Honesty Is The Best Policy.

[cmotherofpirl]

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Honesty is the best policy, but that is not the same as telling everything you know about something. Sometimes the details are not ours to tell, sometimes it is really not the person's business, and many times we are substituting our opinion instead of actual fact.

[Tab'le De'Bah-Rye]

[quote name='Autumn Dusk' timestamp='1335276000' post='2422651']
Tab. Now you're really not making sence.

Calling your life a living hell=having a hard life. Living hell is bad. So while you did not say "my life was hard" when you say it was hell, that's the same thing. I'm sorry you went through it and I'm glad you're going to drop it. 6 years is tough, but it's not the end of the world. When I start feeling sorry for myself I read about the lost Boys of Sudan. No American's suffering holds a candle to what these young men when through.

I don't think either of us are threatened. I'm concerned for you in that I think everyone is going to put you on ignore soon (if they haven't already) Which means you can post all you want, but no one will ever see it or answer. That's not a fate that I wish on any poster...
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I honestly couldn't give two hoots about whom has me on ignore or not,it is ok for people to ignore me if one can not or will not understand me. And even than i don't demand that anyone understands me, my relationship with jesus' is more important to me, in that without he i can't understand the nature of the beast and without that understanding how can i understand my own suffering or the suffering of others,more so of others for me, but possibly both are hand in hand.

[Tab'le De'Bah-Rye]

[quote name='cmotherofpirl' timestamp='1335276408' post='2422658']
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Honesty is the best policy, but that is not the same as telling everything you know about something. Sometimes the details are not ours to tell, sometimes it is really not the person's business, and many times we are substituting our opinion instead of actual fact.
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I agree, especially when talking about others for me. Though i had an experience of predgudice against a.a. when i applied for a voluntary position and divuldged my membership at a.a. , And no i didn't get the position.

[Papist]

[quote name='cmotherofpirl' timestamp='1335276408' post='2422658']
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Honesty is the best policy, but that is not the same as telling everything you know about something. Sometimes the details are not ours to tell, sometimes it is really not the person's business, and many times we are substituting our opinion instead of actual fact.
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Nothing is more true when it comes to in-laws. I suppress much more than I let out when around in-laws.

[Autumn Dusk]

[quote name='Tab'le Du'Bah-Rye' timestamp='1335276648' post='2422661']
I honestly couldn't give two hoots about whom has me on ignore or not,it is ok for people to ignore me if one can not or will not understand me. And even than i don't demand that anyone understands me, my relationship with jesus' is more important to me, in that without he i can't understand the nature of the beast and without that understanding how can i understand my own suffering or the suffering of others,more so of others for me, but possibly both are hand in hand.
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Except you're on this board to communicate with others. You can build your relationship with Jesus through the Church.


[quote name='Papist' timestamp='1335277439' post='2422671']
Nothing is more true when it comes to in-laws. I suppress much more than I let out when around in-laws.
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LOL! Yes. People only have a right to know some things. I'm not going to tell my boss that she's incompetant, even if she is...I won't tell my subordantats either. When she tries to type an email and wonders why it won't send and she's typing it the accounting program, it's frustrating....but I correct her, save what's possible and move on.

[Tab'le De'Bah-Rye]

I know this seems like a personal conversation between me and dusk, but i need to tell anyone else whom checks this thread that i am not here to make friends or enemies,i am here to be honest with myself and to be honest with others, if you don't like that what can i do? In my honesty at times i will be wrong and at times i will be right(and hopefully when ever realising i was wrong to apologise and hopefully learn from my mistake,if i can find the thread lol), i don't live in the illusion that one day i will ever be always right not even in heaven coz God is above the heavens and the earth, jesus' said that the student can only ever hope to be like the teacher. And back to the title of the thread "Honesty iz the best policy."