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[quote name='IcePrincessKRS' timestamp='1295139648' post='2200536']
You're just mad because he didn't get her to make him a sammich first. :saint:
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I don't expect him to fill his role, yet. He's one of those hipsters.

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[quote name='Winchester' timestamp='1295140013' post='2200540']
I don't expect him to fill his role, yet. He's one of those hipsters.
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Touche.

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But you look constipated.

I've started eating ground flax seed in my cereal or yogurt and now I hardly ever make that face.

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[quote name='Winchester' timestamp='1295140565' post='2200549']
But you look constipated.

I've started eating ground flax seed in my cereal or yogurt and now I hardly ever make that face.
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I was reading.

I am not having any constipation issues. But thank you for your concern.

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[quote name='Winchester' timestamp='1295141122' post='2200552']
Were you reading something with big words, because that's kind of the same look.
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I think I was memorizing junk for a class.... it was over a year ago. Plus, it's hard to be a girl taking a picture and a dude reading all at the same time.

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[quote name='IcePrincessKRS' timestamp='1295141957' post='2200557']
Plus, it's hard to be a girl taking a picture and a dude reading all at the same time.
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Winchester, see, it's a look of [i]confusion. [/i]

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~Sternhauser

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[quote name='Hasan' timestamp='1295130856' post='2200488']
So, I drank last night for the first time since Halloween. I wasn't well dressed and I wasn't looking to go out. I really just wanted to relax with some friends and have a fun night. This plan hit a road bump when a female friend tried to have sex with me. We were going to go outside the dorm with some other friends when she wanted to stop by her dorm. The next thing I knew her tongue was in my mouth and we were on her bed. I was pretty drunk so it got reasonably far when it clicked with me that this was a bad idea. She has a boyfriend, albeit one she is unhappy with, and would probably regret this the next day and I'm really not interested in a relationship with her. So I stopped that. She asked if we could pretend this never happened. I said of course. Then I ended up throwing up from way too much whiskey. So, that was not exactly the night I had planned. I've been asleep for most of the day but when I woke up she had texted me wanting to talk. Which I suppose needs to happen but I'm really not looking forward to it. I have a lot more drama in my life right now than I would like and I'm not really a pro-drama person. The main thing I want to get across is that it's not a big deal, she was drunk, I don't want her to feel awkward or embarrassed around me.



Who has any advice? Like specifically from women. What do you think would help her feel like she doesn't need to be awkward?
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I'm a girl, about to go to college, so I'd say my advice is fairly valid.

First off, if you know that drinking can lead you into that type of situation, dont drink at all or just drink with your guy friends. (avoid the near occasions of sin).

Granted her relationship with her bf is crappy, that still doesn't make the situation at all okay. It shouldn't even matter. It's not like it helps the situation or is an excuse. I can't see God looking down and saying "eh well her bf smells of elderberries, i'll let it slide."

Tell her the truth. If you don't, she'll be wondering about this for a very long time. She'll feel awkward for a very long time. And, this will come out and creep up on you guys in the future if you don't. I promise. Additionally, by this point, all her friends know about it. Don't think they don't. If you shun it off, they'll tell her to stop being friends with you. If you're honest, she'll be more inclined to be less awkward around you.
If she's embarrassed around you, that's her thing to deal with. Just break it to her gently.

Sorry if I sounded harsh, but I don't like to beat around the bush when it comes to these things.

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Not getting drunk in the first place is the smartest move you could ever make. Nothing good happens while you're drunk. At least in your life.

~Sternhauser

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[quote name='Semper Catholic' timestamp='1295133182' post='2200500']
Cool Story Bro.

Advice: Who cares? Just say you "blacked out" and don't remember. Or maybe she just wants to be with you instead of her bf, or needs a shoulder to cry on (lol friendzone).

Funny thing is if she doesn't remember and is like "LOL WUT R U talkin about"

Also why i don't drink Whiskey, always end up looking like a huge beta, crying, puking, or making out with fat chicks.
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Oh yeah, it's an awesome story, and lying is OBVIOUSLY the best way to handle this situation. I'm sure that's the groundbreaking advice he was asking for.

[quote][color=#595959][font=arial, verdana, sans-serif][size=4]>Girl is unhappy with bf[/size][/font][/color][color=#595959][font=arial, verdana, sans-serif][size=4]>takes you into her room
>tries to seduce you

[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#595959][font=arial, verdana, sans-serif][size=4]And he has to apologize? Lol for what?[/size][/font][/color][/quote]


Honestly, this makes me sick. Show some respect for women. Uphold their dignity as daughters of God. Sure she may have been in the wrong by doing this stuff, but it takes two to tango and it doesn't give you an excuse to blame it all on her and make a joke out of it. Rather than bringing your brother in Christ down, build him up to be a better person and a better Catholic.

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[quote name='Semper Catholic' timestamp='1295133182' post='2200500']
Cool Story Bro.

Advice: Who cares? Just say you "blacked out" and don't remember. Or maybe she just wants to be with you instead of her bf, or needs a shoulder to cry on (lol friendzone).

Funny thing is if she doesn't remember and is like "LOL WUT R U talkin about"

Also why i don't drink Whiskey, always end up looking like a huge beta, crying, puking, or making out with fat chicks.
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Oh yeah, it's an awesome story, and lying is OBVIOUSLY the best way to handle this situation. I'm sure that's the groundbreaking advice he was asking for.

[quote][color=#595959][font=arial, verdana, sans-serif][size=4]>Girl is unhappy with bf[/size][/font][/color][color=#595959][font=arial, verdana, sans-serif][size=4]>takes you into her room
>tries to seduce you

[/size][/font][/color]
[color=#595959][font=arial, verdana, sans-serif][size=4]And he has to apologize? Lol for what?[/size][/font][/color][/quote]


Honestly, this makes me sick. Show some respect for women. Uphold their dignity as daughters of God. Sure she may have been in the wrong by doing this stuff, but it takes two to tango and it doesn't give you an excuse to blame it all on her and make a joke out of it. Rather than bringing your brother in Christ down, build him up to be a better person and a better Catholic.

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[quote name='AudreyGrace' timestamp='1295147547' post='2200636']
Rather than bringing your brother in Christ down, build him up to be a better person and a better Catholic.
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While I completely respect your intent, I'm pretty sure he has to be Catholic before he can be a [i]better[/i] Catholic.

~Sternhauser

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