What Are Your Lenten Resolutions?

[franciscanheart]

[quote name='Chamomile' timestamp='1299344142' post='2218246']
I read this in a newsletter I receive, and I think its a good reminder about [i]why[/i] we give up things for Lent. For those who are still struggling to find something to fulfill the disciplines of prayer, fasting, and almsgiving, meditating on the purpose of these things might help you. Please read this...







Emphasis added by me... I bolded that part about chocolate because I do think it can help some people to abstain from that (in terms of giving up pleasure - I usually give up some little food/drink treat every Lent!). But as he goes on to say, it would probably be more beneficial to focus our energies on something substantial that will really require some effort beyond just saying "no" to an occasional treat.

It helps me to just write out a simple list like this:

[b]Prayer:
Fasting:
Almsgiving:[/b]

and then write out next to those words what I plan to do for those disciplines. I've been using the season of Septuagesima to sort of test these things out and really think about what I should do - and what I'm actually capable of doing! So my list has been edited a few times, and God does bring things to your mind and heart when you are looking for ways to grow in holiness and offer yourself for others.

Pax!
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I'd really love to read the whole thing. Would you consider sending it to me?

[franciscanheart]

[b][size="6"]Lent: A Time of Fasting and Feasting
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a repost from lent '06, originally posted on my blog at that time.

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Yes, it's true. We can fast [b]and[/b] feast this Lent. I have seen this on a few journals and I really like it. I liked it enough to pass it along in fact.

+Fast from judging others ... feast on the Christ indwelling in them.
[i]It is easy to judge others and not ourselves. Let us purify ourselves of this today and share in the piece of Christ that is in each person we meet.[/i]

+Fast from emphasis on differences ... feast on the unity of life.
[i]We are called to unite our sufferings especially during this Lenten season. Let us gather together and bear our crosses as one people in the name of Christ.[/i]

+Fast from apparent darkness ... feast on the reality of light.
[i]It is easy to be burdened by troubles of this world but let us not forget the ever radiant light which is God's love for us.[/i]

+Fast from thoughts of illness ... feast on the healing power of God.
[i]Let us shift our focus from our physical pains and realize more deeply the spiritual healing God makes available to us, especially in the sacrament of reconciliation.[/i]

+Fast from words that pollute ... feast on phrases that purify.
[i]Especially during this season let us question ourselves on everything we think, do, or say: Is it true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?[/i]

+Fast from discontent ... feast on gratitude.
[i]Praise God and give thanks for His abundant blessings. Let us rejoice in our dry periods and hold fast to the grace and mercy of God.[/i]

+Fast from anger ... feast on patience.
[i]It is easy to be angry and more challenging to be patient. During this season, let us work more than ever on the virtue of patience (and charity).[/i]

+Fast from pessimism ... feast on optimism.
[i]When things aren't going our way we hiss and pout. Let us instead find the lessons in each thing we do, whether they happen according to our preference or not.[/i]

+Fast from worry ... feast on divine order.
[i]When things get us down it is difficult to remember the bright side of this. Let us pray for confidence in Him and ask for our hearts to be molded to His Divine Will.[/i]

+Fast from complaining ... feast on appreciation.
[i]God has blessed each of us abundantly. Let us be appreciative of each hidden blessing and not allow our sour attitudes ruin a chance for grace and growth.[/i]

+Fast from negatives ... feast on affirmatives.
[i]This Lent, instead of criticizing or fingering each wrong decision, let us provide those whom we love with affirmations of their purposeful strides to overcome sin and attain sainthood.[/i]

+Fast from unrelenting pressures ... feast on unceasing prayer.
[i]If we live each moment as a prayer we should more appropriately and successfully accomplish those things which are in line with His Divine Will.[/i]

+Fast from hostility ... feast on resistance.
[i]Let us this Lent resist the temptation to foster hostility. Let us shine forth at all times the light of Christ's love.[/i]

+Fast from bitterness ... feast on forgiveness.
[i]Let go of trivial emotions which hinder forgiveness. God who is all loving and all good forgives each of those who seek reconciliation. Let us not deny our brothers and sisters in Christ.[/i]

+Fast from self-concern ... feast on compassion for others.
[i]So many times we are self-centered and self-loving. Let us this Lent turn from our own needs and offer our attention to the needs of the lowliest of these.[/i]

+Fast from personal anxiety ... feast on eternal truth.
[i]It is easy to be consumed in this world by the trials of daily life. Let us seek out His promises and hold fast to them always.[/i]

+Fast from discouragement ... feast on hope.
[i]Do not dispair. God has a plan and in it there is much hope. Believe that He knows better than even ourselves what is best. Trust Him and He will see you through.[/i]

+Fast from facts that depress ... feast on truths that uplift.
[i]Instead of dwelling on the negatives of our surroundings, we should seek out the truths that inspire and uplift us. Let us not seek our own depression but do everything in our power to remain hopeful.[/i]

+Fast from lethargy ... feast on enthusiasm.
[i]Productiveness in faith is the most important in all of our lives. Let us enthusiastically learn about our faith and grow closer to our God.[/i]

+Fast from suspicion ... feast on truth.
[i]Speculation and assumption should be left to the lawyers of the world. Instead of harboring ill thoughts due to suspicion, rejoice in what you know.[/i]

+Fast from thoughts that weaken ... feast on promises that inspire.
[i]The devil will tempt us and lead us to feel and think we are alone and abandoned. Turn from the evil one and remember what God has promised us.[/i]

+Fast from shadows of sorrow ... feast on sunlight of renity.
[i]Sorrowful distractions are from the evil one and prevent us from focusing on the healing power and the overwhelming mercy of our God. Let us turn from these and focus on Christ in the Eucharist. He who saves us will comfort us.[/i]

+Fast from idle gossip ... feast on purposeful silence.
[i]Let us refrain from anything that is not kind, true, and necessary. Let us spend this time quietly in the everlasting presence of God.[/i]
If we can do these things I believe our Lenten season will be truly blessed. Think about it. Use it. ENJOY IT. [All of the italicized text are my own words. I despair at their inadequacy but recognize a chance to grow in humility. I pray my efforts are not in vain but rather prove to be a grace from God.]

Sts. Francis and Clare, pray for us! St. Thomas Aquinas, the dumb ox, pray for us! St. Maria Goretti, pray for us! St. John of the Cross, pray for us! All the angels and saints, pray for us!


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I wrote this five years ago so it could use some work haha but it's alright. The fast/feast lines are not mine, only the words after each. Even being an "old"meditation, I enjoy it.

[OnlySunshine]

[quote name='vee8' timestamp='1299350587' post='2218270']
I think for Lent I'm going to stop being mean to Therese and DS....







and just ignore them both completely!!!!!
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If you do that, Therese is bound to get a megaphone and yell in your ear!

[img]http://bjoneal.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/red-megaphone.gif[/img]

[franciscanheart]

[quote name='vee8' timestamp='1299350587' post='2218270']
I think for Lent I'm going to stop being mean to Therese and DS....









and just ignore them both completely!!!!!
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[Chamomile]

[quote name='franciscanheart' timestamp='1299384959' post='2218445']

Yes, it's true. We can fast [b]and[/b] feast this Lent. I have seen this on a few journals and I really like it. I liked it enough to pass it along in fact.

etc....
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Wow, I really like this! It's such a good reminder when we're in the "desert" - we are never alone, and we have an abundance of good things from the Lord even in our poverty.

And I'll send the rest of that newsletter piece to you sometime this week

[Lisa]

For lent, I will be giving up my personal facebook. Unfortunately, for my job I have to post on our company's page everyday, so it will be tempting to say the least. Prayers for all of you that your fasting/feasting during Lent will draw you closer to Christ's passion and resurrection!

[franciscanheart]

[quote name='Chamomile' timestamp='1299427460' post='2218498']
Wow, I really like this! It's such a good reminder when we're in the "desert" - we are never alone, and we have an abundance of good things from the Lord even in our poverty.

And I'll send the rest of that newsletter piece to you sometime this week
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Yes! (And thanks for passing along the newsletter! I appreciate it.)

[Tony]

abstaining from caffeine, getting out of bed the moment the alarm goes off (or earlier), and praying a rosary Daily. should probably read the gospels too Wish I could fit in almsgiving somehow..

Edited March 6, 2011 by Tony

[franciscanheart]

I can't give up phatmass: I'm a mod!

[OnlySunshine]

I've tried giving up Phatmass in the past. One time, I swore it off because I was a little upset over something (I don't even remember what it was now), but it didn't last long. It's too much fun here!

[Chamomile]

[quote name='Tony' timestamp='1299439321' post='2218552']
abstaining from caffeine, getting out of bed the moment the alarm goes off (or earlier)
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Uh oh. Seems like these two things together are going to be tough unless you've been weaning yourself from caffeine in preparation

[Cherie]

You all are so inspiring I thought, "There's no way I can give up Facebook!" but since I saw a lot of you here are doing that, I'm going to do it, as well. Phatmass I will keep, since it's Catholic and it's always good for me to see like-minded Catholics ... but I can imagine I might be seeing fewer people on here

My Lenten "resolutions" are:

Giving up Facebook (except for Sundays), giving up sweets/desserts and sugar in my coffee, reading St. Therese's "Story of a Soul" again, plus the letters of her mother, Bd. Zelie Martin (one of my favorite Saints), and continuing my prayer of the Liturgy of the Hours, plus Night Prayer, and making sure to pray the Chaplet of Divine Mercy with my baby boy at 3:00pm everyday. I'd like to try to go to daily Mass again, but that's not specifically part of my "resolutions," since the church is rather far away, the Mass is very early, and it's very hard with a young baby who doesn't follow much of a schedule yet. But on the days I can, I will go


Also, anything specifically related to religious life, for those of you discerning?

[emilier98]

[quote name='CherieMadame' timestamp='1299550850' post='2219009']
Also, anything specifically related to religious life, for those of you discerning?
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For me going to daily mass, praying the rosary, and spending time in adoration are part of me discerning. I want to start living a lifestyle similar to the Dominican sisters.

[OnlySunshine]

[quote name='CherieMadame' timestamp='1299550850' post='2219009']
Also, anything specifically related to religious life, for those of you discerning?
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Since I am still considering Consecrated Virginity, I'm planning to read the biographies of my favorite consecrated virgin saints, St. Catherine of Siena and St. Rose of Lima. I already wrote a little biography on my new blog (which is also part of my Lenten resolution) about St. Catherine.

http://littlelambofgod.xanga.com/

Also, I plan to read more about the documents and really try hard to live a chaste and pure life by abstaining from impure movies and television. There is so much sex in entertainment these days, and I don't need the temptations.

[TeresaBenedicta]

[quote name='CherieMadame' timestamp='1299550850' post='2219009']
You all are so inspiring I thought, "There's no way I can give up Facebook!" but since I saw a lot of you here are doing that, I'm going to do it, as well. Phatmass I will keep, since it's Catholic and it's always good for me to see like-minded Catholics ... but I can imagine I might be seeing fewer people on here

My Lenten "resolutions" are:

Giving up Facebook (except for Sundays), giving up sweets/desserts and sugar in my coffee, reading St. Therese's "Story of a Soul" again, plus the letters of her mother, Ven. Zelie Martin (one of my favorite Saints), and continuing my prayer of the Liturgy of the Hours, plus Night Prayer, and making sure to pray the Chaplet of Divine Mercy with my baby boy at 3:00pm everyday. I'd like to try to go to daily Mass again, but that's not specifically part of my "resolutions," since the church is rather far away, the Mass is very early, and it's very hard with a young baby who doesn't follow much of a schedule yet. But on the days I can, I will go [/quote]

You go, CM!! I especially love the praying of the Divine Mercy Chaplet with your son. Have you ever heard the singing version? That might be an extra special way of praying it with him, especially since he's so little. Babies really connect with music. I used to sing the Salve Regina with my little niece while rocking her to sleep.