Philippe Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 ok well first of all this girl at school wears really really short skirts and she always wears urgh lets just say revealing underwear ? lets just say there might not be any... well today i was goin to math class after TA (Teacher Advisement) and the girl was there with the teacher and the teacher seemed infuriated (rightfully so since the girls skirt was barely a skirt) so the teacher wanted to call her mom and stuff (ya the teacher does that alot she thinks were in 3rd grade) but anyways so the teacher was like all saying its against dress code blah blah blah so i went up 2 her desk cause i had to hand in somethign and the teacher started letting out steam just saying to me "how can you wear a skirt that short blah blah blah" then she said to me "well im sure you dont mind at all" and IT MAKES ME SO MAD :angry: that all people and adults see teenage boys is sex driven slaves of lust and i do try hard to not lust but when people wear things like this it makes it really hard (rightfullly so) and i wish they wouldnt wear things like that because it just leads me and others to sin... well thanks for lettin me let off some steam what are your opinions of the matteR? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CreepyCrawler Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 (edited) you should have told her that you do mind her skirt b/c you think with your mind and not with your pants! i feel bad for you. but don't worry, if it's any consolation, i don't think you're a pervert Edited April 20, 2004 by CreepyCrawler Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paladin D Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 She needs a nice scout trooper costume. I agree, teens shouldn't be wearing such revealing clothes. Unfortunately since the majority of youth these days are sex-driven drones... we are lumped together with them. I don't believe it's intentional, but many adults get frusterated (well some teens too) with this, so she probally assumed you were a sex-driven drone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Philippe Posted April 20, 2004 Author Share Posted April 20, 2004 ya fo sho send her one paladin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iacobus Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 Give the girl some fruit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
willguy Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 I agree with LTer. I hate when people think that all teenage guys are sex-driven maniacs. I work so hard to control my lust, and it bites when people just automatically assume that I'm some sort of hormone ravaged kid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ilovechrist Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 you're right.. it's so hard for us guys to control our emotions, and we can't control much anger when people assume we're jerks like that.. we all need to stick together, as corny as it sounds keep it up LT! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crusader1234 Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 Well, the truth is we ARE hormone ravaged kids. I think theres a general assumption that none of us know how to control ourselves. Becuase lets be honest, whena girl looks hot, you are tempted. But some of us can deal with the tempation. Lol Paladin, still pushing the space burqa? In any event I would literally talk to the principle and be like listen the teacher insulted my Catholic values. I think thtas the best course of action. And of course, if your Catholic enough to PM, then chances are you know how to deal with urges. In any event, try not looking at her underwear haha and avoid the teacher. So yeah, we are hormone ravaged lustful kids, but we control the lust and we control the urges. God bless teenagers becuase I think dealing with sexual urges when hormones are involved is the hardest becuase hormones arent something we can control. This applies to both guys and girls. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fiat_Voluntas_Tua Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 Hormones can not be controlled...how we act when those hormones are released is controllable...very hard, but controllable. St. Wolfstan and many other male Saints, have thrown themselves into thowrn bushes and freezing lakes when the became very badly tempted. It is possible to overcome temptation. Pax et Agape per Maria, Andy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crusader1234 Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 exactly. make sure when you throw yourself in a lake you can get out though... i almost drowned going pier diving the water was so cold! but yeah, everyone pray for eachother so that we wont have to come to that point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
prov31girl Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 [quote name='crusader1234' date='Apr 19 2004, 09:26 PM'] God bless teenagers becuase I think dealing with sexual urges when hormones are involved is the hardest becuase hormones arent something we can control. This applies to both guys and girls. [/quote] Thank you for realizing that crusader. A lot of guys forget that females deal with raging hormones as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
homeschoolmom Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 I have to admit that I used to think that all teens (especially guys) are like that. (hanging out here certainly opened my eyes!) Things have changed a lot since when I was a teenager. When I was a teen, sex was acceptable, but not expected. And no one would get away with dressing like that at school. Now, I think sex is almost expected. And modesty is just not what it used to be. (and I'm not that old!) That's a lot of temptations that you all are subjected to. I really admire your desire to avoid sin and stay pure. That's really great. I pray for you guys... My kids will be teens someday... I just wonder what the world will be like then!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crusader1234 Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 Well if they are homeschooled they will be a little more sheltered im guessing, but yeah sex really is becoming expected these days. And as for guys and girls, I've alwyas known this. Any girl who says 'Boys are horny and annoying!' is showing a lack of rspect for herself and us guys. Its part of our anatomy! People need to open their eyes and respect everyone and help people to overcome these urges. I consider myself a forward thinker and respect everyones ideas, however I dont think that sex is an idea. Its a lack of self discipline. (Premarital sex that is... marital sex is a great thing). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
homeschoolmom Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 Frankly, I don't think a lot of girls understand that how they dress and act can really be a stumbling block for guys. They may think it's cute to get all the attention and stuff, but I don't think they realize how men are wired. It's really, really wrong to act in such a way. It's just mean. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crusader1234 Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 Lol, girls have the same amount of hormones... so dont go selling yourself out too quickly! Then agian us guys dont go around showing you our sixpacks ... at least not as much as you guys show us stuff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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