theculturewarrior Posted June 18, 2004 Share Posted June 18, 2004 praying... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil Red Posted June 18, 2004 Share Posted June 18, 2004 :group: :group: hugs and prayers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littleflower+JMJ Posted June 18, 2004 Share Posted June 18, 2004 oh im so sorry to hear that Azriel!! we will surely pray for them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azriel Posted August 3, 2004 Author Share Posted August 3, 2004 Bump It appears that Divorce is imminent. This is not something that Danielle's Godmother wants. She is in a very bad situation. If anyone knows of any good resources for Catholic women regarding divorce - I would appreciate it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Posted August 3, 2004 Share Posted August 3, 2004 I wish I had resources, but for now all I can offer is prayers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil Red Posted August 3, 2004 Share Posted August 3, 2004 is there Retrouvialle (sp?) in their area? [url="http://www.retrouvaille.org/"]http://www.retrouvaille.org/[/url] otherwise, i don't know! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azriel Posted August 3, 2004 Author Share Posted August 3, 2004 I think that there is Red, but unfortunately ... he isn't living at home, and has unequivocately stated that there will be no reconcilliation. Its very sad, and I'm at my wits end ... there is a tremendous financial burden, as well as, all of the emotional mess with their daughter ... and of course the grief associated with the loss of their son. Thanks for the prayers guys ... I know that those are what are needed more than anything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theculturewarrior Posted August 3, 2004 Share Posted August 3, 2004 I don't know of any good resources, but have prayed and will continue to do so. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cmotherofpirl Posted August 3, 2004 Share Posted August 3, 2004 [quote name='Azriel' date='Aug 3 2004, 11:22 AM'] Bump It appears that Divorce is imminent. This is not something that Danielle's Godmother wants. She is in a very bad situation. If anyone knows of any good resources for Catholic women regarding divorce - I would appreciate it. [/quote] Check with your local diocese and call her priest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azriel Posted September 9, 2004 Author Share Posted September 9, 2004 Keep praying ya'll. Things have not gotten any better. And as a side note ... any ideas on how myself and my husband deal with our relationships with the two of them? My hubby has been best friends with Danielle's Godfather forever, and I've pretty much adopted her Godmother as my sister. While we have made it clear we don't agree with his decision, neither of us are willing totally sever our relationship with him. Both of us feel that there is some severe emotional issues that he is having that has caused this situation. Argh. Help! I'm so stressed out about this whole situation, I can't think straight! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cmotherofpirl Posted September 9, 2004 Share Posted September 9, 2004 (edited) Oh Az I am so sorry. That is such a hard thing to deal with and it is impossible to stay neutral. No matter what you do someone will be hurt. When my husband abandoned us, my best friend said she was not going to take sides. I was devastated, and it took 10 years to forgive her. I had always thought so would be in my corner of life. Maybe your husband can support the godfather, and you support the godmother, and try to keep some sort of balance. Maybe you and your husband could pray together for them. Be very careful it doesn't wreck havoc in your own marriage. The husband needs to understand that running away from his marriage will not remove his pain, he carries it inside himeself until he deals with it. Does Make-A-Wish have any kind of after-care program to deal with grief? Edited September 9, 2004 by cmotherofpirl Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azriel Posted September 9, 2004 Author Share Posted September 9, 2004 Thanks mom It really is a hard situation. It feels that no matter what we do, something is going to go wrong. I'm not sure about Make a Wish - Tristan was the recipient of a Make a wish trip...I know that they have been in contact since his death. I'll have to do some checking. Thanks again. :hearts: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Theoketos Posted September 9, 2004 Share Posted September 9, 2004 I will sacrafice myslefishness for them today. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Azriel Posted September 9, 2004 Author Share Posted September 9, 2004 Bump Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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