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eagle_eye222001

This is Eagle_eye and I approve Zealous' message.


I am not against a modest use of make-up....but when your whole face is a mask.....it makes me think....."I wonder what that girl's face REALLY looks like?" :think:

I don't want to fall in love with a mask....... :smurf:

For clothes.....less isn't purely better..........I won't go to war for that. :concede: ....

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[quote name='MIkolbe' timestamp='1329335524' post='2387610']
I will be showing this to my daughters when the time comes.

Thanks, Z
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I thought they were going to be nuns.

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missionseeker

[quote name='Paladin D' timestamp='1329344872' post='2387675']
Preach it brother! Haha

Yes and for the gals, please give us *clearer* signals, I mean we don't carry around decoder rings!
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I think there's a lot of mix up because girls want to give clear signals (but at least for me) I don't wanna put myself out there if the GUY isn't interested. And that's not always very clear either, whether you guys mean to be vague or not. Let's just face it the two sexes communicate differently and this causes LOTS of problems. I don't think it's necessarily fair to blame one sex more than the other, either. (Though if I had to choose, I'd definitely say that I think it's more difficult to decipher guy signals, :| lol. ) I don't think if you are looking for signs you should be looking on the superficial level. The signs that a girl likes a guy go beyond flirting. I flirt with a bunch of guys (and I stand by the statement that there is nothing wrong with flirting) But the only ones that I've ever liked are the ones with whom I've held meaningful conversations, sometimes about nothing. (figure that one out, guys!)

That's my $0.02. I think there's a lot of hesitancy at both ends which smells of elderberries. No guy wants to be rejected. No girl wants to be vulnerable. I also think a lot if it is just intuition. Generally people can tell when someone likes someone else. There's just a lot of second guessing going on. I have to say, though, I'd rather date the kind of guy who doesn't ask if it's ok if he holds my hand or kisses me, but the kind who just does it. I would definitely let him know if it wasn't ok. :| but if he asks, it's just kind of... meh.

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[quote name='missionseeker' timestamp='1329372990' post='2387877']
I have to say, though, I'd rather date the kind of guy who doesn't ask if it's ok if he holds my hand or kisses me, but the kind who just does it. I would definitely let him know if it wasn't ok. :| but if he asks, it's just kind of... meh.
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I on the other hand would be creeped out if a guy holds my hand out of the bleu or kisses me if we do not declare ourselves a couple. If we are a couple then yea, he doesn't need to ask. That's one of the things that annoyed me about my ex boyfriend when we were together. Don't ask, just do. As you "zone in" a girl will let you know if she doesn't want a kiss.

I agree as far as the mixed signals go with both sexes though. Girls have the tendency of reading too much into what a guy does around them whereas the guys tend to be oblivious to hints that girls give. I've learned the hard way that unless a guy specifically tells you that he is attracted to you, not to read into anything that he does around you. Complimenting a girl and being kind to her generally leads her to think that you like her. When she learns that he is just like that, then this can result in hurt feelings.

Also, if a man is supposed to pursue a woman, wouldn't a woman who directly tells him that she is attracted to him be going against that standard?

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[quote name='Paladin D' timestamp='1329344872' post='2387675']
Yes and for the gals, please give us *clearer* signals, I mean we don't carry around decoder rings!
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You mean you didn't get the memo? We're supposed to be clairvoyant mind-readers!

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haha glad to have sparked such a lively discussion! The goal was to try to shed some light and encourage ladies in your walk to sainthood. Obviously all topics on male female communication go much deeper than I did in the blog :popcorn2:

I do agree that we think and communicate differently, but in a complimentary way once you get on the same page.
Also, cat ladies are girls who have 3 or more cats and treat them like children or human beings...think Angela from "The Office"
That's just gross!

Thanks for the positive feedback!

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[quote name='zealousrap' timestamp='1329616478' post='2389103']
Also, cat ladies are girls who have 3 or more cats and treat them like children or human beings...[/quote]

Well, I can't say I'm much better - when I had two dogs, I treated them like they were my children.

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missionseeker

[quote name='Paladin D' timestamp='1329522813' post='2388726']
The three above posts further show the need for women to GIVE CLEAR SIGNALS!

That is all.

:getaclue:
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rotfl

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