Annie12 Posted September 28, 2012 Share Posted September 28, 2012 I've been praying and praying and praying and praying and praying and God STILL hasn't sent me my husband yet! I feel like my prayers aren't working! Today at dinner, I was hoping the Guy I like would come and sit at my table. He didn't. I was like, "whatever" but then I was talking to someone then I got a glimpse of this Guy chatting and laughing with his friends and it felt like a knife to the heart and I had to get of and leave the cafeteria because it was too painful to watch. I don't know what to do. I try to go on about my life according to reality and Faith but, no matter how hard I try, I just can't get past this one. I feel like I need to know this Guy better of my life will have an empty whole. I've never had this happen. All I want to do is be realistic but apparently love isn't realistic and that REALLY stinks. Help! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil Red Posted September 28, 2012 Share Posted September 28, 2012 whose timeline do you trust in again? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annie12 Posted September 28, 2012 Author Share Posted September 28, 2012 It's not working.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil Red Posted September 28, 2012 Share Posted September 28, 2012 okay. just give up then. i'm sure you'll be happier. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annie12 Posted September 28, 2012 Author Share Posted September 28, 2012 thanks for the help... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil Red Posted September 28, 2012 Share Posted September 28, 2012 quit focusing on this guy and lack of a relationship and fill your time with things that you enjoy - without regard if a guy enjoys them or not. good men like women who are self-assured, confident, and don't sit around feeling pitying themselves. so go enjoy life - volunteer, read, go watch movies, help others, go to Mass every day, go rock climbing or hiking or rowing, go to football games, join a book club, [b]have fun and become confident in who you are as a woman[/b] - because once you are married and have kids, it's kind of hard to have that time to just enjoy yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Winchester Posted September 28, 2012 Share Posted September 28, 2012 I'm sorry, but the answer might be 'no'. I'm not being mean. Not this time. /wisdom Sounds like the dude is gay and probably impotent. You're dodging a bullet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roamin Catholic Posted September 28, 2012 Share Posted September 28, 2012 [quote name='Annie12' timestamp='1348873910' post='2487746'] It's not working.... [/quote] I agree with red, who is setting the timeline? God isn't just going to throw a husband at you right after you ask. Some people look for years and haven't found one. Give it more than a few weeks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Winchester Posted September 28, 2012 Share Posted September 28, 2012 poo. Let me add to this. It really hasn't been that long. It feels like it, especially if you're all hormoney and whatnot. Nothing will really make it easier. Being weird and needy will work against you. I don't have a solution for that, unless there's a friend you can tell that you're weird and needy and need a little help with that. I was weird and needy. Even after you get married, it's not over. Even if your sex life is totally amesome. Even if your spouse is majorly accomplished in that area, you will sometimes feel weird and needy and alone. The world is flooped up. Genesis: chapter every. See also: Rest of the Bible. It never ends. You get a chemical relief, now and again, but it always comes back. None of this probably helps you, but it makes me look edgy and cool. More later. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil Red Posted September 28, 2012 Share Posted September 28, 2012 [quote name='Winchester' timestamp='1348875476' post='2487764'] poo. Let me add to this. It really hasn't been that long. It feels like it, especially if you're all hormoney and whatnot. Nothing will really make it easier. Being [s]weird and[/s] needy will work against you. I don't have a solution for that, unless there's a friend you can tell that you're weird and needy and need a little help with that. I [s]was[/s] still am weird and needy. [/quote] fixed. guys dig weird chicks. (doesn't work the other way, though) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ACS67 Posted September 28, 2012 Share Posted September 28, 2012 I may just be in a bad mood from either my day or another thread but I'm really getting tired of some of the young people on this forum whining all the time. Good grief! Life is not all about you and your emotions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Winchester Posted September 28, 2012 Share Posted September 28, 2012 [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FV-HPOHu8mY[/media] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Winchester Posted September 28, 2012 Share Posted September 28, 2012 [quote name='Lil Red' timestamp='1348875760' post='2487767'] fixed. guys dig weird chicks. (doesn't work the other way, though) [/quote] Untrue. I hear Walken gets serious play. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Winchester Posted September 28, 2012 Share Posted September 28, 2012 [quote name='ACS67' timestamp='1348875856' post='2487768'] I may just be in a bad mood from either my day or another thread but I'm really getting tired of some of the young people on this forum whining all the time. Good grief! Life is not all about you and your emotions. [/quote] That's right. Life is about me. And my emotions. Which consist of irritation and want. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil Red Posted September 28, 2012 Share Posted September 28, 2012 [quote name='Winchester' timestamp='1348876153' post='2487770'] Untrue. I hear Walken gets serious play. [/quote] he's cool. not weird. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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