4588686 Posted January 15, 2011 Share Posted January 15, 2011 (edited) So, I drank last night for the first time since Halloween. I wasn't well dressed and I wasn't looking to go out. I really just wanted to relax with some friends and have a fun night. This plan hit a road bump when a female friend tried to have sex with me. We were going to go outside the dorm with some other friends when she wanted to stop by her dorm. The next thing I knew her tongue was in my mouth and we were on her bed. I was pretty drunk so it got reasonably far when it clicked with me that this was a bad idea. She has a boyfriend, albeit one she is unhappy with, and would probably regret this the next day and I'm really not interested in a relationship with her. So I stopped that. She asked if we could pretend this never happened. I said of course. Then I ended up throwing up from way too much whiskey. So, that was not exactly the night I had planned. I've been asleep for most of the day but when I woke up she had texted me wanting to talk. Which I suppose needs to happen but I'm really not looking forward to it. I have a lot more drama in my life right now than I would like and I'm not really a pro-drama person. The main thing I want to get across is that it's not a big deal, she was drunk, I don't want her to feel awkward or embarrassed around me. Who has any advice? Like specifically from women. What do you think would help her feel like she doesn't need to be awkward? Edited January 15, 2011 by Hasan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Winchester Posted January 15, 2011 Share Posted January 15, 2011 srsly Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Semper Catholic Posted January 15, 2011 Share Posted January 15, 2011 Cool Story Bro. Advice: Who cares? Just say you "blacked out" and don't remember. Or maybe she just wants to be with you instead of her bf, or needs a shoulder to cry on (lol friendzone). Funny thing is if she doesn't remember and is like "LOL WUT R U talkin about" Also why i don't drink Whiskey, always end up looking like a huge beta, crying, puking, or making out with fat chicks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CatherineM Posted January 15, 2011 Share Posted January 15, 2011 We all do things when we are drunk that we regret later. I once tried to take my shirt off in the middle of the street in front of all the Greek houses in college. Thank God I had a roommate big enough to prevent me from getting into more trouble. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4588686 Posted January 15, 2011 Author Share Posted January 15, 2011 [quote name='Semper Catholic' timestamp='1295133182' post='2200500'] Funny thing is if she doesn't remember and is like "LOL WUT R U talkin about" [/quote] Ha, that would be funny. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IcePrincessKRS Posted January 15, 2011 Share Posted January 15, 2011 [quote name='Semper Catholic' timestamp='1295133182' post='2200500'] Cool Story Bro. Advice: Who cares? Just say you "blacked out" and don't remember. Or maybe she just wants to be with you instead of her bf, or needs a shoulder to cry on (lol friendzone). Funny thing is if she doesn't remember and is like "LOL WUT R U talkin about" Also why i don't drink Whiskey, always end up looking like a huge beta, crying, puking, or making out with fat chicks. [/quote] Way to give craptastic advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4588686 Posted January 15, 2011 Author Share Posted January 15, 2011 [quote name='CatherineM' timestamp='1295133443' post='2200502'] We all do things when we are drunk that we regret later. I once tried to take my shirt off in the middle of the street in front of all the Greek houses in college. Thank God I had a roommate big enough to prevent me from getting into more trouble. [/quote] Haha. That's a funny thought. Crazy college Catherine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IcePrincessKRS Posted January 15, 2011 Share Posted January 15, 2011 [quote name='Hasan' timestamp='1295130856' post='2200488'] So, I drank last night for the first time since Halloween. I wasn't well dressed and I wasn't looking to go out. I really just wanted to relax with some friends and have a fun night. This plan hit a road bump when a female friend tried to have sex with me. We were going to go outside the dorm with some other friends when she wanted to stop by her dorm. The next thing I knew her tongue was in my mouth and we were on her bed. I was pretty drunk so it got reasonably far when it clicked with me that this was a bad idea. She has a boyfriend, albeit one she is unhappy with, and would probably regret this the next day and I'm really not interested in a relationship with her. So I stopped that. She asked if we could pretend this never happened. I said of course. Then I ended up throwing up from way too much whiskey. So, that was not exactly the night I had planned. I've been asleep for most of the day but when I woke up she had texted me wanting to talk. Which I suppose needs to happen but I'm really not looking forward to it. I have a lot more drama in my life right now than I would like and I'm not really a pro-drama person. The main thing I want to get across is that it's not a big deal, she was drunk, I don't want her to feel awkward or embarrassed around me. Who has any advice? Like specifically from women. What do you think would help her feel like she doesn't need to be award? [/quote] Apologize. Be honest. Tell her you didn't mean for it to happen and are not interested in her that way ( without being an arse about the situation). Lay off the whiskey. She might not end up pals with you but it will end up better than if you are a DB and lie about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Semper Catholic Posted January 15, 2011 Share Posted January 15, 2011 [quote name='IcePrincessKRS' timestamp='1295134012' post='2200507'] Apologize. Be honest. Tell her you didn't mean for it to happen and are not interested in her that way ( without being an arse about the situation). Lay off the whiskey. She might not end up pals with you but it will end up better than if you are a DB and lie about it. [/quote] >Girl is unhappy with bf >takes you into her room >tries to seduce you And he has to apologize? Lol for what? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ice_nine Posted January 16, 2011 Share Posted January 16, 2011 [quote name='Semper Catholic' timestamp='1295135023' post='2200509'] >Girl is unhappy with bf >takes you into her room >tries to seduce you And he has to apologize? Lol for what? [/quote] Are you srs? He admitted it got "reasonably far," so maybe apologize for that, as she might see it as he was leading her on or something. Sorry I was really drunk and let it get a little farther than I should have would probably suffice. If she's really hurt beyond that she probably has deeper psychological issues to work out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil Red Posted January 16, 2011 Share Posted January 16, 2011 the real sadness is you throwing up whiskey. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IcePrincessKRS Posted January 16, 2011 Share Posted January 16, 2011 [quote name='Semper Catholic' timestamp='1295135023' post='2200509'] >Girl is unhappy with bf >takes you into her room >tries to seduce you And he has to apologize? Lol for what? [/quote] For letting the situation get out of hand. He stopped it, and good on him, but he still allowed for it to get started when he normally wouldn't have. If he regrets letting it happen in the first place then yes, he should say he's sorry, he never meant for it to happen. I never said the girl wasn't at fault. He asked what HE should do, and for advice from women. I gave it and at least I didn't advise him to be a jerk like you did. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Winchester Posted January 16, 2011 Share Posted January 16, 2011 It's more dramatic if he stops it. And then tells everyone. And also was drunk. On whisky. It's like a Townes Van Zandt song. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IcePrincessKRS Posted January 16, 2011 Share Posted January 16, 2011 [quote name='Winchester' timestamp='1295139586' post='2200535'] It's more dramatic if he stops it. And then tells everyone. And also was drunk. On whisky. It's like a Townes Van Zandt song. [/quote] You're just mad because he didn't get her to make him a sammich first. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Micah Posted January 16, 2011 Share Posted January 16, 2011 So you both made a mistake.. Just tell her, yo we both made a mistake. Most good guy/girl friends have made out at one point or another. [img]http://www.phatmass.com/phorum/public/style_emoticons/default/drunks.gif[/img] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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