4588686 Posted September 20, 2011 Share Posted September 20, 2011 (edited) Met a nice girl. She's kind of quirky, some problems with low self-esteem, but I liked her. I thought she was a genuinely interesting person and I did want to get to know her better. We went on a date(ish) dinner that lasted three hours. It was nice. A lot of talking and laughing. The next weekend she and a friend invited me to go out with them to a party. She was kind of distant that night and we got to the party and split up. Some girl asked me to dance and we ended up making out publicly. We were both pretty drunk, by the way. Needless to say the girl I actually liked has since been somewhat distant and somehow I doubt that it's going to work out. Let that be a lesson to you, kids. Never let a drunken moment's frustrations compel you to go for the low-hanging fruit [img]http://www.strugglinginvestor.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/LessonsLearned-300x203.png[/img] Edited September 20, 2011 by Hasan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missionseeker Posted September 20, 2011 Share Posted September 20, 2011 I think I've been telling you this for the last like... three years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4588686 Posted September 20, 2011 Author Share Posted September 20, 2011 [quote name='missionseeker' timestamp='1316539337' post='2307635'] I think I've been telling you this for the last like... three years. [/quote] Probably. I guess life is funny like that. Sometimes you never know what you have till it's gone and then the thing happens to you know existentialism. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missionseeker Posted September 20, 2011 Share Posted September 20, 2011 (edited) Yeah well... I wish I could tell you how much it smells of elderberries to be the one who is meaningless until they are gone... If you have any intention of ever apologizing or anything, do it now. Maybe she won't punch you. Or kick you where it hurts. Though I'd be all for her doing so. But even if she rejects it, she would appreciate your saying "well.. you really weren't just a game for me. I'm just a copper posser" Edited September 20, 2011 by missionseeker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vincent Vega Posted September 20, 2011 Share Posted September 20, 2011 [redacted] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4588686 Posted September 20, 2011 Author Share Posted September 20, 2011 (edited) . Edited September 20, 2011 by Hasan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4588686 Posted September 20, 2011 Author Share Posted September 20, 2011 [quote name='missionseeker' timestamp='1316540140' post='2307638'] Yeah well... I wish I could tell you how much it smells of elderberries to be the one who is meaningless until they are gone... If you have any intention of ever apologizing or anything, do it now. Maybe she won't punch you. Or kick you where it hurts. Though I'd be all for her doing so. But even if she rejects it, she would appreciate your saying "well.. you really weren't just a game for me. I'm just a copper posser" [/quote] I can't tell if she cares or not. I ran into her on the elevator two days ago and she and that girl were joking around with me about me and the girl. So I can't tell if she's passive aggressive, hurt and making up for it, or just really doesn't care. I'm going to try to talk with her at some point this week. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ardillacid Posted September 20, 2011 Share Posted September 20, 2011 Booze always gets the blame Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missionseeker Posted September 20, 2011 Share Posted September 20, 2011 [quote name='Hasan' timestamp='1316540627' post='2307645'] I can't tell if she cares or not. I ran into her on the elevator two days ago and she and that girl were joking around with me about me and the girl. So I can't tell if she's passive aggressive, hurt and making up for it, or just really doesn't care. I'm going to try to talk with her at some point this week. [/quote] Almost every girl cares when a dude who made it seem like he's interested goes with her to a party and makes out with someone else. Maybe she is just pretending so you don't know how MUCH she cares. Maybe she doesn't really know how else to interact with you. Maybe she's trying to make it less awkward. But honestly? The odds that she doesn't care? About 0.01% Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4588686 Posted September 20, 2011 Author Share Posted September 20, 2011 [quote name='ardillacid' timestamp='1316540739' post='2307647'] Booze always gets the blame [/quote] Well. My stupidity is to blame. The booze just lent a helping hand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Winchester Posted September 20, 2011 Share Posted September 20, 2011 [img]http://fastcache.gawkerassets.com/assets/images/7/2010/09/tucker.jpg[/img] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MIKolbe Posted September 20, 2011 Share Posted September 20, 2011 in & out burger! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4588686 Posted September 20, 2011 Author Share Posted September 20, 2011 [quote name='missionseeker' timestamp='1316540846' post='2307649'] Almost every girl cares when a dude who made it seem like he's interested goes with her to a party and makes out with someone else. Maybe she is just pretending so you don't know how MUCH she cares. Maybe she doesn't really know how else to interact with you. Maybe she's trying to make it less awkward. But honestly? The odds that she doesn't care? About 0.01% [/quote] floopy. Alright. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vincent Vega Posted September 20, 2011 Share Posted September 20, 2011 Just buy her flowers. It's like runnin a magnet across a harddrive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MIKolbe Posted September 20, 2011 Share Posted September 20, 2011 no offense, but for a guy as smart as you are, you really have no clue sometimes... i say that with love. ETA-- originally directed at hasan... now also directed at USAir. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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