eagle_eye222001 Posted February 15, 2012 Share Posted February 15, 2012 This is Eagle_eye and I approve Zealous' message. I am not against a modest use of make-up....but when your whole face is a mask.....it makes me think....."I wonder what that girl's face REALLY looks like?" I don't want to fall in love with a mask....... For clothes.....less isn't purely better..........I won't go to war for that. .... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MIKolbe Posted February 15, 2012 Share Posted February 15, 2012 I will be showing this to my daughters when the time comes. Thanks, Z Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissyP89 Posted February 15, 2012 Share Posted February 15, 2012 [quote name='MIkolbe' timestamp='1329335524' post='2387610'] I will be showing this to my daughters when the time comes. Thanks, Z [/quote] I thought they were going to be nuns. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FutureSister2009 Posted February 15, 2012 Share Posted February 15, 2012 Wait a minute, I have three cats. Does that make me undateable? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MIKolbe Posted February 15, 2012 Share Posted February 15, 2012 [quote name='MissyP89' timestamp='1329336116' post='2387616'] I thought they were going to be nuns. [/quote] always be prepared. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paladin D Posted February 15, 2012 Share Posted February 15, 2012 Preach it brother! Haha Yes and for the gals, please give us *clearer* signals, I mean we don't carry around decoder rings! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missionseeker Posted February 16, 2012 Share Posted February 16, 2012 [quote name='Paladin D' timestamp='1329344872' post='2387675'] Preach it brother! Haha Yes and for the gals, please give us *clearer* signals, I mean we don't carry around decoder rings! [/quote] I think there's a lot of mix up because girls want to give clear signals (but at least for me) I don't wanna put myself out there if the GUY isn't interested. And that's not always very clear either, whether you guys mean to be vague or not. Let's just face it the two sexes communicate differently and this causes LOTS of problems. I don't think it's necessarily fair to blame one sex more than the other, either. (Though if I had to choose, I'd definitely say that I think it's more difficult to decipher guy signals, lol. ) I don't think if you are looking for signs you should be looking on the superficial level. The signs that a girl likes a guy go beyond flirting. I flirt with a bunch of guys (and I stand by the statement that there is nothing wrong with flirting) But the only ones that I've ever liked are the ones with whom I've held meaningful conversations, sometimes about nothing. (figure that one out, guys!) That's my $0.02. I think there's a lot of hesitancy at both ends which smells of elderberries. No guy wants to be rejected. No girl wants to be vulnerable. I also think a lot if it is just intuition. Generally people can tell when someone likes someone else. There's just a lot of second guessing going on. I have to say, though, I'd rather date the kind of guy who doesn't ask if it's ok if he holds my hand or kisses me, but the kind who just does it. I would definitely let him know if it wasn't ok. but if he asks, it's just kind of... meh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tinytherese Posted February 16, 2012 Share Posted February 16, 2012 [quote name='missionseeker' timestamp='1329372990' post='2387877'] I have to say, though, I'd rather date the kind of guy who doesn't ask if it's ok if he holds my hand or kisses me, but the kind who just does it. I would definitely let him know if it wasn't ok. but if he asks, it's just kind of... meh. [/quote] I on the other hand would be creeped out if a guy holds my hand out of the bleu or kisses me if we do not declare ourselves a couple. If we are a couple then yea, he doesn't need to ask. That's one of the things that annoyed me about my ex boyfriend when we were together. Don't ask, just do. As you "zone in" a girl will let you know if she doesn't want a kiss. I agree as far as the mixed signals go with both sexes though. Girls have the tendency of reading too much into what a guy does around them whereas the guys tend to be oblivious to hints that girls give. I've learned the hard way that unless a guy specifically tells you that he is attracted to you, not to read into anything that he does around you. Complimenting a girl and being kind to her generally leads her to think that you like her. When she learns that he is just like that, then this can result in hurt feelings. Also, if a man is supposed to pursue a woman, wouldn't a woman who directly tells him that she is attracted to him be going against that standard? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missionseeker Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 well I definitely did NOT mean that any random guy could just kiss me. lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paladin D Posted February 17, 2012 Share Posted February 17, 2012 The three above posts further show the need for women to GIVE CLEAR SIGNALS! That is all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Norseman82 Posted February 18, 2012 Share Posted February 18, 2012 [quote name='Paladin D' timestamp='1329344872' post='2387675'] Yes and for the gals, please give us *clearer* signals, I mean we don't carry around decoder rings! [/quote] You mean you didn't get the memo? We're supposed to be clairvoyant mind-readers! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kayte Postle Posted February 18, 2012 Share Posted February 18, 2012 I love this article! Thank you for sharing it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zealousrap Posted February 19, 2012 Author Share Posted February 19, 2012 haha glad to have sparked such a lively discussion! The goal was to try to shed some light and encourage ladies in your walk to sainthood. Obviously all topics on male female communication go much deeper than I did in the blog I do agree that we think and communicate differently, but in a complimentary way once you get on the same page. Also, cat ladies are girls who have 3 or more cats and treat them like children or human beings...think Angela from "The Office" That's just gross! Thanks for the positive feedback! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Norseman82 Posted February 19, 2012 Share Posted February 19, 2012 (edited) [quote name='zealousrap' timestamp='1329616478' post='2389103'] Also, cat ladies are girls who have 3 or more cats and treat them like children or human beings...[/quote] Well, I can't say I'm much better - when I had two dogs, I treated them like they were my children. Edited February 19, 2012 by Norseman82 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missionseeker Posted February 19, 2012 Share Posted February 19, 2012 [quote name='Paladin D' timestamp='1329522813' post='2388726'] The three above posts further show the need for women to GIVE CLEAR SIGNALS! That is all. [/quote] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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