rkwright Posted January 16, 2011 Share Posted January 16, 2011 hasan... be careful my friend. What if that girl didn't have a b/f, or you didn't think to stop. Don't get caught in these situations, be careful how much you drink. I always thought of it this way: Your conscience is the only thing that keeps you from sin (or bad decisions in general). By choosing to drink/get drunk you are choosing to weaken your only defense against sin. Set your limits, and stick to them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lilllabettt Posted January 16, 2011 Share Posted January 16, 2011 I had a roommate. She got drunk. She came home and knocked into the tv, smashing it to bits on the floor. Then she sat on the toilet, door open, underwear down, for 3 hours, non-responsive. Waking up, she stumbled to her bed, where she vomited, pooped, and wet herself. Then she slept in it. Drinking can be fun. Being drunk is not. Only stupid idiots get drunk on purpose Only immature little boys/girls get drunk on accident Whichever you are, Hassan, fix it, and you won't have these problems no more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MIKolbe Posted January 16, 2011 Share Posted January 16, 2011 i know this sounds crazy to anyone in college, but maybe ease up on the alcohol. praying for you dude. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YMNolan Posted January 16, 2011 Share Posted January 16, 2011 [quote name='Lilllabettt' timestamp='1295202924' post='2200767'] I had a roommate. She got drunk. She came home and knocked into the tv, smashing it to bits on the floor. Then she sat on the toilet, door open, underwear down, for 3 hours, non-responsive. Waking up, she stumbled to her bed, where she vomited, pooped, and wet herself. Then she slept in it. Drinking can be fun. Being drunk is not. Only stupid idiots get drunk on purpose Only immature little boys/girls get drunk on accident Whichever you are, Hassan, fix it, and you won't have these problems no more. [/quote] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4588686 Posted January 16, 2011 Author Share Posted January 16, 2011 [quote name='Lilllabettt' timestamp='1295202924' post='2200767'] I had a roommate. She got drunk. She came home and knocked into the tv, smashing it to bits on the floor. Then she sat on the toilet, door open, underwear down, for 3 hours, non-responsive. Waking up, she stumbled to her bed, where she vomited, pooped, and wet herself. Then she slept in it. Drinking can be fun. Being drunk is not. Only stupid idiots get drunk on purpose Only immature little boys/girls get drunk on accident Whichever you are, Hassan, fix it, and you won't have these problems no more. [/quote] Thank you, a very good point. I drank more than I intended to be sure and I should have had a better handle on it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LaPetiteSoeur Posted January 17, 2011 Share Posted January 17, 2011 Ok. Just my two cents: If you don't want to get into messy situations with [i]anyone[/i], don't drink, or at least drink responsibly. Treat women with respect. Always. If you don't want her to feel awkward, apologize and don't ever get drunk with her again! Drinking can make inner demons come out, trust me. Moderation is key. Go to confession, if Catholic, and attempt to do better. Fini. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
southern california guy Posted January 17, 2011 Share Posted January 17, 2011 [quote name='Semper Catholic' timestamp='1295161526' post='2200699'] Deal with it Haters. Hasan's friend doesn't get a pass because she got liquored up and has a crappy boyfriend. An absence of male reproductive organs does not mean you shouldn't be responsible for your actions, neither does it mean you should be given a pat on the head and an"oh it's ok." This girl cheated on her boyfriend and tried to take advantage of him. Luckily he was sensible enough to stop her. And now he should apologize? Hasan I'd email her boyfriend and tell him just what kind of girl she really is. Oh and I'm not drunk either, how Christian of you to assume I was. Watched the packers-falcons with my gf and made her some awesome rigatoni and shrimp. [/quote] Oh com'on the alcohol aside Hassan probably enjoyed this -- at least a little tiny bit -- which is why he let it go this far. And Hassan if she is denying that it happened than she's a little embarrassed about it too. Believe me she remembers! If I were you I wouldn't talk about it with her. You guys both know what happened and I wouldn't tell her boyfriend. If you brag to him that his girlfriend almost did it with you -- than he's probably not going to be really grateful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarkKurallSchuenemann Posted January 17, 2011 Share Posted January 17, 2011 [quote name='notardillacid' timestamp='1295172275' post='2200715'] You are my hero [/quote] I love your avatar. Enjoy - [img]http://sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc4/hs795.snc4/67583_1641390555267_1251922529_31758817_721067_n.jpg[/img] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil Red Posted January 17, 2011 Share Posted January 17, 2011 [quote name='southern california guy' timestamp='1295227843' post='2200868'] Oh com'on the alcohol aside Hassan probably enjoyed this -- at least a little tiny bit -- which is why he let it go this far. And Hassan if she is denying that it happened than she's a little embarrassed about it too. Believe me she remembers! If I were you I wouldn't talk about it with her. You guys both know what happened and I wouldn't tell her boyfriend. If you brag to him that his girlfriend almost did it with you -- than he's probably not going to be really grateful. [/quote] Hassan, here's a hint. don't ever take advice like this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
southern california guy Posted January 17, 2011 Share Posted January 17, 2011 (edited) [quote name='Lil Red' timestamp='1295231279' post='2200882'] Hassan, here's a hint. don't ever take advice like this. [/quote] You'd recommend that he tells her "boyfriend"? For what reason? I'm going to take a wild guess that she's been having sex with her "boyfriend".. And that Hassan would not really be saving a really nice guy from a wild woman. And I'm going to take a wild guess that she is more interested in Hassan than her "boyfriend". So if Hassan goes and tells this guy that his "girlfriend" made a move for him -- than he's going to see Hassan as the guy that she wants more than him. Is this going to make him appreciative of Hassan? If I were the boyfriend and this little prick came and told me -- or e-mailed me -- that he went to my "girlfriends" bedroom and almost had sex with her (Excusing himself by saying that he'd been drinking), than I'd probably break up with her and go and punch the little prick out!! (Or at least I would feel like it.) It's not like a soap opera on TV where the "boyfriend" is going to come to Hassan and throw his arms around Hassan and cry on his shoulder "Why? Why are these women always cheating on me? Why?!" Guys aren't like that in real life.. Edited January 17, 2011 by southern california guy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 17, 2011 Share Posted January 17, 2011 Alcohol is tough. Its so good yet so bad. I've gave up drinking more times then I can count after nights like these. Yet I can never stay away for good. It is for sure addictive right up there with a drug like cocaine. And its probally just as dangerous to. I'm not against alcohol though and I am against cocaine. You just have to be mature and have self control when drinking. Its easier said then done though that's for sure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ice_nine Posted January 17, 2011 Share Posted January 17, 2011 [quote name='Semper Catholic' timestamp='1295161526' post='2200699'] Deal with it Haters. Hasan's friend doesn't get a pass because she got liquored up and has a crappy boyfriend. An absence of male reproductive organs does not mean you shouldn't be responsible for your actions, neither does it mean you should be given a pat on the head and an"oh it's ok." This girl cheated on her boyfriend and tried to take advantage of him. Luckily he was sensible enough to stop her. And now he should apologize? Hasan I'd email her boyfriend and tell him just what kind of girl she really is. Oh and I'm not drunk either, how Christian of you to assume I was. Watched the packers-falcons with my gf and made her some awesome rigatoni and shrimp. [/quote] You keep spouting off like a fratboy and you're offended that I half-joked with you about being drunk? I don't think anyone said what the girl did was "Oki dokies" but their inhibitions were affected and Hasan was the one who came here for advice SO I think most people are just saying, take responsibility for what you did wrong, even if the woman was wrong-er, and be a little more careful with your liquor. Not something like "cool story bro, just pretend it never happened lol at least you didn't make out with any fat chicks." And you chide me for being un-Christian. Seriously? [quote name='southern california guy' timestamp='1295232788' post='2200891'] It's not like a soap opera on TV where the "boyfriend" is going to come to Hassan and throw his arms around Hassan and cry on his shoulder "Why? Why are these women always cheating on me? Why?!" Guys aren't like that in real life.. [/quote] LOL. For the record I don't think anyone thinks this is how reality worx. Even us naive chicks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Semper Catholic Posted January 17, 2011 Share Posted January 17, 2011 [quote name='Ice_nine' timestamp='1295241344' post='2200925'] You keep spouting off like a fratboy and you're offended that I half-joked with you about being drunk? I don't think anyone said what the girl did was "Oki dokies" but their inhibitions were affected and Hasan was the one who came here for advice SO I think most people are just saying, take responsibility for what you did wrong, even if the woman was wrong-er, and be a little more careful with your liquor. Not something like "cool story bro, just pretend it never happened lol at least you didn't make out with any fat chicks." And you chide me for being un-Christian. Seriously? LOL. For the record I don't think anyone thinks this is how reality worx. Even us naive chicks [/quote] Most of what I said was tongue in cheek, mainly because it isn't a big deal, just an overly touchy girl getting shot down rightly so. Not a big deal at all. Of course the feminists over here want Hasan to apologize, when there is absolutely no reason to. Typical Rowe voters. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AudreyGrace Posted January 17, 2011 Share Posted January 17, 2011 [quote name='Semper Catholic' timestamp='1295242682' post='2200939'] Of course the feminists over here want Hasan to apologize, when there is absolutely no reason to. Typical Rowe voters. [/quote] 1. NOT a feminist. 2. Want him to be honest and truthful. That doesn't necessarily mean apologize. 3. Some things shouldn't be joked about.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ice_nine Posted January 17, 2011 Share Posted January 17, 2011 [quote name='Semper Catholic' timestamp='1295242682' post='2200939'] Most of what I said was tongue in cheek, mainly because it isn't a big deal, just an overly touchy girl getting shot down rightly so. Not a big deal at all. Of course the feminists over here want Hasan to apologize, when there is absolutely no reason to. Typical Rowe voters. [/quote] Is this another attempt at tongue-in-cheek humor? I have no problem with humor, just do it well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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