebook photos, but I think she may have a problem if I post them here without permission. [/quote] I generally trust my phamily. We don't elect them. God does. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nihil Obstat Posted October 30, 2012 Share Posted October 30, 2012 [quote name='FuturePriest387' timestamp='1351631468' post='2500507'] She has about nine thousand Facebook photos, but I think she may have a problem if I post them here without permission. [/quote] Yeah, we call that doxxing. Very bad news. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhuturePriest Posted October 30, 2012 Author Share Posted October 30, 2012 [quote name='Light and Truth' timestamp='1351631688' post='2500512'] I generally trust my phamily. We don't elect them. God does. [/quote] I fully trust that any pictures of her on here wouldn't become a problem. But she may not like it. It's out of respect for her, not for an extra caution because I am afraid Kujo may be drunk and say something illegal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anastasia13 Posted October 30, 2012 Share Posted October 30, 2012 (edited) [quote name='FuturePriest387' timestamp='1351631861' post='2500518'] I fully trust that any pictures of her on here wouldn't become a problem. But she may not like it. It's out of respect for her, not for an extra caution because I am afraid Kujo may be drunk and say something illegal. [/quote] Oh, I wasn't implying anything about her or the pics, just that we should trust you. You've taken the time to show your character as a member of the phamily here. It DID happen. The internet told me so! Edited October 30, 2012 by Light and Truth Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PhuturePriest Posted October 30, 2012 Author Share Posted October 30, 2012 [quote name='Light and Truth' timestamp='1351631952' post='2500519'] Oh, I wasn't implying anything about her or the pics, just that we should trust you. You've taken the time to show your character as a member of the phamily here. It DID happen. The internet told me so! [/quote] Thank you for trusting me. Don't worry about Slappo or any of them, I know they believe me. They just like to joke at my expense because teasing me is a Phatmass pastime, one which has its roots going way back a year ago when IcePrincessKRS said she loved teasing me, and I said I loved it when she teased me and to continue to do so. Little did I know I started a sporting event! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anastasia13 Posted October 30, 2012 Share Posted October 30, 2012 (edited) [quote name='FuturePriest387' timestamp='1351632097' post='2500521'] Thank you for trusting me. Don't worry about Slappo or any of them, I know they believe me. They just like to joke at my expense because teasing me is a Phatmass pastime, one which has its roots going way back a year ago when IcePrincessKRS said she loved teasing me, and I said I loved it when she teased me and to continue to do so. Little did I know I started a sporting event! [/quote] No, I think Slappo has some real trust issues here. We should suggest a spychiatrist for Slappo. This does not lead to a healthy social life. Poor Slappo: this would be the loving thing to do, to try to help him... Edited October 30, 2012 by Light and Truth Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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